life wants to live!

Hello readers

 

Hope you all are doing well

 

You have to fight some bad days to earn the best days of your life.

-Anonymous

 

The situation is getting precarious, COVID 19 has become a tough nut to crack, but still, the hope remains, and we will win, and it should lose.

 

We all have a work cycle after this work cycle; we have a life cycle then we have something in between without these two cycles that is our lives.

 

Off late, I’m reading some grim articles about mental health.

 

How many of us think that the awareness of mental health is enough if not high is adequate in the world?

 

The fact is that awareness is not so great.

 

Why do I say that awareness is not so prevalent? I am very apprehensive about this fact because every other day I see that there are people in this world who think ending their life is an easy option than living and facing it. Of course, the basic premise of negative affinity in the world is prevalent. 

 

Ending a life, do we even know what this means? So damn annoying it is to me and should to all ! you are killing a soul you are executing a brain, and finally, a wonderful opportunity which wanted to live.

 

Talking about the opportunity, should we all not think this life is an opportunity for all of us.

 

There are happiness and sadness which comes as a package to all of us. When will we understand that this is  just a passing phase to us and react in a manner which is not so oblivious?

 

Emotions, these are very natural reactions, it is there in animals, just that we don’t understand their feelings unless we have a big heart.

 

Heart, is this is just an organ which pumps blood throughout your body, or is there any other significance?

 

Biologically yes, it is the root of we being alive and conscious. Still, at the same time, we know for a fact when there is fear our heart races, if you laugh the heart slows down if you cry, your heart becomes mellow, same with your mind.

 

Why do I say, mellow? Yes the stress you have it in you finally gets released when you cry, and you feel pleasant of the clouds of sorrow in your mind melts, yes so crying is a better solution than the extreme step.

 

I don’t want to mention any names. Still, recently in India, we saw some disturbing suicides in the film industry, which was painful to the fans who enjoyed their movies.

 

I am circling back to the mental health and state of mind.

 

Well, I would say the statistics are sombre as I told you, people judge others as happy based on their talking, their smile and their lifestyle which is absolutely a wrong way to look at it.

 

How would you see it, suppose you were that celebrity who is in the limelight. You have achieved what you wanted, and the next morning you see an asphyxiated body of this man or women on the headlines!

 

 I mean do we even know what these guys go through to keep that stardom in the nepotistic industry like a film industry which is a people industry.

 

Now other than celebrities, even people who are leading healthy lives earning their bread, sometimes due to pressure in family, professions or a scuffle in their personal lives think of ending it all.

courtesy google images

 

Ending it all!

 

Does this also even have a meaning, I remember when I was in high school, my biology teacher told us this, “Life wants to live” as kids we couldn’t understand this at the first shot, so we requested her to explain.

 

She answered the following “There are folks in this world who don’t want to live, but when they are about to end it, the life struggles to live and help that soul to live and finally succumbs to physical or chemical reasons, block your nostrils, you will understand what I mean!”. Hence, life wants to live even though you don’t want to.

 

Well, I would say the answer she gave us is both philosophical and also biological.

 

Life tries to live, life wants to live, any animal, people eat as food doesn’t want to die. Still, they can’t help it, and that pain remains in the body after its death because it was a forced death that we gave the life which wanted to live!

 

We need to live life before we even think of running away from it.

 

This phase of the world in hibernation, inside four walls of your house, is pretty stressful and supporting your work and life can get tight. Still, definitely, we can, and we should sail through this storm.

 

 I think no problem in this world in unsolvable we need to find a direction, there was a moon mission in which astronauts figured they would not return but managed to return to earth, it just took them their fortitude and genius to survival, which is the spirit to live.

 

Share your problems with your people who can help you come out of it, let go your ego and reserved attitude.

 

There is this point or limit that your brain can take a level of stress; sometimes, it will have a meltdown, that is the time people tend to make such decisions. One life live it!

 

Thanks for your time, I think this bit was lengthy, please don’t mind it, but I think it needs to be heard and addressed at macro levels in our country and the entire globe.

 

I Will try to keep up my promise of weekly publishing as requested by many readers.

 

Thank you guys for your motivating feedback as always, a special mention to Kate McCarthy from the Netherlands who has been following my writing since 2015 and has shared my blog page with her students, Kate this means a lot to me and has made my job more challenging! Thanks for your brilliant motivation you give me along with your comments.

Have a great Sunday.

 

Helios