Happiness ahead!

Hello readers

Hope you had a nice week.

Most Folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.

-Abraham Lincoln.

There are many situations in life where we feel hopeless and I agree we do have many reasons to feel that state of depression when the whole world looks dark even on a lovely misty morning.

Let us understand first why we feel so hopeless, it may be due to rejection, or failures, may be another bad day at the office or at college.

After your mind enters this mode, it takes some time to get back to your normal state of mind.

But there is an irony that I have experienced; my brain works the most effectual when I am blue and we know we keep thinking about the same issue that caused this despair.

I am not sure how many of you agree with me, but I have experienced it many times when I am stuck there and trying to come out of that grave situation, suddenly the spark comes out, and you would be so amazed that this problem could be solved in this way.

 Fire fighting

We spend half the time fire fighting ,a small instance: John is a 11^th grade  student who is very  bright excelling in all subjects ,but one day he was down with fever and later confirmed as malaria a deadly ailment caused by mosquitoes ,so this young lad  lost an year and had to repeat his 11^th grade again ,and to the astonishment of his teachers he could not study well as he was studying before and he would only score a pass mark in all subjects .

one among his teachers Mr.Joseph took this teen aside and asked him why he was scoring bad in his subjects, the boy replied “all my batch mates are now in 12th grade I feel very depressed that I am in studying with my juniors” this answer was convincing and expected by the latter which is obvious, as a teacher will definitely understand a student’s mentality.

So Mr.Joseph called the boy the next day and asked him “Dear John I tell you there is so much for you to learn in life and move on, please stop being depressed on what has happened and start studying, see the positive side your juniors see you as person who knows to take that challenged in life and also consider you as senior among the juniors.

John was very puzzled with this answer and kept thinking about it all the time ,finally he got the brainwave that if he  kept on thinking about his past he would lose his present and future too.

So from that day he started to be his original self, always self-motivated and aced that year, all his teachers were very happy with him.

When he ran to thank his Mentor Mr.Joseph he asked the latter one simple question, what motivated you suddenly and got you out of the depression John replied “Dear Sir I thought about what you said for a whole day, then I started thinking as a matured person, did I make a mistake? Was getting disease my fault, finally I got this answer bouncing around my head which was No!”

Mr.Joseph congratulated his student, for understanding life and wished him success.

I have felt the same many times where there is no absolutely fault of mine and I simply feel I could have done better there, and we end up depressed and your brain starts the swimming out process and there you get that answer you were looking for.

 I cannot say that we need to get depressed and start thinking and solve our problems, instead when we reach the end of the cup and we feel now the taste is turning out to give me a flavour of depression, stop there! start thinking and solve your problems analyse, lets stop being hasty and emotional and stop thinking that getting depressed is the easiest way to get out of stress and start thinking of alternatives to solve those puzzles.

Live smart, and try to smile each day, because we have only life, well that is the part that actually counts so let’s enjoy it.

Have a nice weekend and thanks a lot for your time.

The World behind you?!

Hello readers

Here it comes the Friday, and it is actually the good Friday.So enjoy the festival folks.

My topic for today is about the part we always miss, the world behind us?

If we just think about it for a while, we feel like just playing a game and thinking what will happen?  When I am not on this road!

Many of us even read about it on the Internet. Well that's a computer program, but our lives are not.

But the actual meaning,of the title I want to discuss today, is what happens when you go to a place, and after you leave the place,the importance of our presence,the people who were present in that place,their attitude towards you, in you absence.

Well when your at the place its obvious you can find out what is happening.

But do we know what is happening behind you.

In the game I was telling you about a little while ago there are numerous programs that load when your at the particular place and it keeps switching wherever you navigate.

Sometimes I feel even life is similar, the crowds have become  so confused about opinions towards a person that, they appreciate him when he is around but, blame and hate him, from behind.

People call it back biting which is quite common, and according to a survey I had read in the "Look "magazine which says, a person will be backbites at least 5 times in his life time and, he would have felt bad about it at least 3 times.

I also read in the same article that, the person's brain learns and senses back biting, after quite a while but the person has to develop and cultivate his brain to sharpen to detect when its happening.

This is actually a negative topic but I felt the need to spread the word as,many people and many more just fall for the trap, and consider some people as their friends and share all the good and bad about them.

But the latter just hear everything they say and give, them back a  simple reward of gossip and false publicity about them in a negative way.Even though they enjoyed their company and may be shared their joys and sorrows with them too.

I am still puzzled why the world has become so mean and cruel?,we take help from people who  in our hard times, but we forget about them and suddenly start hating  them!this is very unfortunate.

Just put yourself in that position, and,imagine how sad your mind feels when a person whom you helped just says all the words against you and brand you as useless!.

Finally I would like to say, there are few people, for whom both the worlds are the same,others don't worry, just worry about the world in which you live and don't worry about the world behind you.

My request to you is not to spoil others character and disrespect them when they are not around! You which is the worst habit one can develop.

Let's be transparent in life.Let the paper be white as it is white in the front.

Thanks for your time happy weekend.

Sparks

Hello readers

Hope you had a good week.

Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience.
- Paulo Coelho

Today I want to talk about this concept called ' sparks ' we all do know what are they?

A small fiery particle thrown off from a fire, alight in ashes, or produced by striking together two hard surfaces such as stone or metal.

Well after we know the definition, let me try to put forward my version of this.

We all have difficulties in life, and also the will power to fight these issues, but sometimes we feel demotivated and lose our nerves.

As a result some poor souls even push that quit button and end their game called life.

But I feel that is not the way to take life and that is where sparks come into picture.

According to me sparks can be people who motivate you,a good teacher who imbibes good thoughts in the minds of his students, a grandmother who is always happy, even though her health condition is bad, an employee, who is self motivated at work and so on.

Sparks have helped man kind at the time when we most needed it, we know in history it is said that, the prehistoric man, discovered fire by rubbing  stones, and he was fascinated to see the sparks!

That also lead him to become more curious and today, because of that curiosity, we see fire in all forms possible and also its uses are countless.

We should never lose hope, in life because when you think that its going too bad for you, that may be wrong,you may suddenly get that spark, that takes you back on track.

I thank all the sparks of my life who helped me to become what I am today, and also feel we all need to become a spark for others and help them to keep their momentum going.

Thanks for your time have a nice weekend.

Grasshopper.

Hello readers

Well its time to blog again.

You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.
- Albert Einstein

Today I want to talk about the unrest in the minds of people, it's causes and also the ways to stop this unrest.

We all have heard about this insect called, the grasshopper, it is not a harmful insect though sometimes people get scared,due to its sudden movements.

Why does this insect make these sudden leaps? Well,  let's say it does it for food, or to escape from its predators.

That is fine for a grasshopper,but I have seen humans acting in this manner at every stage of life.

If you ask is it not good? Taking good leaps in life and becoming successful of course, my answer is yes, but how do we know all the leaps we take are good?

There are several situations where we hop and don't reach the desired hight, or we fall on a rough ground.

For that insect jumping or hopping is inevitable the reason may be its limited, intellect, or its "live according to instincts policy",but don't we humans have a choice? Don't we have an intellect? Why do we take drastic decisions?  Why do we end like junkies even though we  knew or we were doubtful that we were entering a junk yard!.

Please give some thought on these sensitive issues,because the world is suffering from many problems and a major reason for their cause is this meaningless hoping from one grass or an option to another without understanding the end result.

To be successful we need to follow a simple and basic rule, which is, if you understand the problem solve it else, ask people who know about it, not people who miss guide you with their half knowledge.

Let's start taking life slowly and understanding it, other than jump into deep oceans without knowing how to swim.

Thanks for your time, have a great weekend. Adios

The summary.

Hello readers

If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change

Michael Jackson ,from the song Man in the mirror.

Hope you guys are fine,today I want to discuss about this concept called 'the summary' this can be a instant explanations to many things ,well I hope I can make some things understand by the time I end this blog,and becomes a summary by itself!

We are all aware of this word 'summary' which we would have first heard when we were in our first phase of education ,it used to be in our text book at the apex of any poem or prose that we used to read,and help us understand what the whole story,or the poem was in simple words.

some days ago I got this thoughts ,though I would have studied all these summaries ,as a last minute preparation for an examination,I would have still managed to answer the questions ,in that exam,which I was least prepared.? it was actually making me feeling good.

I also realised ,they were so useful ,and productive ,I say productive for the corporate crowd ,who are used to hearing this word from their manager.! well that was on a lighter note.

Well moving on,with this word summary it  has synonyms such as rapid,instant,swift and so on ,I feel there is another hidden meaning ,which is the understanding and conclusion part.

what is this understanding and the conclusion?I am talking  about, how well we are understanding the way we live,and we are going to live ,in the coming years .

So when I pose these questions ,usually people say the future will decide,the fate determines you ,and  many more  sayings and a long list of proverbs,which I partially agree with,but if we implement the  word 'summary the whole scene will change.

I had written a blog in which I had spoken about IT ,which stands for incident testing,and  I spoke about the unpredictable future.

Summary is like a continuation to IT , after which we need to learn and understand some experiences from that incident, and stop repeating those mistakes ,because repeating the same mistakes can prove costly .

There is a need for understanding peoples minds ,feelings,express common sympathy and empathy towards one and all ,for the simple reason that what happened to your dear friend ,family or a well wisher can happen to you next,so if we learn from the incidents of how? why it happens ,and start thinking about writing the summary of our own lives each day,it will be a reference to others ,which can walk in a direction that you did ,thus making this world a better place to live.

But the world works in a cryptic way, where no summary are drawn no lessons are learnt or wrong summaries drawn! and everything that happens is mis -interpreted , I think majority of the time it works like this ,which is very unfortunate,come on lets change this trend .

Lets become a trend where people know the summary of life, and create an awareness to others ,who are still trying crack that summary.

Thanks for your time ,have a great weekend.

The Turbulence.

Hello readers 

                   I learn something, constructive every time I fail, says Tom Andry.

The topic for is about our life, how we are leading it day in and day out,and the problems we face and some solutions for these problems.

We have heard of this word, 'Turbulence' before, according to dictionary it means, being agitated, a sudden disturbance in a gas or a fluid.

People in the airline industry, consider,turbulence as a challenge both in the manufacturing and also during a flight.

In life  we face lot of these turbulences and, people call it  the  knee jerk reactions.

The stress we face at our workplace and,at home these are all instances where our mind gets disturbed,and the true nature of an individual, is put under test.

A person who has little more patience than others will react neutral to the turbulence of life, because facing a turbulence is inevitable and he has understood that better than the rest of the crowd.

This system called life is designed to function, definitely with some hitches and glitches.

I have seen people, reacting in many ways,to these agitations,someone bangs his books, at the library, many people just shout on their innocent children for no mistake of theirs, the list is almost endless.

Definitely scientists  have done numerous research on this topic and ,have made some conclusions,which I read few days back,like the 'outburst syndrome'!,this is now branded as a stress disorder,the symptoms are too simple,when a person cannot handle the pressure and negative vibrations in his mind, he just transfers it to the  person next door ,who is fine,and this happens from that person to the nest,so it becomes a game of Passing the ball!

The main reason ,why we are not able to handle agitations are A.we actually do not know what is stress,B.we have not faced difficulties in life,we have read about them only in books to pass that exam in our schools and colleges.

This blog is speaking about generations 2014 and beyond,here when I say beyond ,its not that I am talking only about the future,I speak also about the past,and many more possibilities which can be corrected or which is not right.

So let us understand at least from today always be ready for turbulences in life which are on the way like a tsunami and it happens till the end  ,learn to live life like a surf-border who just surfs on the waves and enjoys the moment,as I  keep telling you when the earth blinks,and opens her eyes again we are history,so what is the point here of wasting our time ,energy and feelings in silly arguments,jealously and sarcasm?think about the people who don't have the 3 basic needs of life don't you think ,what turbulences we face are nothing compared to them?

I feel its just stupid if we live such a life,lets open up like the rising sun and bring hopes in our lives and in others too,and surf and live life.

thanks for your time take care.

Time Matters?

Hello readers

Welcome back ,hope you had a good week,I read this and was very much impressed by it ,so I would like to share,here it goes:I have seen Dravid play like me ,but I can never play like Dravid says the master blaster Chris gayle.

The above statement needs to be applauded because,it shows how modest is MR gayle in accepting and appreciating the skill of Mr Dravid,who truly was a legend when he was playing in the Indian cricket team.

Today I want to talk about this universal factor or the universal measure for all ideas,which have  started ,which are in progress and,which are about to end,also to almost anything that happens on earth the factor called time.

There are few reasons why I am talking about this topic today ,the first and foremost reason would be,want to discuss,the brink of the situation for each problem finally ends at this factor 'Time'?

Actually as we all know this is not so complex ,and cryptic.let us quote some ground rules that we all know,which is :1.there is a master clock for everyone,you call it life ,your fate,100 million names that doesn't matter ,but there is a clock that determines and defines who you are.

2. this master clock starts ticking ,when you were born,and keeps ticking until we inhale that last breath.

Now what is more essential is , what we do during the ticking,make some friends?,achieve big things ,or end up as a loser,become responsible,take risks,or become a black spec in front of this society,there are actually infinite number of possibilities,that can happen.  

But there are at times where we forget about this master clock ,and end up remembering it when everything is over! why do we do that ,its actually not the mistake of anyone,its just the illusion that we live in which makes us the way we are,the involvement of the childish mind is one of the prime reasons ,because of which we easily get carried away with materialism.

The second big part ,about how time matters,when we grow ,we  develop good relations towards some people that we ourself choose as our near and dear ones,but gradually,your mind is bored of them ,and gives that 'oh !this guy! nothing new about him ',but the crux of the mater ,is that we all come together ,at the time of crisis,in that person's life,and then we realise the value of that person,it is simple why this happens ,when you got the shock that,oh I am missing that person,that is when things starts making sense.

So what  I have learnt is we come to this earth and depart from here by the time mother earth blinks her eyes once,and then we as individuals are history forever,so in this time why can't we live in peace,harmony,and happy with our people,the world for that matter?

why this superior and inferior business,and why should we hesitate to do what we want to do!?

From now on just remember always time matters,so when you get that time use it  to the core,so so that you do not regret it at that time ,when you don't have much time in that master clock left ,and the alarm is about to ring!,the ideas are waiting for you to be completed,lets progress as each day ends,and gives a new hope the next day.

All the best have a great weekend.

Metamorphosis.

Hello readers

So another week-ends ,as I always say I have lost track of time,hope all of you had a great week.

Today lets understand the modern metamorphosis! so we all do know the meaning of this term ,which is : sudden abrupt change in the the structure of the body of an animal,through cell growth and differentiation

The most common examples are very common and known to us like the butterfly ,the dragon fly,the frog and so on.

Nature has created many wonders in its own style and  this is one of them.

But have we realized that humans too undergo this process just like the butterfly or the dragon-fly!Do we really undergo such a change? lets find out.

If we just start from the birth of  child till that child becomes an adult there is definitely metamorphosis going on ,as the definition suggests,there is definitely a physical change through cell growth and all those biological terms.

But the change is not about the physical ,the real metamorphosis should happen inside the brain,people call it maturity,and understanding people,this is very important because ,just physical changes is just fine for an animal,but we are supposed to be civilized,so why are wasting our time in petty things,like materialism,useless quarrels and to talk about there is a list of things to talk to about.

what is s my concern is that there are only a few people ,who under go the perfect metamorphosis,,who understand other people well,try to keep the people around them happy,they also develop the sixth sense and telepathy ,and always lead a compromise life,who are self -less,the Indians called them Sadhus and sanyasis ,now the scientists call them the star children ,the critics call them the indigo children

Jut imagine if the world was filled with indigo children,i think this world would have been the best place to live,if you remember ,I  had mentioned about indigo children

,long ago in my blog,now we can see that even if we are not born indigo children it is fine ,we can still become one,and under go that metamorphosis.

Thanks for your time,remember our education does not matter,what matters is your tolerance with other people and the compassion you give to them,which will make you a better person each day.

The Lonely Experiance.

Hello readers

What's up with you guys? Here comes another weekend.

So today wanted to talk about this feeling I am sure everyone would have felt.

Yes I am talking, about those moments when, we went on a picnic with our friends, or you went alone on a road trip.

I wanted to share some observations that I have about, how I feel when I am alone or, you know it's like a general observation, about how our Brain works when we are alone.

The first thing what I observed was, my brain became more vigilant, about me, my surrounding, the food I eat, the people around me, my mood will be set, that is the travelling buzz.

I feel our true character  will emerge out during this period.

Let me explain you the true character part,when we travel alone or be alone,at home for that matter the inner person, who can be adventureous or sober pops out.

The person who likes some adventures, try new things, you youngsters like me out there , I am sure you know what I am talking about.!

The sober ones just hang in there and pass that time.

The Missing Part.

Now what is this missing part?it is actually, when you realise that seriously you miss a person,places,thing or an animal,and your heart aches, because your not able to see them.

The positives of being alone is that, it gives us confidence, builds our attitude towards people, and makes us think about the , difficulties of life, we would all feel thankful for about our parents who, we're so protective,and took care of us.

So let's learn a good message today :learn to lead life of calmness, first when your alone, then start practising the same when you are part of a family, or ultimately this society.

Thanks for your time see you again next week.

The Inner Love.

Hello readers

Hope your newyear celebrations and carnival, went on well now we are all back to our daily routine as usual, busy with our own work and other stuff,well that is fine,just read this post to kill your boredom.

So I want to talk about the four letter word, everyone likes to talk about that is 'love'.

The moment you say this word, you will feel that joy in your mind,and get that sensation, of relief so why does this happen? Lets understand why.

The love I am referring here is not which happens, to a teen, when he sees some random girl on a road or his class, that is just a infatuation or his wishful thinking of liking her.

What is actual love or, some call it true love?

According to me, true love is that attachment between you and the person or thing you love,when you share your feelings with the person or animal or a thing you are attached to, and miss it when it is not around you.

There is another concept, which actually motivated me to, write this post, which is : Do we love what we hate?

You may think at first sight this is a simple and stupid question, how can we like something or.somebody if we hate it?

But that is the crux of the matter. I read an article in the internet, which says that : there are centres in your brain, that decide, the love and hate decisions,and they say that if you hate something for a long time, your brain starts depending on it,and if enough time passes it will be loved .

I wanted to write this article, as I can see this world is forgetting to love and to be loved, and has ended in a bitter fight to the death! Some have lost their love on their children for silly and childish reasons,and others fight meaninglessly for everything and anything.

I wish these meaningless fights, haterd on each other would end soon, and we all will continue to live in peace.So just think of we are designed to love what we hate, after enough time passes by, why shouldn't we start loving it  from the beginning? and live happy.

Thanks for your time, adios.stop hating, start loving this world.
         

The Message Centre.

Hello readers

Happy new year to one and all, lets hope this year brings peace in society, which will make this world a better place to live,for both us and milions of other species.

This is my 49th blog post, and my 1st blog for this year,I would like to thank all the readers, for the continues support.

So the topic for today would be, the message centre!?

There are many ways of sending messages, in this advanced era, of technology and science, but the message centre, I am going to talk about is the most advanced one, and we still don't, have the complete idea as to how? It works.!

The reason I say it's the most advanced,is that it is automated to the core, and is more powerful than the smartest, and the fastest, computer in the world.

So the message system I am talking about is located in our brains, and is working from the day we were, born and will work, till that last breath we inhale.

So the primary, question is, do we send and receive messages? Who sends it to us? and who is the recipient? these are the obvious, questions which come to your mind.

The answer may surprise you, because the answer is you?! just go on reading, you will l understand the reason why I say its you or me, it is very simple,and scientific.

First of all, we should understand the purpose of the message, there are so many countless reasons for that. Some common reasons,for example, if you feel hungry, the muscles in the stomach contract, and we call it growling, and you eat food and the growing, stops.

Feeling hungry, is a natural phenomenon and I call it a physical message, then you may ask me is there any other type of message,the answer is yes.

The other type of messages are, what I call the "trolls " which will never stop,and the reason we think, we laugh, we have feelings, we cry is all because of the l trolls,we often say this -sorry sir I was not concentrating! The troll took over your thinking pay of the brain, and you failed to listen.

The message centre is the biggest troll builder software, ever designed, and is more powerful than any fastest instant messanger in the world.

Sometimes I feel amazed, the way my thoughts go out of control, within a short span of time,and the way brain, stiches it, into a perfect, scenario I which is brilliant.

Always try getting good trolls,by reading good things, and doing good deeds and helping this society.

Thanks for your time, I wish everyone, a most successful, and happy year again.

IT happens?!

Hi readers

So we are moving towards the last week of this year,each year ends, leaving some traces behind it.lets check what's the next year has in store for us! 2015 here we come. 

So moving on with my topic what does IT mean? are you thinking,is it information technology, or the numerous acronyms,in various fields, no this is a acronym from my dictionary of life which stands for "Incident Test".

What is incident test? let me define it for you, the most simple definition is" a single day in your life."

Seems very simple isn't?actually to be frank its actually simple the reason is,every individual has a schedule in leading his life, day in and day out, and hence you feel come on what big deal, you never know when the sun rised and set, it went just like a train, which reaches its destination on time.

But this wont explain my point about IT, because there are only few people in the  world who are truely blessed, who lead a life which, is totally filled with joy and happiness.

Other than these blessed ones, the majority are constantly tested by new incidents that happen in everyones life, this can be the smallest incident in the world like for instance: you forgot to take your phone to your work place or some-other place  or something so huge that you spine trembled due to the  shock and trauma you underwent because of those few hours.

In all these incidents there is one, universal truth and reality,I am sure atleast one of you reading this, would have guessed it, but let me tell you, these 3 words which are :Surprise, panic,and stress will hit your brain,the moment IT happens.

My friends this is where you should understand, that you have been tested for good, tested to understand your level of patience, your maturity,and finally it brings out your charcter which sometimes may surprise you!

To conclude be prepared for IT which is not a one time stress interview,where you were tested for an hour, there is no time day schedule as to when the forces of nature and the almighty God wants to give you a class, test or who knows,give you the most easiest question, but wants you to answer it without words!?

Lets think about this and pass all the ITs' and be successful in life.

Many thanks for your time and patience have a great weekend, lets enjoy the last week of this year,and pray for world peace.

The world within a world.

Hello readers
Hope your doing great, I am fine, let me start by giving you a fact which is :we have a neural network in our body which is  more bigger than the whole universe!

Let me start with today's topic, so what is a world Within a world? many of you might be thinking, am I talking about reality and illusion? No actually I am not, I am talking about two types of worlds in this moment in which we are living now.

Definitely this concept is true and it is not surprising, as all of you would have experienced this,and may be experiencing it right now?!

How strange, you may ask me, how can I say? that you would have experienced it before, let me tell you I can prove it to you.

A simple instance would be, you at work.Each morning when you leave to work a new world begins, when your car door slams, and you switch on the radio,and start driving , your brain starts projecting thoughts about the day, the day here means only your professional day!? or simply we can call it your work.

In the above example we can see, the change in your world before you got into the car and started to office,  just moments before that, when waved to your mother, and said good bye,the thoughts were still not initiated,but they started popping up ,without your consent when you started driving?

The world what I am talking about, need not to be another planet with new species of animals or aliens, it's about our level of involvement in a particular task or a place or a thing, that makes us forget our present.

It is just like when we were small, a trip to a science museum would make us feel that we were walking, on moon?or you were an inventor?!

The crux of the matter is, all these worlds what I am talking about is, created and presented to you, by the most amazing, device in the world, our brain, that is what makes us feel about people, places,thingsand other beings in its own way, and we should understand, that beyond certain point, it's beyond our reach to control the world it creates.

Let's understand from now on when, you learn something each day, or if you go to a new place,your brain just created a world.

Let's create more worlds, and combine all those worlds into one big globe of knowledge.

Thanks for your time have a great weekend.

The Memory Book.

Hi there
Hope your week went fine, mine just skipped all the days, and here we have friday!

Today I want to talk about memory books,do we seriously have something called as a memory book? When I was small I used to play with these picture books at my school library.

These books used to have pictures of, animals, vehicles, great people and so on, and at the end of the book we used to get a blank page where we could fill the names of the pictures we have seen.

When I was small, for that matter when we were small, we were given this type assignments and we enjoyed doing it.

Now when we look back at that time, it makes us feel happy and smiling how simple our lives were, and all the joy which we enjoyed.

So, is there any use of that fun activity we used to do, I think its yes because, those books at the first place,thought the concept to memory perception and and memory recall, the greatest concept which psychologists say our brain is gifted with.

Its been so many days since all these puddles of happiness which we call childhood, has passed, but still why do we love talking about it and sharing it with your childhood friend?.

The answer is simple, we lived those moments, without knowing these 3 words the first one would be responsibility, the second one would be seriousness and the last one would be thinking.

Why I say thinking is that, we hardly thought, of how people around us felt the way we behaved and made fool of ourselves.

At the end I want to say that childhood was a golden time in our life, we are so called adults today, but the brain which rules you, likes childhood and still works in the same pattern of thinking and the habits you had practiced when you were a kid for solving some problems.

Relish your memory book, today and get lost in those happy moments you enjoyed and thank your parents for, tolerating us,and fulfilling our wishes, I bow to their patience.

Have a great weekend and Thanks for your time.

The Brain Games.

Hello my dear readers

So it's Friday, to be frank with all of you I have no idea how this week passed was just thinking "is it already Friday "?  this morning, so the thought for today would be, what my teacher used to say many years ago! Which is "you can buy anything under the sun, but time, so use your time in the proper direction "I would never forget that.

Moving on with today's topic if your guessing that, is it about a review on the famous tv show which is aired on national geographic channel because the name seems so obvious your right, I got the previlage to write,reviewers for them?!

I was just joking there, this is the most common trick, and I got you, actually not you, your brain the moment you read the last paragraph, you were like, wow you mean this guy got chance from natgeo? not bad for him!

So what just happened was that the neurons responsible for that "wow" feeling got activated, and expressed emotions which were so motivating, that you smiled at this page.

Again the whole episode was a game, which was only started by me, but actually played by your brain.

Our brain has this awesome predicting power, which is actually, a survival technique according to science, and it is a way to make us feel that  everything is normal.

Our feelings are based on how the brain reacts, this reaction is based on 2 things,your Knowledge on what you saw, and your genes?

It is actually true that some part of the feelings and the way we react and our expressions are linked to our parents!

In the beginning of the blog when I surprised  you at first you fell for it, but now without  your Knowledge you are being a little relaxed on reading this as you know, that it was a joke, they call this in science as the ' after surprised effect' you can Google about it,very interesting to read.

Our day to day life is all about this effect, starting from your shock of getting up late and running to catch the 8 am bus, and again,when you slept and realised "oh what am exciting day it was, how could I manage everything so well?

So continue to get surprised, each day because, that is the path for new learning happy weekend. Thanks for your time.

The Dimensional World.

Hello readers 

Hope your doing great,here comes the weekend,time is just passing like leaves falling from a tree,let me start with a thought:"The person who accepts his mistakes ,and learns to forgive his enemies will be the most successful person in the world."

Getting on with my topic for the day,basically we all know that dimensions do exist ,science says we are living in a three dimensional world,which we all do feel and agree with ,and there are various theory like the string theory ,which says they are multiple or infinite dimensions,which occurred due to a series repels after the big bang, that is also being accepted  for a certain extent and still is been further researched by scientists.

But the dimensional world I want to talk about is the "changing dimension"! well what is this new concept  of changing dimensions,are you thinking ,how can X-axis become Y-axis?,your pretty much right ,but not completely right.

The 'Changing Dimension' will leave you so surprised that you will change your way of thinking and taking this biggest activity called  life! 

Before I confuse you further let me give you an example,just put yourself in this situation:You have just left to work ,and the day is according to you  very critical,with lot of meetings,which will probably squeeze you to be the top-performer of the year!when all is going well ,you suddenly receive a call from your boss,to quit that meeting as your assistance is required in resolving some other issue,I think now your catching my drift of how? this dimension changed! from a very exciting meeting to a dull meeting with your boss?

The point is we may be thinking  these are just situations,not something to do with the dimensions or science,but if you,give it a deep thought ,you will find that the happiness you enjoyed,those brief moments inside that big conference room,feeling that you may get that higher position,suddenly lit lights inside your mind,and you experienced that feeling that you and only you an recollect,that is what I call ,the new dimension of your own happiness.

Similarly they are other situations ,where a normal day ends up into a tragic incident that will change your future forever,in this instance,all those lights in your mind switch off and there is this dry,dark,place which is  nothing but your own negative thoughts,this is also a dimension in which your living and suffering with it,the dimension of agony.

We as human beings do not live on instincts we live,in the most advanced social environment of all times ,so just think about this now?how many dimensions do we change each moment we live!? you go inside a dimension while talking to a

friend,watching a movie,chatting with your brother who lives abroad,and the next moment your back where you are and laugh yourself silly?

The person who can live in all dimensions that keep challenging him day-in and day -out and swim out of it will be the best person god has created.

Thanks for your time see you again next week,thanks to all my readers who have helped me reach 900 views, you have been the sole motivators to expand my thoughts each week.

Discover Yourself

Hello readers
Hope all are doing fine.

The unexamined life is not worth living.
SOCRATES

After that thought, let me move on with the topic,well the first view of it, will make you feel is it a tag line for an ad?

       come on that is not the case, though I have studied marketing, this is not the place to use my skill, this is purely about, you,me basically every person in this world.

          let me tell you a short story, there was a small kid, who was born in a very wealthy family,so he was treated very well by his parents, and ofcourse, his house was always bumbling, with servants,and benifactors,so the boy's desire,was an order and was fulfilled within no time.

              But one day a disaster struck, and the whole village where they were living, was dismantled by an earth quake,the boy's house was destroyed and he lost his parents in this confusion, the boy who was now a man, early in his twenties, was just shocked, and first time in his life felt helpless.
               
               Months after that sad day, this man made an attempt, to think, that was the first time in his life he thought about something, intensly,he thought "why should I be sad all the time like this, if I compare my self with all those poor people who were buried alive, in front of their kids, am I not fortunate? who still has a place to stay? 
      
                So this man from that day, started to think, about each problem, he faced, and became successful also a famous problem solver, to all the people who approached him.

                I think that's all what life is about, we need to understand, our own brain, before you go and solve others problems, it should not take us a violent storm to teach us this lesson of life, as we mature, physically, it should happen mentally too in the same pace.

              The day each and every man discovers and understands his own mind, he will become free from the cage of false desires, and confusion that he faces every day,and moves in only direction  that is the direction of success.

                Thanks for your time have a great weekend.
             

A Personal Blog.

Hi readers
Happy friday or so goes the song on Fridays at work well,want to share some quick messages with you which I learnt in this week.
             The first thing would be what Mahatma Gandhi said, that is be self -sufficient in life, though I have some  issues with his principles, I follow this.
           Second on the list would be smile as much as you can every day, because it motivates you as well and also the people around you.
             Have deep knowledge in what ever your doing in life, because, generic knowledge does not take us anywhere, and the deep knowledge, will help you solve problems and also we get satisfaction in what we are doing.
                 A person who can make jokes about himself has won the battle with the greatest enemy Mr ego.
            Have a forgiving attitude, which I have learned  from dogs who treat you the same way, each day you treat him well or not, he treats you the same till he dies, just with the hope, that you will change your attitude and take him for his walk every day,thats forgiveness and hope.
            People who make others laugh are mostly struggling with problems in life, and they will forget that by sharing happiness, that is called turning the worst situation into the best.
             finally I want to conclude by saying act according to the situation you live and, never worry about the future just live in the present and move on.
           Thanks for your time,see you again next week.

Point Blank?!

Hello readers
           Hope you are doing fine. Let me start the day with a prayer,I pray to the higher power to help all the people who are in pain and suffering, and also give strength to the soldiers who protect the poor and privileged,and let all the souls who are suffering from war and unfortunate aviation disasters rest in peace.
           Ok moving on with my topic I am sure all of you would have heard of this phrase atleast once in your school life,professional life and so on.We would have heard this in various contexts, the point blank I am referring to is that feeling in your mind where you don't get any thoughts when this happens? Well, it's happened to me many times the situation when it happened to me was when I am bored and absolutely nothing to do. now I am not telling that for all the people who have felt the same are jobless in life.
          But recently I read on flipboard a famous smartphone application that we get such blanks in mind when your brain goes to a master reset mode?  What is that well it's like a RAM over load in  a personal computer.Well if you ask me is it a sign of any disease or is it bad for your health I would say no not at all!  Because these are the times where you get useful thoughts and I feel that it's actually what you really want to think about in life and that is your actual nature with which your born with, I have heard my friends and peers sometimes myself getting questions like how did the human anatomy evolve? Medical science can only explain the mechanism to a certain extent and also they're are no doubt great discoveries but, after certain point they stop and they can't explain you more, if someone asks you a question?  Hey why should I eat and then why should it digest? you may think that guy must be a nut case, but please understand if you just think why he asked you that question you will feel amazed and laugh your self silly and start thinking because you too don't know the answer.
            Dear fellows always think "point blank" and respect these thoughts so that they grow, that leads to higher thinking. Who knows? You may uncover the greatest secret of our existence one day!
            All the best to all and a happy weekend.

The Saviours.

Hi readers
Welcome to saturday,a pleasent morning here enjoying my coffee on my couch, perfect time to share my thoughts with my dear readers ,today lets understand who are the saviours .
         Ok let me ask you a small question when was the last time you were helped by someone? Think and comment after reading this blog, and thanks for that in advance,well what can I say I have been  getting help in every breath I inhale and exhale now are you wondering who is helping me in my breathing which I am doing from the day I came out of my great mother's womb?Ok I can answer this question for you,  don't you feel that your very being there standing without a support on your two feet is a  help given by your own body, organs, muscels,bones and brain well these are what I call the silent saviours.
             The nature which of course is the reason why we are here today in our own sweet world is more than a saviour, I consider it as the universal guardian of this huge ecosystem called the earth.
         you may feel  that I am being very philosophical today, but I have to be  as I feel there is a need to be so for the simple reason which is to awaken people around me, and knock their brains, and tell them, wake them from their deep slumber of materialism into the active march of selflessness.
          There was a stage in my life when I wanted to become a doctor but, I couldn't, which I regret at times that I couldn't,but these days I feel there are many other ways of helping people, which though may not be as equal to as a life saving help what a doctor does, but you can definitely do many more things which will make you feel more evolved in your life and give you a vision and meaning for your life.
            Before I conclude I bow to all the people,animals,basically the whole ecosystem which has helped me to make it possible for me to live a peaceful life till this second, and the almighty who is kind to me and prevented Satan to imbibe his evil thoughts to me.
                   let us make this small passing time of what we call life a selfless one and help as many creatures around you  which will evolve your soul.Let us serve this world and remove negatively from it. thanks for reading.And if you find time answer my question! Have a great week ahead.And remember you get a dozen chances to help people and get help from  everyday its up to you to take that help and return the favour.