2 Sides of a coin!

Hello readers

Hope you had a good week.

If you tell the truth, there is nothing you have to remember.

-Mark Twain.

Today wanted to talk about the two aspects of life that we all consider every day ,and react according to it ,one is a smiling face and another is the sad face, or positivity and negativity.

I see the direction in which we are looking at things is sometimes I feel is illogical.

For instance, a conversation between a mother and her child, “Mom I want to learn swimming “there can be two answers for this the first one would be will just be a OK and the child learns swimming.

The second answer can also be a no ,where the mother cautions of being drowned in water.

Ok I am sure all of us would have many situations in our life like this where your parents or guardians said no for ,what you wanted to do ,sometimes you were upset on them ,sometimes not ,but the point which is forgotten is there are many ways of telling no ,or just think ,should it be a no always!

I read an article recently in a popular magazine where ,it says an average human receives the answer 'no' ,at least some fifty thousand times in his life ,and the sad part is the brain too tends to become prone to  negative functionality response  which is now considered as disease ,which reduces self-confidence.

I agree that reasonable "nos" are fine, but why all the time?

So what is the solution for this, the solution is just within you,yes the guy behind the driver seat of the car you drive which is life ,it is how you drive this car in pot holes called negatives and come out happily with a positive smile, and make the passengers ,the people whom you come across in life appreciate on the way you drive!

We must definitely look at life in a positive way, we need to observe, that there is lot of positivity around us, but we tend to choose negativity! For the reasons I explained in the conversation.

Can we not think this way let all the positives remains positive and try to convert all negatives into positive!?

Let there be a balance between the two ,a negative situation is the one driving you towards growth remember that ,because it puts n to stress and strain and makes you worthwhile of the pain you underwent and also helps you in solving the problem by yourself.

A coin has 2 sides, it almost impossible that when you flip a coin it keeps falling  on the heads, or tails. Life also works in a similar way ,we will have ups and downs just look at how to come up when your down and try to stay up ,but if you fall down repeat the same .SO let’s stop being too hard on ourselves.

There is positivity in everything on this earth, it all depends on how we see it, just think of patriots ,saints mentors your teachers ,that one good boss you likes at your work ,some stranger who motivates you, the garbage collector who is focused on keeping your street clean, your old dog who always thinks only  guarding your house.

Remember great scriptures like Gita, Upanishads and all the good books In the world,  aims always to keep us motivated and feel positive.

Dear fellas they are all the glowing sources of positive energy.

I will always stay positive, come on let’s all live a positive life.

Thanks a lot for your precious time.