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Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well

If you think everyone listens to you, either you are in an illusion or you are a shepherd

-Anonymous

We all city dwellers should be happy that this time the monsoons in India was a good success, thanks to mother nature it is like the heart for the agriculturists here.It also recharges the ground water which is very essential as we are exploiting the water table without checks and balances.

Well after that short discussion about the monsoon. We can get started with the main discussion today.

I am sure we all have quarreled or had arguments with family, friends, at work and so on.

When you analyze this word argument it comes from the Latin word argūtāre meaning, to prove, assert, accuse.

There is a difference between a fight and an argument which we all understand, fight is you will have a physical episode with a person with or without weapons, and from ancient times it has evolved from the roots of nature for various reasons like survival, dominance and so on.

But argument according to habitat biologists is present only  in the human community.

How many of us have ended up situations where you know what is exactly going wrong with a person, for example he is working on some project and you know that there is a work around available to get it done easily.

But the issue is either you do not know the understandable method to communicate it to him or the other person is too stubborn or resistant to listing to anyone for that matter.

Well if you ask me if this situation is seen often or is it too rare, I can tell you that this is one of the biggest purposes of communication and it is only because of this situation man evolved in this world intellectually.

A communication is a process which involves the people in question the sender and receiver in between these two you have the process of encoding and decoding the message.

In the process of encoding and decoding you also will see the clause of agreement and disagreement.

So when we come back to our question why is it difficult to convince someone?

I think it is a very critical psychological process at the first stage and in the second stage moves to the ego department of our mind, those who believe in soul, which I believe in depends on it too for the competition of one conversation in a fruitful manner.

So there is no reason that the adviser who has delivered the message with all good spirits regret that the receiver did not heed his advice.

It is all pre-programmed without your awareness to be frank.

The receiver has to only encode the message and understand it with a matured soul, so that he will get that good spirited message.

I conclude by saying there is no point arguing or ending a conversation with a disagreement with anyone, because as the conversation progresses your subconscious already knows the end result.

There are people who also a conversation provocative and contend needlessly just for personal joy, never heed your ears to such people.

So guys relax and leave people to experience the joy of hard experiences so that your advice and their learning from that experience finally converge at a point after some point of time which will give rise to the sun of realization and show the right direction to that person who was roaming in darkness of ego and ignorance.

Thanks for your time. Good day.