The Love Story.

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Hope you guys are doing great.

“A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise”

These days people are using this one word for all possible, reasons  it is been a constant tradition of making movies on it, marketing this word countless number of apps and website about this word.

Well the word is "love" well we all know about this word and we also have experienced it.

The first person you would have experienced love is from your mom and dad.

Well what is love? Is it that feeling that makes you hug someone or is that moment where you smile to yourself silly when you remember that person?

Well I must say even though these words are close to love, but they are not.

This process of love at first site then, meeting up with your soul mate getting married is all bookish and is most suitable to be a very good movie.

But let me narrate a short story which will help us understand that real meaning of love.

This story was written by me few years ago here we go:

Long ago during there was a great war going on in Europe , deep in the woods when all the soldiers were trying to protect their camps, they heard the sound of mounted troops advancing towards them, even though the watch towers tried to restrict them , the cavalry  was  too strong and destroyed the towers and advanced further.

All the soldiers used all the ammo they had and tamed down this outrage except for the last troop, as they were out of ammo they ran for their lives.

Among the soldiers who ran was Lt. John , who was known for his quality of sacrifice in his battalion so he managed to hide his troop including the sergeant beside a deep trunk of a tree and gave the enemies a chase of their life, until he was cornered by them in an old barn, when he looked at the snowy sky and thought that was his end, indeed his prayers were answered when the enemies heard a stiff rustle in the bushes which distracted them and the John got hold of his rifle and fired rounds of bullets that rattled the enemies fled in retreat.

The curious lieutenant wanted to know who caused such a noise which helped him to save himself from the enemy.

When he was about to investigate, there came out a beautiful lady who looked quite frightened and confused and was still trying to understand what just happened.

Seeing her John  smiled at her and said “thank you miss” for saving my life, hearing this the lady was revealed and replied, “ glad to be of service sir and I must thank you for trying to protect our state  at the cost of your own life.!”

Well  they say their souls were in-sync from the moment they had met, well the lady introduced herself as Clara a shepherded women who depended on the wool of her sheep and its meat for her living.

So the situation of war was unstable , the unpredicted attacks by the enemies made John worried about the survival of his army.

But as the saying goes, “ all is fair in love and war” the war went on and John met Clara occasionally during his usual rounds in the forest.

One morning, John and his battalion were woken up by a dreadful attack by the

enemies, unfortunately  most of the soldiers martyred in the attempt John and his two segments got on  their horses and galloped only to be pursued by the enemy.

They landed up in the same barn again, and hid themselves, but were spotted by the enemies, John hid in the bushes, the same bushes where he had met Clara for the first time, eventually he was caught by the enemies and was dragged out, they were asked to choose between death or to be jailed for life all the three brave men , promptly selected death, the first two were executed brutally.

Then came the turn of the Lt. John, who just prayed for one last time and was blind folded by the firing squad, ready to be massacred.

He was shot four bullets, and then the miracle happened! Well he never felt the pain of the bullets, suddenly his blindfold was removed and he was shocked to see that Clara came in- between and saved his life, oh what a tragedy exclaimed John and, shot himself.

Well there ends the story. Well coming back to this word ‘love’ now, do we now understand it at-least? I have only thing to say love is  where your will to sacrifice even your life for the person whom you love or the country you love.

Let us all understand the true meaning of love, buying gifts needlessly and showing off the materialistic person in you will not hold good for long, start accepting people how they are, and start being compassionate to your surroundings, why I use the word surrounding is to highlight that we must all love, nature and its creations among which we are a part of. 

Hope you liked my story.

Changing your perception is the key to success, look for positives ignore the negative.

Thank you.

Self healing-The key to success.

Hello readers

A very good morning to all of you, hope you are doing fine.

It’s ok if you fail or if your being discouraged these tools will challenge you ,and  meanwhile you achieve success.

-Sri Subhas Chandra Bose.

So today wanted to talk about the concept of self-healing.

When we look at this concept of self-healing it is actually a very simple one and we all have this quality embedded deep inside our body and mind both biologically and mentally.

But have we thought about self-healing to solve our issues and difficulties in life let’s see.     

   

So the first self-healing mechanism was recorded some two centuries ago by many scientist and Gurus and we have lot of literature regarding the same.

We also are aware how advanced the field of medicine has become ,this filed is so vast that they have  cameras which can show you ,your own healing process using advanced delayed photography.

Well healing a cut or a wound is the first type of healing which we are familiar with.

It is a great biological process where the body tries and is successful in repairing itself If we just observe the concept, we find that body tries to retain its original shape ,size ,chemical condition and other essentials how much ever its being damaged.

Isn’t that so wonderful?

Yes of course biologist call it homeostasis, where the body follows the two famous feedback methods called the negative feedback or the positive feedback method and tries to bring back your body to stability.

So in nature its very evident that self-healing is the key to survival? And that’s how we, supposed to be the most ‘advanced species’ of all times are here today.

Can we just apply this in our tiny little lives?

Of course we can, well I am not suggesting to, start sulking with diseases and never go to the doctors that will be foolish, but I feel we can definitely start analysing the problems of our own lives instead of just being emotional, weak minded and stop the blame game.

I had told you at the starting of this passage that this a very simple topic it’s about  , how we take our lives ,if we take it too seriously ,life will be the mahout and you will be that tamed elephant ,but if you take  life a little cool and calm and spend time in analysing it ,I am sure we can lead a heard of elephants!

We can lead a composed life. Where the graphs of emotions and productivity will go hand in hand.

What is the key ingredient of success for all the great people who lived and gave us great knowledge and invented things, that we are still fascinated about?, they never cared for tall the people who tried to pull them down they stood there like a rock and they were just oriented on their goal.

So by the time others tried to pull them they were surfing on success. They also controlled their emotions how much ever their mind was trying to cry inside, they maintained homeostasis

Remember we are the only ones responsible for what we are in life today, and you as person is the one who has to, self-heal and maintain homeostasis of your physical body as well as your mental self. The body takes care of itself, most of the time but you will have to take care of your mind.

Just look at the sky when you get a feeling that everything is breaking apart ,the birds fly with such high confidence ,the clouds pass by,some fail in the effort and give us rain some move forward,but they too will melt down.

In life ,there is a fun in every struggle that we undergo,every drop of your sweat ,turns into pearls after the day ends ,and you will sleep in peace ,and I am sure we can only be  peaceful through hard work and truthfulness.

Self-healing is the key to success ,because you’re the best judge ,to rate yourself and I am sure you have all the witnesses within you to prove yourself ,to forgive yourself and also punish yourself ,and at the end of your judgement we have a successful man .Who is self-healed!

All the best to you, start healing yourself.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a great weekend.

                       

Are you thinking?

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work.
- John Lubbock

Today I wanted to talk about, this great gift given by to us by the God, or nature or the evolution whatever you would like to call it, which is the power to think; only few species in this world have the ability, other than us.

Do we use this gift in the correct direction? Which is required, let us see.

                                                                                               

When do we develop thinking, according to medicine and reputed paediatric specialists, a child starts to think even before it can speak and it is said that , the only age a human can think with the most pure mind possible is when he or she is an infant.

 Well what is this pure mind that I am talking about here ?it’s that state of mind where you don’t know what is probability, profit or loss, pride and prejudice, what you know is one sweet word which is called the ‘innocence’.

Child psychologists say “the most amazing part is that the thinking completely changes as a child, advances in his or her age , the brain of the individual grows like a tree mentally and physically ,and it is still has not been  predicted by any doctor in the world ,as to what is the logic in which a person thinks.

Even though we have seen flowchart managers who are experts in drawing logics for example drawing conclusions on the logic on which a convict thinks and what was his motive behind committing that offence. But most of the time it is concluded that he committed for reasons nobody thought of except him!

Well this blog is definitely not about tracking down criminals!

Let me tell you, what I think the thinking of the generations to come and the present generations should be.

In my journey of life till now, since the age I started thinking which I am not sure what age it was, but at least from the time I am aware, that I am thinking, I have learnt many things about myself, like for example thinking is a natural process, no one other than you can push you to think.

Thinking also takes lot of your time, and can stress you out at times. And if we start thinking on unnecessary things, people start telling you “stop worrying buddy”!

I have also learnt thinking needs a clear statement of the problem, and as I said earlier the most important part it needs that innocence to seriously arrive at a solution.

I want to make it clear when I say innocence ,it doesn’t mean that, child -like innocence ,where you don’t know what is fire or you thought of  screaming ,but stopped because ,you remembered what your mother said !that Mr Grim(a fairy tale devil) will mail you to a faraway land!

                                                                                  

We need analytical innocence, when we think and try to solve an issue, think about it in a calm mind-set and keeping aside, thinking enemies like emotions and feelings apart, yes you read it right, I said enemies, the simple reason is that ,when we think emotionally the analytical part of that thought dies and the values part of the problem comes up, and end up being irrational .

You know the main reason I took this topic to discuss is that there is lot mixture in our tiny little lives where the direction in which we think is not supposed to be the way it’s going.

                

For simple issues in life people think in wrong directions and create huge problems that will change their lives for bad which is totally illogical.

These words what I write in my blogs ,show actually the way I think about life ,if you start writing ,you can find out the map or The GPS direction of your brain ,In which it is thinking and apply ,that ‘directional correction’ if it’s taking you in a wrong direction.

Definitely there were and are great thinkers in this world, that Is the reason we are enjoying our life with all the great inventions and values they have left behind!

Well I feel thinking clearly and productively matters and improves your maturity collectively as a person, and shapes you to become a great person, and do you know the most exciting part?  If we think clearly, it automatically increases your rational approach to deal with issues and makes you a person, who respects others feelings and emotions.

So thinking clearly is a bonus. Let’s make this world a better place to live and let live with clear thinking. Also let’s stop thinking about things which are irrelevant to the betterment of the world and stop worrying about things which are not in our control.

All the best and have a great weekend, thanks a lot for your time.

The real happiness.

Hello readers                                                                                                              15-MAY-2015

Welcome back to friday!

Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.

-Helen Keller

Well in today's blog I want talk about, happiness and the way I have understood this feeling which everyone want to feel all the time, is that possible? Let's see.

When do we feel happy ,that would be a simple way to start,we feel happy when we see an old friend ,who was close to you,we feel happy when our desires are fulfilled  and so on.

But is that real happiness, I don't think so ,those jubilant feelings we experience is a reflex action of that moment,for example there are situations where we feel very happy after clearing a test or an exam, the reason is that the brain was in a controlled environment, and had stressed  out ,and when you completed the test ,and also passed it the accomplishment ,eased your brain and you felt happy.

But actually what is real happiness,it is actually you as person feeling happy,confusing?let me make it  clear and simple with an example

Imagine you wanted to take a nap on this saturday afternoon and your very happy that there is no work today and you have finished all your morning chores ,and all set for your power nap,when suddenly your doorbell rang ,and it was your favourite uncle !

You felt very happy to see him ,but inside you feel that someone cribs that you could not sleep?who is that someone?that's the person who lives inside you or your soul.

This is the conflict I am talking about ,we are doing things in life which does not make the person happy ,but only the medium which is your mind happy.

I do agree that there are compromises in life which we do for others pleasure and as a help ,but at some point of time we need to start doing ,what we want to do .

The next type of happiness that I want to talk about is called the combined happiness.

The concept is very simple again,you do things in life which will make you feel happy ,as well as the people around you happy,now how do we do that? well we know many stand-up comedians this is what they actually do ,whatever is the problem going on their life ,they put that aside and laugh to the core and make others or his or her's audience laugh ,which is a great quality.

There is no point in cribbing because as my boss used to say,its the most unproductive feeling you can experience !and the next moment he used to say come on !what's happened has happened just move on! I think that is exactly what we need to do ,we must start living for the moment ,time is very dynamic its sometimes faster than your thought.come what may always aim to be happy and spread happiness

In life I think that is what counts ,we being selfless ,but not cheating yourself and trying to spread the happiness wave .

It is not easy to bring a smile on others face ,when a person is in agony ,great people like
Robin Williams and Michael Jackson had the great power and were successful in making others happy through their great shows,music and movies though their personal life was not a happy one.

In  the end ,I would like to say  spread happiness to the world ,its okay to compromise ,sometimes on our happiness ,for the sake of others ,which will give you as person more happiness,we should start targeting in making our souls feel happy,which happens when we start being selfless and service -minded Which will take us closer towards the path of salvation,in life.

Thanks a lot your time,have a great weekend .