Newfangled Relationships

Hello reader

Hope you are happy today.

I wish my life had background music so I could understand what the hell is going on.

-Anonymous

So what is happiness according to you? Is it doing what you like, or following your passion says being part of a band, or following your favourite pop star or being part of your favourite sport can be considered happiness. Ok here is question number two: Is falling in love or being a close friend of someone a passion or an experience, should you take responsibility for it? I will try to put down my thoughts about this today.

The times are tense and very dry, people have lost meaning to words like compassion, empathy, care, sympathy and love. Every word which is linked to an emotion or a value is just taken at its face value, and nothing is considered solemn, and above all, there is this one thing which people look at money.

Do you think it can have an impact on a person’s life if you play with a persons' feelings or emotions?

Of course, before I even tell, you know the answer for this is, so sighting that it is a yes, why do people play games around others just to hurt them and make them feel as if they were fools to "believe" in them or “trust” them and finally end up in a hollow mind.

Even though belief and trust are synonymous I see it as comparative and superlative degrees, you first develop the belief in a person which will later become trust which is stronger than belief/faith.

I feel it is more of a psychological game when we think why such ordeals happen.

Think about this if you decide to manipulate someone for your gains and become that “close friend to him or her” or give that new trade name which is a boyfriend, girlfriend or a gig.” 

And once what you accomplish it is achieved sideline that person or start a gossip shows on him or her among your peers and destroy his entire morale is it fair?

I think the person at the receiving end would have had a very tough time digesting all this garbage if he or she is healthy in mind.

Unfortunately, who is very weak and sensitive, end their lives because of this, I don’t think the people who commit suicide are not thinking about their own lives and the people whom they care about before they take that extreme step.

 For all the people who are in weak mind, why do you care for someone who dumped you, be thankful to them because they made you understand that people can do this to you too! And you were not all “so special” to them after all? Do you think your birth just happened as part of a biological process? Of course, not all the cosmos is responsible for your delivery, so please don’t wash it away by just strangling yourself!

For the people who play, manipulate or cheat with their close buddies in the name of love, affection true friendship, bonding, my god! The list of these catchy words is endless! Don’t think you are victorious just because you were successful in what you think was a game plan.

Games are always meant to be both won and lost, next day it will be your turn to suffer and feel broken about it, so it is better you don’t try to invade in somebody’s mind who trusts you, at least then if someone ditched you there will be others who will stand by you and console.

I hope you liked this blog, please let me know your comments and thoughts on this passage.

Remember money lost can always be earned again, but once you lose a person’s trust or his compassion for you I am sure it won't be the same as it was the first time, I think the only exception here can be a mother.

Thanks for your time.

Helios.