Friday, 29 August 2014

Back To The Present!?

Hello readers
Thanks a lot for your time, it's only because of you my dear pals I have reached this far and get motivated each time to write a blog.
            So I am sure most of you would have watched this super hit movie "Back To The Future "so the movie is about Marty Mcfly (Michael.J.Fox) getting stuck in the past or the future with his friend Doc Emmet Brown (Christopher Loyd).
             So if we see the basic concept of the movie it always gives us a message travelling through time is a risky task, well I am not trying to give a review or a promotional ad about this great movie! but what I want to tell you is that, we always live in this present minute, but think about that hour which has past yesterday or will occur tomorrow, believe me all of us would have done this at some point in our life I am no an exception , even I would have done this,and let me tell you this is not an issue with us, it's one of the mechanisms that our brains adapt to think and help you react, a simple example would be you had some allergy to some fruit punch so, next time your buddy offers you to drink you will for sure retort, and you would say no.

why should we live in the present?
             The simple answer would be, is there any use of thinking or living in the past or for that matter mindlessly predicting the future which is uncertain asin the movie back to the future the scientist invents a time machine,and finally realises, that he had made a big mistake, and regrets it in the last part of the movie.
               Our mind rambels to stay in the present and always takes you to the previous day or that cut -away where you were sruck suffering in some situation, which may motivate you or make you quit. Do you know the result of this rambling,you cannot concentrate on your at work or anywhere for that matter and you take double the time to complete the same task that your doing for a long time.
            So next time you decide to do something do it as if your doing it for the first time that will help you get success in half the time you are taking to finish it now,Ok meet you again next week have a great evening, enjoy life.

Thursday, 21 August 2014

Think Before You Help!?

Hi readers
Hope Friday is going well to all of you and So my topic for the day seems very selfish isn't? But don't worry I can prove you wrong.
           We have heard of famous proverbs like "look before you leap "and think before you ink " and we would have quoted it to many people at the right instance, but why think before you help?!
       Can help not be done to people who ask for it?
         The answer should be actually to the deserving yes and for the people who act helpless but are looking for an opportunity to get help from others to run way from their problem for them the answer is no.
          let me tell you why we should help this society? you may be ashtounished by me telling that we have not even repaid this society half the help it has given us today!
            Let me explain you this,we were born on that holy day which we celebrate it as our birthday, that is the day your account of receiving your help started from that doctor and nurse who helped you come out of your mother's womb,and ofcourse your motherbecause of who's grace your leading a life today which has a morning and a night a place to sleep and thought you the basic lessons of life starting from how to drink a glass of water for free!
              Then on you have been getting help from the post man, the newspaper vendor, dont know how many servants who cleaned our dirty clothes.
              Not to forget the military and the army whose help can never be repaid by us unless we become one amoung them.
The money motive
                  Now the obvious argument for above that would emerge would be the people whom I have mentioned above do it for the sake of money, and patriotism which is a noble cause to fight for, with the people who say money, I cant say that I completely disagree with them but with a clause for disagreement which is there is motive other than money which is the service minded motive! Yes don't you think so they help you make you come out of our pressure or stress or get your things done on a larger scale protect you.
            The moral of the story is we have been receiving lot of help but, when its or time to return it back we first do this great calculation without any formulae judging the person who had asked you help, and some questions like, why should I help him? Is he worth the help and many more emerge and this has happened with all of us I am sure because we are all humans with limitations except for those like mother Theresa,and the great pontiffs of the world who have done service and given knowledge to the mass who gatherd and gave out their good thoughts to the world on foot, to wish and make this world a better place to live.
The anti-climax
                       So after understanding  how the world has helped us, let's talk some reality,we all must agree to this that we have all been selfish and money minded always, and help by choosing people like roses which are kept in a church and you the 'preist' decides which flower should be kept on his cross?, sorry my friends this is the sad fate of society, which lacks humanity, and I must say we have started thinking in this direction because we cannot, decide when to become selfish and selfless, and the mother of all disease is the expectation we have to always get a help in return or money or gratitude for me all are the same! They were and are few souls who used to help and not think about it, but that population is diminishing as the sun sets each day, we can get over with all the Wars of the world if there is simple factor called "help" and if all the citizens of a country are in unison with another there is no need for a war or a cease fire.Let's start helping people you can start by helping a kid to choose what education to select? Or helping a blind man cross the street, helping your old neighbours who may be ill and there  children are not with them if you start helping, the person next to you will and it goes viral.The great Yoga guru BKS iyengar who can left his body only a few days ago had said he gets pleasure in helping the people around me and he wants to see them fit,and today you can see millions cured of their pain, just imagine the bliss he would have felt every time he healed a person.
               let's stop thinking and start helping and serving this great society, see you next week thanks for your time, good evening.
           

          
              

Friday, 15 August 2014

Motivation-The Guardian Of The World

Hi readers
Great words: when I compose a song, there is no sing because I am the song, the beat the cord and the lyric and the instruments thats what makes music a blissful experiance -Michael Jackson.
         so am sure you know the word motivation, there are many times you have been motivated, may be the you were motivated was by your teacher, boss, mom, some stranger on the road or so on, just recollect, what happened? you felt the punch of happiness, and rage to do what you had planned to before that incident happened.first of all you came out of that lethargic atitude.
                 All the inventions of the world are  results of either an emergency or the need and urge to make that job  simpler and easy.Which is boring but the motive.

Motivation and leadership
            A leader should be  a positive person and should motivate people without a second thought one of the primary duty of a leader is to wake people up from the slumber, low confidence, inferiority about themself and low self esteem.
          So now after talking so much about motivation you can ask me why am I telling you so much about it? The simple reason is that,this world works on motivation it is like a graph which has highs and lows when we feel low the motive will boost the spirit inside us to continue the path in which we started to get to the goal. Let's hope that we are always in the  motivation mode and never look back, and keep moving forward without getting tired.

Friday, 8 August 2014

The Five Elements Of Life

Hello readers
          How are you this evening well I am doing good after a busy week happy friday and a fun weekend ahead.
           I want to tell you a story,some are happy I know because you love stories, at the same time some think it's boring but, I will make it an interesting one that's a
deal and remember there is no time line for this story,and I have left that out to your imagination.
I have titled the story as The boy who
never frowned. So let me begin.....

             This is about a boy named Charles Caltrop,who is known for his cool mind, and happy face, and people around him have never seen him frown, this boy was born in a decent nuclear family, his dad is serving the army and mother a doctor and he is the only son due to their busy work life his parents, hey to spend less time with him, but the boy spends most of the time in a church,and an orphanage near his house where he plays and shares his toys with the less fortunate, so as days moved on the boy Charles has now a hand-some man and chose a career to become  a civil engineer and is now  successful in life and has started his own firm his dad is now a X-service man and happily retired and his mom continuing her great service as a doctor.
         Well life and fate had other plans for him or the almighty mostly would have closed his book of happiness well it seemed that way, the first blow in his life,was when his parents confessed to him that he was adopted and from the same orphanage across the lane and no one knew who were his real parents, Caltrop looked at his parents in distress but was happy as he was among the fortunate who was taken care and bowed his head to his great foster parents.
            But this feeling that he is an orphan still haunts him,now Caltrop is an young man with a successful career and is in love with this girl from school and wishes to marry her, again never told her about this, and finally he asked her hand, was surprised that she was into some other guy and she pleaded to him that she could be his friend Nothing else.After this he never spoke to her.
             The third blow came to his life in the form of nature's fury where his latest building site was destroyed due to a flood in that region.
              With all these negative things in his brain,the small boy who never knew how was it to frown, now does it always and has become an impatient, grim and a saddest who advices people not to believe this cruel world that had played ugly games with him.
           Finally this man's has started a new life after he got married to a lady who was is a very kind hearted person and a top beurocrate, this also keeps Charles away from his wife who is jealous of her because of her money and fame,and finally the happy marriage ended up in a divorce, he never got married again and now an old man who can bearly Walk who breathed his last in an infirmary.
             So my dear readers this person saw it all in his life the five elements which I call them they are,
1.love.
2.hate.
3.happiness.
4.ego.
5.and finally realisation of the wrong steps he took in life.
              The Charles Caltrop is none other than you, me, and every simple soul in this world who are being constantly tested like chemicals in a lab. Therefore make sure you are neutral as water and become that universal solvent and dissolve all the  five chemicals after which you will become the same Charles when he was a kid  who never frowned.
            Life is sweet live it and make the most of every second. Thanks for reading Ok till next week take care.
             
          

Friday, 1 August 2014

Brain Printing-what It is? And Its Impact

Hello
There is no shortcut to hardwork,learn to listen and listen to learn, these are the all time truths that I am following all through my life.
            So what is Brain Printing? It is simple, you know brain and you know printing thats it printing a diagram of the brain? Yes that is the generic meaning but actually what it is differs.
            Brain printing is the process of your brain remembering and the same things repeatedly and getting used to that task.Where do they do brain printing?  Well ask a pre-school kid he or she will tell you the usual class drill of reciting the poems and math tables day in and day out, the reason behind which is to build the basic, foundation of vocabulary, logic and english awarness Ok that is fine,but don't you think there is limit after which this need to be stopped after the child grows.I feel there is strong need to stop this after a certain age.

The positive impact
Let me assure that rise kids will be successful in math and english for sure Ok get along with society how it works, and the usual business of life can be carried on without pain.

The negative itch
          Just try this tell to yourself that you can do something for 10 times and see the change in yourself you will feel and get a little bit of confidence. Don't you?  But all through your life you hear these types of statements such as "you can't, hey loser this not cup of tea, come on try something easy, " please understand these are negative thoughts which get printed in your mind without your own knowledge sorry no one can't change that as it designed to be like that and we can't change, but what we can is imbibing positive thoughts in yourself and also others lets keep that aim in mind and tell I can do ten times a day atleast.
         Thank you adios see you again next week.

         

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