Reborn?

24th April 2015

Hello readers

The only way to have a friend is to be one. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

The week is about to end, and there we have the weekend.

So in todays blog I wanted to talk about the concept of rebirth
and being reborn.The concept is actually about being born again every day?!

I know you were thinking about soul and rebirth,actually that is not where I am heading to, on the philosophical side,but I want to explain you about how without our knowledge, we become kids and what you are again.!

Our mind is a wonderful instrument,it helps you to do what you want to learn each day.

Let me start with a simple example, think about the first day you did something, for instance the first time you learnt to write, there was a method in which you were thought by your teacher.

Then you slowly started grouping letters,and formed meaningful,words,and those group of words into a specific sequence and pattern, and you called call it a sentence.

So we need to understand, that we learn everything from scratch and become rookies and then professionals in what ever we do in life.

So the concept of just pushing the weak person down is always pointless and we should stop doing it in life.

When we start working on  a new job we will exposed to all types of difficulties,and we do not have another option other than to accept it and live with it ,but I feel there's not much need to be make it so difficult as it looks,the rookie can be given a chance to swim out of the situation and encouragement can be given to him .

May be I am talking like its an ancient time here ,where the forces of arrogance and ego were not ruling the world fluxed with selflessness,But times have changed the competition is so much that ,people have started making war strategies for the simplest thing,in this world.

But I guess its about time we wake up from the sleep and understand the world in a better way ad start being compassionate and considerate to your fellow beings and help them grow in the way the way they are supposed to be born that will give this world the boost that it need t show the road for the young sparks who are bursting out of  the ocean of knowledge.

We must always remember that ,when we try to bully someone or think that the guy is dumb ,just think when you initially started that task, did you not undergo the same situation?

To conclude ,accept your mistakes ,promote happiness in you and around you,help the weak to become strong and the strong to remain strong,show the guts in talking about good things about a person than speaking rotten things behind this back.

Lastly we must stop cribbing and start living.

Have a great weekend ahead ,and thanks a lot for your time.

The 7th sense?!

Hello readers

I look to the future because that's where I'm going to spend the rest of my life.
-George Burns.

Welcome to Friday, hope you guys had a good week.

In this blog, I would like to talk about the inter-personal relationships between people, and how it works.

I am sure we all have heard of this word called the 6th sense, which simply means seeing the future,or sensing the uncertain, and some people also have the ability to predict danger and warn his friend well in advance.

So what is the 7th sense? Do you feel this is just a out of the box term or it does really exist?

Actually it does exist and some people without their knowledge have become more successful, confident and better managers of their own lives,with the help of this.

If you ask me in specific, the uses of developing this sense,well the concept is too simple, we know that man is a social animal, he leads a societal life.

To lead that societal life successfully,we need to understand the people around us, their feelings, and try to respect it to the extent possible.

Now you can ask me the possible use of understanding the people around us,its first of all the best skill you can develop, you can foresee what's?going in their lives by reading their body language, and we also become considerate towards people, may be help them if they are in distress.

There is a need in this world to understand each person better,and develop common sympathy and empathy towards the person next to you, if that is done I guess this works can be a better place to live.

Let's try to develop the sense which will shape you into a better person and helps you lead a happy life.

Thanks for your time, happy weekend.

Oasis.

Hello readers

Hope your doing great, another brisk week slips out through the time tunnel.

An aging man cannot rewrite his youth but a youth may rewrite his own future.
- Terri Guillemet

Let me start with today's topic.we all know oasis for sure, we had read it during our school days probably the best days of our lives.

We know oasis are present in deserts, which is a totally dry land without trees, and temperatures which are difficult to survive,and then we see the same oasis, present in this hopless climate, those small puddles and ponds of water,which will make that lonely traveller,get some hope and a smile on his face.

Why can't we see our short lived life in the same angle? If you just imagine everytime you fall in this desert, called an issue,or a problem, or some call it the situation, which they have ended up, which we call it the fate! and crib about it all the time.

We must understand the basic law of life, that nothing is permanent in life, it just works like a  wave, which is never static, we will always have two basic waves in life one is the happy wave, which everyone asks for, another one is an unhappy wave, people just move away from it.

But what I feel is that we must treat both these waves as same, as I told you life is a revolving, wheel in which all the portions of the wheel, touches the dirt,the gravels and the potholes on the road.

So what about oasis? Where do they it fit in? You can call it hope, or an happiness in disaster! this sounds little bit confusing doesn't!.

Just think of a situation, you have an important exam in 3 hours! Your all set to go, but unfortunately, the bus you were travelling broke down, and you were late by an hour for that exam. You got too tensed that day, may be you passed the exam with an average mark or may be not, but here the oasis that you learnt is how to handle crisis.

The more you start looking for these opportunities in life, where you convert your problems into opportunities, and finding hope, in hopeless situations, and feeling happy and content Inside.I am sure you can achieve anything in life.

Thanks  a lot for you time have great weekend .

The World behind you?!

Hello readers

Here it comes the Friday, and it is actually the good Friday.So enjoy the festival folks.

My topic for today is about the part we always miss, the world behind us?

If we just think about it for a while, we feel like just playing a game and thinking what will happen?  When I am not on this road!

Many of us even read about it on the Internet. Well that's a computer program, but our lives are not.

But the actual meaning,of the title I want to discuss today, is what happens when you go to a place, and after you leave the place,the importance of our presence,the people who were present in that place,their attitude towards you, in you absence.

Well when your at the place its obvious you can find out what is happening.

But do we know what is happening behind you.

In the game I was telling you about a little while ago there are numerous programs that load when your at the particular place and it keeps switching wherever you navigate.

Sometimes I feel even life is similar, the crowds have become  so confused about opinions towards a person that, they appreciate him when he is around but, blame and hate him, from behind.

People call it back biting which is quite common, and according to a survey I had read in the "Look "magazine which says, a person will be backbites at least 5 times in his life time and, he would have felt bad about it at least 3 times.

I also read in the same article that, the person's brain learns and senses back biting, after quite a while but the person has to develop and cultivate his brain to sharpen to detect when its happening.

This is actually a negative topic but I felt the need to spread the word as,many people and many more just fall for the trap, and consider some people as their friends and share all the good and bad about them.

But the latter just hear everything they say and give, them back a  simple reward of gossip and false publicity about them in a negative way.Even though they enjoyed their company and may be shared their joys and sorrows with them too.

I am still puzzled why the world has become so mean and cruel?,we take help from people who  in our hard times, but we forget about them and suddenly start hating  them!this is very unfortunate.

Just put yourself in that position, and,imagine how sad your mind feels when a person whom you helped just says all the words against you and brand you as useless!.

Finally I would like to say, there are few people, for whom both the worlds are the same,others don't worry, just worry about the world in which you live and don't worry about the world behind you.

My request to you is not to spoil others character and disrespect them when they are not around! You which is the worst habit one can develop.

Let's be transparent in life.Let the paper be white as it is white in the front.

Thanks for your time happy weekend.