Depression :A point of no return?

Hello readers

A very happy Christmas to one and all, and wishing you a great year ahead.

There is a joy in this month of december for many reasons, its a season of, families coming together to celebrate, children get gifts, and everyone enjoys the moment and the festive mood.

However, even when the world is enjoying, there are some poor souls, who are sad and, depressed.For them the words, like happiness,joy, smile are just words, and even their meanings do not matter.

But we have to understand, that they too will have a,genuine reasons to be sad, because there can be a fake laugh, but its unlikely to be depressed for fun.

The are times where I am also depressed, and get these type of questions in mind such as why was I born? Why is God cruel to me? and so on.

We are humans and yes I agree we do have limitations but, there should be a limit for these limitations.

Suppose I take an instance,a student failing in an exam, according to psychology, there are three types of responses that can be expected by the child,the first one would be, being depressed the second will be, diversion and the last one will be showing agression.

In an old regional movie which, I had watched down the time line this example was shown where, a child who was scolded by his dad, runs away from his house, and becomes a helper in a hospital for disabled children.So the kid used diversion and agression as a route to evade from his depression.

So these basic three reactions, are expected by  doctors when we are depressed.

I must congratulate, the people who, showed aggression, and diversion, when they were depressed, as they know lead there life, with the right attitude to deal with their problems and not feel destroyed for what happened.

Also the people who diverted their minds,who have a good motive towards solving their issues and move on in life.

But people who felt depressed,will never come out the well of sadness and demotivation,and always will be people who don't know the meaning of happiness.

Always be a worrier in your mind, and fight each moment, and face every problem strongly, and if you keep doing this, you will never go to that non-productive, static state called depression.
Martin Luther King Jr said long back "stop cribbing, start living "so that would be my message.

Thanks for your time and happy holidays.

IT happens?!

Hi readers

So we are moving towards the last week of this year,each year ends, leaving some traces behind it.lets check what's the next year has in store for us! 2015 here we come. 

So moving on with my topic what does IT mean? are you thinking,is it information technology, or the numerous acronyms,in various fields, no this is a acronym from my dictionary of life which stands for "Incident Test".

What is incident test? let me define it for you, the most simple definition is" a single day in your life."

Seems very simple isn't?actually to be frank its actually simple the reason is,every individual has a schedule in leading his life, day in and day out, and hence you feel come on what big deal, you never know when the sun rised and set, it went just like a train, which reaches its destination on time.

But this wont explain my point about IT, because there are only few people in the  world who are truely blessed, who lead a life which, is totally filled with joy and happiness.

Other than these blessed ones, the majority are constantly tested by new incidents that happen in everyones life, this can be the smallest incident in the world like for instance: you forgot to take your phone to your work place or some-other place  or something so huge that you spine trembled due to the  shock and trauma you underwent because of those few hours.

In all these incidents there is one, universal truth and reality,I am sure atleast one of you reading this, would have guessed it, but let me tell you, these 3 words which are :Surprise, panic,and stress will hit your brain,the moment IT happens.

My friends this is where you should understand, that you have been tested for good, tested to understand your level of patience, your maturity,and finally it brings out your charcter which sometimes may surprise you!

To conclude be prepared for IT which is not a one time stress interview,where you were tested for an hour, there is no time day schedule as to when the forces of nature and the almighty God wants to give you a class, test or who knows,give you the most easiest question, but wants you to answer it without words!?

Lets think about this and pass all the ITs' and be successful in life.

Many thanks for your time and patience have a great weekend, lets enjoy the last week of this year,and pray for world peace.

The world within a world.

Hello readers
Hope your doing great, I am fine, let me start by giving you a fact which is :we have a neural network in our body which is  more bigger than the whole universe!

Let me start with today's topic, so what is a world Within a world? many of you might be thinking, am I talking about reality and illusion? No actually I am not, I am talking about two types of worlds in this moment in which we are living now.

Definitely this concept is true and it is not surprising, as all of you would have experienced this,and may be experiencing it right now?!

How strange, you may ask me, how can I say? that you would have experienced it before, let me tell you I can prove it to you.

A simple instance would be, you at work.Each morning when you leave to work a new world begins, when your car door slams, and you switch on the radio,and start driving , your brain starts projecting thoughts about the day, the day here means only your professional day!? or simply we can call it your work.

In the above example we can see, the change in your world before you got into the car and started to office,  just moments before that, when waved to your mother, and said good bye,the thoughts were still not initiated,but they started popping up ,without your consent when you started driving?

The world what I am talking about, need not to be another planet with new species of animals or aliens, it's about our level of involvement in a particular task or a place or a thing, that makes us forget our present.

It is just like when we were small, a trip to a science museum would make us feel that we were walking, on moon?or you were an inventor?!

The crux of the matter is, all these worlds what I am talking about is, created and presented to you, by the most amazing, device in the world, our brain, that is what makes us feel about people, places,thingsand other beings in its own way, and we should understand, that beyond certain point, it's beyond our reach to control the world it creates.

Let's understand from now on when, you learn something each day, or if you go to a new place,your brain just created a world.

Let's create more worlds, and combine all those worlds into one big globe of knowledge.

Thanks for your time have a great weekend.

The Memory Book.

Hi there
Hope your week went fine, mine just skipped all the days, and here we have friday!

Today I want to talk about memory books,do we seriously have something called as a memory book? When I was small I used to play with these picture books at my school library.

These books used to have pictures of, animals, vehicles, great people and so on, and at the end of the book we used to get a blank page where we could fill the names of the pictures we have seen.

When I was small, for that matter when we were small, we were given this type assignments and we enjoyed doing it.

Now when we look back at that time, it makes us feel happy and smiling how simple our lives were, and all the joy which we enjoyed.

So, is there any use of that fun activity we used to do, I think its yes because, those books at the first place,thought the concept to memory perception and and memory recall, the greatest concept which psychologists say our brain is gifted with.

Its been so many days since all these puddles of happiness which we call childhood, has passed, but still why do we love talking about it and sharing it with your childhood friend?.

The answer is simple, we lived those moments, without knowing these 3 words the first one would be responsibility, the second one would be seriousness and the last one would be thinking.

Why I say thinking is that, we hardly thought, of how people around us felt the way we behaved and made fool of ourselves.

At the end I want to say that childhood was a golden time in our life, we are so called adults today, but the brain which rules you, likes childhood and still works in the same pattern of thinking and the habits you had practiced when you were a kid for solving some problems.

Relish your memory book, today and get lost in those happy moments you enjoyed and thank your parents for, tolerating us,and fulfilling our wishes, I bow to their patience.

Have a great weekend and Thanks for your time.