Hello Readers
Hope you are doing well today!
It has been a while since I wrote, always feels good to be back to blogging.
It always seems impossible until it's done.
-Nelson Mandela
I am writing about the concept of groups today; I have etched about this before, but I will give a different dimension to it.
When I say groups, i am talking about social groups, private groups, and finally, even a family is a group of people.
There are numerous quotes, sayings, and whatnot on being in the right group of people to achieve what we want.
How important is a group that we are in?
I feel it is very much essential of what group we belong to.
The simple reason being our brain is wired like an ape; for a fact, we all are the advanced version of simians!
So, the tendency to mimic what others do is very normal.
Let us consider a child; when it is born, the child's brain is very fresh, like a clean glass bottle that can be filled with nectar or poison.
Nectar is the good values, qualities, and other good things you can fill and nurture the kid.
The poison is the act of superior and inferior, the logic we plant in their mind about the world's systems that are not so perfect, like differentiating people based on race, ethnicity, caste and creed, faith, religion, the list goes on!
We need to move on; a baby is like a sculpture; you can turn it into a masterpiece or trash it.
That brings me to the right groups; if the child is born in a robber’s group, it will grow to become one. There are exceptions for any group, for sure. Your birth defines who you will end up in most cases, but this has also been disproved many times.
Sometimes, irrespective of where the kid was born, it blossoms to be the best individual; this is where reincarnation and rebirth of a great soul are evident!
My point is very subtle and simple; either the person should have an in-built maturity to judge what is wrong or right. Or he should develop friendships and relationships with groups which help the person to grow and motivate him.
Let us leave some old practices which are really old and evil and not be judgmental on people based on their birth, let us accept them for what they are by understanding them with fairness.
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Even if the person is an introvert, atleast he or she should have people he or she considers as friends who help them get up when they fall and guide them.
Remember, we are driven by our platoons and sometimes tend to lose ourselves in the storm.
Always think good for yourself and the people around you.
Thanks for your valuable time.
Helios.
