Think Before You Help!?

Hi readers
Hope Friday is going well to all of you and So my topic for the day seems very selfish isn't? But don't worry I can prove you wrong.
           We have heard of famous proverbs like "look before you leap "and think before you ink " and we would have quoted it to many people at the right instance, but why think before you help?!
       Can help not be done to people who ask for it?
         The answer should be actually to the deserving yes and for the people who act helpless but are looking for an opportunity to get help from others to run way from their problem for them the answer is no.
          let me tell you why we should help this society? you may be ashtounished by me telling that we have not even repaid this society half the help it has given us today!
            Let me explain you this,we were born on that holy day which we celebrate it as our birthday, that is the day your account of receiving your help started from that doctor and nurse who helped you come out of your mother's womb,and ofcourse your motherbecause of who's grace your leading a life today which has a morning and a night a place to sleep and thought you the basic lessons of life starting from how to drink a glass of water for free!
              Then on you have been getting help from the post man, the newspaper vendor, dont know how many servants who cleaned our dirty clothes.
              Not to forget the military and the army whose help can never be repaid by us unless we become one amoung them.
The money motive
                  Now the obvious argument for above that would emerge would be the people whom I have mentioned above do it for the sake of money, and patriotism which is a noble cause to fight for, with the people who say money, I cant say that I completely disagree with them but with a clause for disagreement which is there is motive other than money which is the service minded motive! Yes don't you think so they help you make you come out of our pressure or stress or get your things done on a larger scale protect you.
            The moral of the story is we have been receiving lot of help but, when its or time to return it back we first do this great calculation without any formulae judging the person who had asked you help, and some questions like, why should I help him? Is he worth the help and many more emerge and this has happened with all of us I am sure because we are all humans with limitations except for those like mother Theresa,and the great pontiffs of the world who have done service and given knowledge to the mass who gatherd and gave out their good thoughts to the world on foot, to wish and make this world a better place to live.
The anti-climax
                       So after understanding  how the world has helped us, let's talk some reality,we all must agree to this that we have all been selfish and money minded always, and help by choosing people like roses which are kept in a church and you the 'preist' decides which flower should be kept on his cross?, sorry my friends this is the sad fate of society, which lacks humanity, and I must say we have started thinking in this direction because we cannot, decide when to become selfish and selfless, and the mother of all disease is the expectation we have to always get a help in return or money or gratitude for me all are the same! They were and are few souls who used to help and not think about it, but that population is diminishing as the sun sets each day, we can get over with all the Wars of the world if there is simple factor called "help" and if all the citizens of a country are in unison with another there is no need for a war or a cease fire.Let's start helping people you can start by helping a kid to choose what education to select? Or helping a blind man cross the street, helping your old neighbours who may be ill and there  children are not with them if you start helping, the person next to you will and it goes viral.The great Yoga guru BKS iyengar who can left his body only a few days ago had said he gets pleasure in helping the people around me and he wants to see them fit,and today you can see millions cured of their pain, just imagine the bliss he would have felt every time he healed a person.
               let's stop thinking and start helping and serving this great society, see you next week thanks for your time, good evening.