Hello readers 15-MAY-2015
Welcome back to friday!
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.
-Helen Keller
Well in today's blog I want talk about, happiness and the way I have understood this feeling which everyone want to feel all the time, is that possible? Let's see.
When do we feel happy ,that would be a simple way to start,we feel happy when we see an old friend ,who was close to you,we feel happy when our desires are fulfilled and so on.
But is that real happiness, I don't think so ,those jubilant feelings we experience is a reflex action of that moment,for example there are situations where we feel very happy after clearing a test or an exam, the reason is that the brain was in a controlled environment, and had stressed out ,and when you completed the test ,and also passed it the accomplishment ,eased your brain and you felt happy.
But actually what is real happiness,it is actually you as person feeling happy,confusing?let me make it clear and simple with an example
Imagine you wanted to take a nap on this saturday afternoon and your very happy that there is no work today and you have finished all your morning chores ,and all set for your power nap,when suddenly your doorbell rang ,and it was your favourite uncle !
You felt very happy to see him ,but inside you feel that someone cribs that you could not sleep?who is that someone?that's the person who lives inside you or your soul.
This is the conflict I am talking about ,we are doing things in life which does not make the person happy ,but only the medium which is your mind happy.
I do agree that there are compromises in life which we do for others pleasure and as a help ,but at some point of time we need to start doing ,what we want to do .
The next type of happiness that I want to talk about is called the combined happiness.
The concept is very simple again,you do things in life which will make you feel happy ,as well as the people around you happy,now how do we do that? well we know many stand-up comedians this is what they actually do ,whatever is the problem going on their life ,they put that aside and laugh to the core and make others or his or her's audience laugh ,which is a great quality.
There is no point in cribbing because as my boss used to say,its the most unproductive feeling you can experience !and the next moment he used to say come on !what's happened has happened just move on! I think that is exactly what we need to do ,we must start living for the moment ,time is very dynamic its sometimes faster than your thought.come what may always aim to be happy and spread happiness
In life I think that is what counts ,we being selfless ,but not cheating yourself and trying to spread the happiness wave .
Robin Williams and Michael Jackson had the great power and were successful in making others happy through their great shows,music and movies though their personal life was not a happy one.
In the end ,I would like to say spread happiness to the world ,its okay to compromise ,sometimes on our happiness ,for the sake of others ,which will give you as person more happiness,we should start targeting in making our souls feel happy,which happens when we start being selfless and service -minded Which will take us closer towards the path of salvation,in life.
Thanks a lot your time,have a great weekend .
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