Am I the one?

Hello Readers

Hope you all are doing well.

In a war of ego the loser always wins.

-Anonymous

How many times have you felt that you have been trapped in a situation or felt bad about a situation that it happened only to you and it never happened to the person next to you whom you think it should have happened to , though I agree it is a bad thought to wish something bad to happen to someone, but it is a honest fact that we would have got such thoughts.

The reason why I wanted to talk about this theme is actually simple there is a urgent need and it must be addressed because I see many of my friends and some people in my family circles repenting and feeling bad when they compare themselves with others!.

We actually know that comparing is not a right thing to do but we end up doing it, which is also fine but when you think and feel that you are the one, I want to you to ask yourself one question when is that this question “Am I the one” come to your mind .

I think most of you will agree with what I am going to say, you feel too worried and sad when you are in a situation which is bad or negative, for instance you have sprained your leg or while driving you had a minor accident, of course I am generalizing that you would react in the above manner there will be definitely exceptions but I am talking about the typical behavior recorded.

But there is a contradiction to the above which is you do not complain or feel bad or think “if you were the one” when good things happen to you again for instance, you were selected among six of your colleagues to go on an assignment to some foreign country, have you thought am I the one that moment of time? I don’t think so.

You would not have told anything at that time because your ego will be jubilant and will voice your mind by saying of course you are the best that else will the opportunity go to other than you and so on.

My dear friends that is the mistake we make in life when something good happens with us we forget to thank that force which made it happen, that force you call it cosmic energy, God or anything you respect and consider it is higher than all the things in this world, we should start thanking this force which also makes people do what they do to make you experience those jubilant moments in our lives.

This life is  a constant fight within our mind and ego which has set certain standards and expectations  if not fulfilled we would be angry or unhappy and start feeling all bad things happen only with us and we think we are the ones who have not done any mistakes.

Please start leading a logical life and analyze the problems you face daily minus the ego and the emotions that will help you progress and also make your life more meaningful.

Stop judging yourself, that is the famous mistake done by mankind.

- George Bernard Shaw

Thanks for your time, have a great day ahead.

Efficacy

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well.

You have the capability to change your life all with a simple shift in perspective.

-Demi Lovato

"We develop each day both mentally and physically from the day you are  born" quoted a great scientist in the international  science congress, which was questioned by the consortium of scientists present there. The argument was about the very meaning of the word “develop” does it mean always a progressive curve?

Does it look simple to answer? Interestingly it took the scientist an year and a half to prove that it means: not only a progressive curve it may be also the other way round, he did not mean negatively but highlighted the point that what happens and which is considered as a change is called development and it is our judgment which brands it as a negative or a positive development. For example if you were say a 14 year old and now you are 24 year old, definitely you are a man from a boy now and you have also become more precise in your thoughts and views about the facts of this world., another way of looking at it is development can also be the progressive aging of a person which is called as old age and which is definitely inevitable and is the rule of nature. SO now if you see old age as a negative change or a development then that is your perspective towards life.

We are all aware that we have advanced in the fields of science and technology and also have invented machines which are ready to clean our houses help in cooking the list is almost endless.

Louis- Braille the person who gave the blind the power to read and write, and an great inspiration for looking at life at whole new perspective, through the inner eyes.

But still  I see that we ourselves and sometimes the people around us don’t seem to be happy and are often seen complaining that they are bored, now how does this happen.

The problem lays in the mindset, when you do things half-heartedly and for the sake of doing it we see our mind reacts in a mellow way and makes you feel bored.

Imagine you are working for a company and you nature of job is pretty monotonous it is very normal to get tired and bored of doing the same job but I have seen some people happy and always cheerful even there.

What keeps them happy it is simple they don’t consider their job as their life they first consider their life and then the job which is part of it.

We must all put our mind into something to really understand how things work. apart from that job you got into to satisfy yourself and earn few bucks this life has more to you all depends on what you see from your inner eye (the mind).

From today start practicing this put your mind on to anything you do and what has to be done, start solving your problems, I assure that, you will feel better and  more satisfied and happy. I am sure you can do more than what you think you can do!

Try it! It looks simple it’s again up to you to put your mind on it and make it simple.

When start cultivating this habit you will understand the rel meaning of development and you will never feel old, of course the physical oldness is not in our control but our minds for sure will be young until the body supports it.

Thanks for your  time, until next time good bye.