Psyched

Hello readers

Hope you all are happy

Be the silent watcher of your thoughts and behavior you are beneath the thinker, you are the stillness beneath the mental noise, you are the love and joy beneath the pain.

-E Tolle

Have you thought about this anytime? Does your mind motivate you and makes you build a strategy in solving some problem or you fuel these thoughts into your mind and allow it come up with a solution.

Usually, I feel even though the brain is an organ and we have control over our brain, the mind is what is feels that consciousness and ability to understand.

The whole life we spend in understanding, execution and reacting to all possible external stimuli. If you the think word stimuli is too technical, then let me make it simple by terming it as external environment.

So from the time, you were a baby, can you recollect when you first started getting thoughts?

well I think I started getting thoughts from my school days may be 3^rd grade or so, well don’t know if it is late or early. It may have started to flow early for you or later actually it doesn’t matter as I told you there will always be this one factor called environment which will motivate you to think, and of course, because we are humans it is in our genes to think, well that I am speaking about intellectuals who are ready to think.

The name of this blog is ‘psyched’ the dictionary form of this word is “Psych” which means to make someone’s mind to be prepared for some situation.

It is not that there will be someone else to make that person prepare like for instance a mother preparing her son for an exam. But this process happens automatically.

Who helps you to prepare then? Have you anytime thought about this: how is that you are always conscious of what is happening around you, you read people’s body language, you know when someone is sad or happy, you feel angry and nag sometimes even though you know what you were doing is not appropriate, and sometimes you end up taking a decision which is so wrong and later repents of it.

All that mentioned above I can assure you that you would have experienced it in your life before you read this blog today.

So are we psyched without our knowledge and constantly prepared by our mind which instructs the brain to behave in the way we behave, the answer is a yes!

You know what psyched me into writing this blog, it is some unreasonable behavior for some people in society starting from someone I know till the crazy politicians who like to burn their own people in nuclear test facilities for superiority? come on this man would have felt more superior if he could have done something good for his people.

Why don’t they think? Before they do something don’t they understand the negativity involved in whatever are they doing? that only reason I can think of is that they let their minds lose!

I see good men and women are suffering emotionally and feeling depressed for no fault of them and it is due to the childish behavior of their parents, siblings or anyone they care about, and they continue to suffer only because they love them!

The people who are at fault are psyched in an illusion and feel that devilish pleasure when they see their own people sad, or seriously I am not sure about their intentions.

Mind is beautiful actually it represents a person’s soul and it can achieve wonders if the good thoughts are appreciated and the negative ones are just shunned and it is possible with only true determination and the motive to think well and keep people around you happy and feel secure.

I wish you all well and hope you will forgo anger and grief for happiness and calmness and be psyched in the way which is most needed.

You make your mind work, let your mind not get you worked up.

Thanks for your time, let me know your views in the comment box.

Helios

The smile.

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing great.

True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.

 - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

They say that soldiers are very tough people who are the least emotional people in the world. But has anybody realized the sacrifices he is ready for, yes his life is what he is ready to sacrifice and he is the most emotional person in the world because he takes all the risks in this world for the sake of his mother land, and I think that is the true test of a person’s emotional quotient.

So emotions, do they play such an important role in our lives, the answer is definitely an yes, you know man is called the most advanced species  in this world only because of his ability to think and express feelings, I want to narrate a small story today which will help us understanding  the importance of emotions in our life.

Once upon time in India there lived a man called Mr.Smiles even though his name was smiles the irony was that he never smiled and he was the biggest moan of his time.

Many happy people ground him always tried to make him feel happy or lure him to laugh at the best jokes possible but were not successful.

OK…. about Mr. Smiles well he was not a poor man at all he had a large estate and a loving family he was well educated as well, but still he could not smile. The secret behind his miserable face could not be cracked by almost all the people around him.

His family were always unhappy that, He was the only person who was not happy with anything. Fed up with his behavior his wife met their family doctor and asked him if her husband was suffering from any psychological disease or was he a lunatic.

The doctor replied that he was fine both psychologically and physically, but he is still trying to figure out the reason behind his sadness. The doctor thought of a solution as he too felt hurt seeing the anxiety on the face of Smiles wife.

So the next day he sent a press reporting team to meet Smiles wife, at the same time he had instructed his wife about what to do next. So this is what happened after they met each other.

Wife asked the press team to come inside and called Smiles and told this interview would be published in this week’s issue of a an eminent magazine, Smiles was as usual in his sadistic mode, Then one of the journalist asked Smiles “Sir we would like you to take an interview with you today” smiles was surprised and answered in a polite way “certainly can we start now?” so the interview started.

Interviewer asked some general questions like how does he spend his day, his eating habits, his likes and dislikes and so on, and the interview went on well.

When it was about to end, Smiles was asked the most awaited question by his family. “Why are you dull and gloomy always”?

Smiles was confused and surprised to hear to this question and replied, “ is it so?, I don’t think so from my childhood I have been like this and till this day no one asked me this!

So the interview asked him “ Dear sir people are very much dejected with you and have tried all possible ways to make you feel happy and make you smile but that never happened, so again I am repeating the question why are you not happy?”

Smiles told that he never felt that he has to smile as he knew that this life is a cycle, when we peddle up it is birth and when we peddle down it is death why should I be in this illusion of just feeling happy for the misery I am going to suffer on the day on this earth, so I have prepared myself for my death since my birth.

The reporter was furious and replied “I never knew that you were such a big a fool! In that case why are you living and wasting the resources of the earth if you know that you are going to die one day let that day come today, and suddenly tried to strangle Smiles who cried for help, at that moment the interviewer stopped and asked Mr. Smiles “did you realize how much you love yourself? If you love yourself so much why you don’t show it on your face. Hearing this for the first time in his life Mr Smiles, smiled and was amazed by the feeling for him it was like coming out of a dark tunnel.

There are many Mr.Smiles around us who don’t know how to react with people who act simple grumpy with everyone and crying inside for wired reasons and assumptions which they are only not sure about actually that is illusion.

What is the point of acting indifferent with everyone around you? Each day is very precious we have to aim to be happy and make people happy around us, that is the only to make your soul happy and we consider our souk as God himself, so let us make that change and be happy and make your family and friends happy, try to keep rapport with all the people you know and the least fights possible.

All the best in this effort and have a great weekend.