The mentor.

Hello readers

Hope you are all fine.

Make a Conscious effort to become aware of the life you live; the air you breathe; the thoughts you think; the joy you feel; and the love you give and receive.

-Rozine

Even though battles and wars are always a foundation of violence and negativity, yet they have contributed on the advancement of this world in an unusual way.

But are we aware that a self-war is going on within us? It is happening each day, this moment within you.

I am talking about force which is inside us, some people call it the conscious.

 I call it my mentor, who teaches me, guides me through the puddles and potholes of life in a very unique way, he does not take fees for his mentoring, but you will definitely pay him without him asking you to do so, may be not in cash or kind something even more valuable.

We all take many decisions each day, starting from the period we get up till we close that day.

All through these if you just count the decisions you have taken you will recognise the correct ones and your faulty ones.

The judge of these decisions is also your conscious that will give you that feeling whether you were right or wrong.

The Importance of Mentoring.

Actually the counsellor plays a key role on shaping you as a person, so do you always have to listen to him?

I feel we should not because sometimes even a mentor can go wrong and, you pay a heavy price ending up in a wrong lane.

At the beginning I had written about the fees you would pay for the mentoring, that is not currency I was talking about, it is the feeling we get when had dedicated that mistake in haste, and we repent later about it this is just the first instalment of the fees!

There will be no one to blame other than you. Can you blame the mentor no!  If you ask me why? The answer would be the “you are responsible for your actions.”

The above phrase is too common but has a very deep meaning, the you mentioned in the phrase is not you Mr or Mrs. John Q But it is the person who lives inside you that is:  your mind, brain. And the conscious, if you have made a mistake, the coordination among all the three was not on the same page.

We must start taking responsibilities for our own actions that is one of the motives of me writing this blog ,because we see a lot blame game going on in each of our lives today ,according to me it’s a huge time waste and should not be done ,doing that shows we run away from our duties.

 So whenever you take decisions, make sure your mentor is right and for the reason that later you are the only one who will have to take the heat and face it.Lets try to live more matured.

Take correct decisions and live a repentance free life all the best.

Take care, thanks for your time

Oasis.

Hello readers

Hope your doing great, another brisk week slips out through the time tunnel.

An aging man cannot rewrite his youth but a youth may rewrite his own future.
- Terri Guillemet

Let me start with today's topic.we all know oasis for sure, we had read it during our school days probably the best days of our lives.

We know oasis are present in deserts, which is a totally dry land without trees, and temperatures which are difficult to survive,and then we see the same oasis, present in this hopless climate, those small puddles and ponds of water,which will make that lonely traveller,get some hope and a smile on his face.

Why can't we see our short lived life in the same angle? If you just imagine everytime you fall in this desert, called an issue,or a problem, or some call it the situation, which they have ended up, which we call it the fate! and crib about it all the time.

We must understand the basic law of life, that nothing is permanent in life, it just works like a  wave, which is never static, we will always have two basic waves in life one is the happy wave, which everyone asks for, another one is an unhappy wave, people just move away from it.

But what I feel is that we must treat both these waves as same, as I told you life is a revolving, wheel in which all the portions of the wheel, touches the dirt,the gravels and the potholes on the road.

So what about oasis? Where do they it fit in? You can call it hope, or an happiness in disaster! this sounds little bit confusing doesn't!.

Just think of a situation, you have an important exam in 3 hours! Your all set to go, but unfortunately, the bus you were travelling broke down, and you were late by an hour for that exam. You got too tensed that day, may be you passed the exam with an average mark or may be not, but here the oasis that you learnt is how to handle crisis.

The more you start looking for these opportunities in life, where you convert your problems into opportunities, and finding hope, in hopeless situations, and feeling happy and content Inside.I am sure you can achieve anything in life.

Thanks  a lot for you time have great weekend .