Self healing-The key to success.

Hello readers

A very good morning to all of you, hope you are doing fine.

It’s ok if you fail or if your being discouraged these tools will challenge you ,and  meanwhile you achieve success.

-Sri Subhas Chandra Bose.

So today wanted to talk about the concept of self-healing.

When we look at this concept of self-healing it is actually a very simple one and we all have this quality embedded deep inside our body and mind both biologically and mentally.

But have we thought about self-healing to solve our issues and difficulties in life let’s see.     

   

So the first self-healing mechanism was recorded some two centuries ago by many scientist and Gurus and we have lot of literature regarding the same.

We also are aware how advanced the field of medicine has become ,this filed is so vast that they have  cameras which can show you ,your own healing process using advanced delayed photography.

Well healing a cut or a wound is the first type of healing which we are familiar with.

It is a great biological process where the body tries and is successful in repairing itself If we just observe the concept, we find that body tries to retain its original shape ,size ,chemical condition and other essentials how much ever its being damaged.

Isn’t that so wonderful?

Yes of course biologist call it homeostasis, where the body follows the two famous feedback methods called the negative feedback or the positive feedback method and tries to bring back your body to stability.

So in nature its very evident that self-healing is the key to survival? And that’s how we, supposed to be the most ‘advanced species’ of all times are here today.

Can we just apply this in our tiny little lives?

Of course we can, well I am not suggesting to, start sulking with diseases and never go to the doctors that will be foolish, but I feel we can definitely start analysing the problems of our own lives instead of just being emotional, weak minded and stop the blame game.

I had told you at the starting of this passage that this a very simple topic it’s about  , how we take our lives ,if we take it too seriously ,life will be the mahout and you will be that tamed elephant ,but if you take  life a little cool and calm and spend time in analysing it ,I am sure we can lead a heard of elephants!

We can lead a composed life. Where the graphs of emotions and productivity will go hand in hand.

What is the key ingredient of success for all the great people who lived and gave us great knowledge and invented things, that we are still fascinated about?, they never cared for tall the people who tried to pull them down they stood there like a rock and they were just oriented on their goal.

So by the time others tried to pull them they were surfing on success. They also controlled their emotions how much ever their mind was trying to cry inside, they maintained homeostasis

Remember we are the only ones responsible for what we are in life today, and you as person is the one who has to, self-heal and maintain homeostasis of your physical body as well as your mental self. The body takes care of itself, most of the time but you will have to take care of your mind.

Just look at the sky when you get a feeling that everything is breaking apart ,the birds fly with such high confidence ,the clouds pass by,some fail in the effort and give us rain some move forward,but they too will melt down.

In life ,there is a fun in every struggle that we undergo,every drop of your sweat ,turns into pearls after the day ends ,and you will sleep in peace ,and I am sure we can only be  peaceful through hard work and truthfulness.

Self-healing is the key to success ,because you’re the best judge ,to rate yourself and I am sure you have all the witnesses within you to prove yourself ,to forgive yourself and also punish yourself ,and at the end of your judgement we have a successful man .Who is self-healed!

All the best to you, start healing yourself.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a great weekend.

                       

2 Sides of a coin!

Hello readers

Hope you had a good week.

If you tell the truth, there is nothing you have to remember.

-Mark Twain.

Today wanted to talk about the two aspects of life that we all consider every day ,and react according to it ,one is a smiling face and another is the sad face, or positivity and negativity.

I see the direction in which we are looking at things is sometimes I feel is illogical.

For instance, a conversation between a mother and her child, “Mom I want to learn swimming “there can be two answers for this the first one would be will just be a OK and the child learns swimming.

The second answer can also be a no ,where the mother cautions of being drowned in water.

Ok I am sure all of us would have many situations in our life like this where your parents or guardians said no for ,what you wanted to do ,sometimes you were upset on them ,sometimes not ,but the point which is forgotten is there are many ways of telling no ,or just think ,should it be a no always!

I read an article recently in a popular magazine where ,it says an average human receives the answer 'no' ,at least some fifty thousand times in his life ,and the sad part is the brain too tends to become prone to  negative functionality response  which is now considered as disease ,which reduces self-confidence.

I agree that reasonable "nos" are fine, but why all the time?

So what is the solution for this, the solution is just within you,yes the guy behind the driver seat of the car you drive which is life ,it is how you drive this car in pot holes called negatives and come out happily with a positive smile, and make the passengers ,the people whom you come across in life appreciate on the way you drive!

We must definitely look at life in a positive way, we need to observe, that there is lot of positivity around us, but we tend to choose negativity! For the reasons I explained in the conversation.

Can we not think this way let all the positives remains positive and try to convert all negatives into positive!?

Let there be a balance between the two ,a negative situation is the one driving you towards growth remember that ,because it puts n to stress and strain and makes you worthwhile of the pain you underwent and also helps you in solving the problem by yourself.

A coin has 2 sides, it almost impossible that when you flip a coin it keeps falling  on the heads, or tails. Life also works in a similar way ,we will have ups and downs just look at how to come up when your down and try to stay up ,but if you fall down repeat the same .SO let’s stop being too hard on ourselves.

There is positivity in everything on this earth, it all depends on how we see it, just think of patriots ,saints mentors your teachers ,that one good boss you likes at your work ,some stranger who motivates you, the garbage collector who is focused on keeping your street clean, your old dog who always thinks only  guarding your house.

Remember great scriptures like Gita, Upanishads and all the good books In the world,  aims always to keep us motivated and feel positive.

Dear fellas they are all the glowing sources of positive energy.

I will always stay positive, come on let’s all live a positive life.

Thanks a lot for your precious time.

Are you thinking?

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work.
- John Lubbock

Today I wanted to talk about, this great gift given by to us by the God, or nature or the evolution whatever you would like to call it, which is the power to think; only few species in this world have the ability, other than us.

Do we use this gift in the correct direction? Which is required, let us see.

                                                                                               

When do we develop thinking, according to medicine and reputed paediatric specialists, a child starts to think even before it can speak and it is said that , the only age a human can think with the most pure mind possible is when he or she is an infant.

 Well what is this pure mind that I am talking about here ?it’s that state of mind where you don’t know what is probability, profit or loss, pride and prejudice, what you know is one sweet word which is called the ‘innocence’.

Child psychologists say “the most amazing part is that the thinking completely changes as a child, advances in his or her age , the brain of the individual grows like a tree mentally and physically ,and it is still has not been  predicted by any doctor in the world ,as to what is the logic in which a person thinks.

Even though we have seen flowchart managers who are experts in drawing logics for example drawing conclusions on the logic on which a convict thinks and what was his motive behind committing that offence. But most of the time it is concluded that he committed for reasons nobody thought of except him!

Well this blog is definitely not about tracking down criminals!

Let me tell you, what I think the thinking of the generations to come and the present generations should be.

In my journey of life till now, since the age I started thinking which I am not sure what age it was, but at least from the time I am aware, that I am thinking, I have learnt many things about myself, like for example thinking is a natural process, no one other than you can push you to think.

Thinking also takes lot of your time, and can stress you out at times. And if we start thinking on unnecessary things, people start telling you “stop worrying buddy”!

I have also learnt thinking needs a clear statement of the problem, and as I said earlier the most important part it needs that innocence to seriously arrive at a solution.

I want to make it clear when I say innocence ,it doesn’t mean that, child -like innocence ,where you don’t know what is fire or you thought of  screaming ,but stopped because ,you remembered what your mother said !that Mr Grim(a fairy tale devil) will mail you to a faraway land!

                                                                                  

We need analytical innocence, when we think and try to solve an issue, think about it in a calm mind-set and keeping aside, thinking enemies like emotions and feelings apart, yes you read it right, I said enemies, the simple reason is that ,when we think emotionally the analytical part of that thought dies and the values part of the problem comes up, and end up being irrational .

You know the main reason I took this topic to discuss is that there is lot mixture in our tiny little lives where the direction in which we think is not supposed to be the way it’s going.

                

For simple issues in life people think in wrong directions and create huge problems that will change their lives for bad which is totally illogical.

These words what I write in my blogs ,show actually the way I think about life ,if you start writing ,you can find out the map or The GPS direction of your brain ,In which it is thinking and apply ,that ‘directional correction’ if it’s taking you in a wrong direction.

Definitely there were and are great thinkers in this world, that Is the reason we are enjoying our life with all the great inventions and values they have left behind!

Well I feel thinking clearly and productively matters and improves your maturity collectively as a person, and shapes you to become a great person, and do you know the most exciting part?  If we think clearly, it automatically increases your rational approach to deal with issues and makes you a person, who respects others feelings and emotions.

So thinking clearly is a bonus. Let’s make this world a better place to live and let live with clear thinking. Also let’s stop thinking about things which are irrelevant to the betterment of the world and stop worrying about things which are not in our control.

All the best and have a great weekend, thanks a lot for your time.

Reality Check.

Hello readers

Hope your doing great.

Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose.
- Lyndon B. Johnson

Well in today's blog I am  going to talk  about something we all need to check ,but  we often avoid or forget to check.

Whenever you go out in your car on a long drive we check certain things , like the fuel level of the car ,the tyre pressure and also the general fitness of the vehicle.

Well that's actually a good habit to follow ,to avoid any break downs en route to your destination.

Now if we take that concept and implement it in our life will that be helpful?lets see.

Just consider your life as the destination you want to travel and your the car ,and the driver who will have to drive!

Then just think what reality checks will you do?confused? ok let me tell you.

The reality checks we need to do for  reaching  destination life  are like:

The fuel -When was the last time you smiled?

The reading in the odometer in your vehicle-The number of people you have helped till now?

The tyre pressure-How much stress you can taken  in life and be composed.

The emission test-How well you can handle your emotions and not shout and disappoint people even though you know it's their mistake?

The wipers of your car -How many tears have you whipped till now and brought back their smile?

The speed limit-How satisfied are you in life with what you're doing and are you going in the right direction you wanted to go and driving in the right speed?

The correct route-How truthful are you to yourself ?

The Toll gates-Have been sorry for the mistakes you have done till now and not repeated them?

There are many factors like these which define our life.

Some of us love to drive automobiles enjoy that ride ,that is the reason I decided to correlate the concept in this way.

We must always try to bring a smile in a dull face ,solve a problem if it is within your reach ,consider the whole world as a big family,and try to make new friends each day.

Try to smile ,than to frown,try to help than to shy away without helping ,try to build a team and help a country to grow ,show patriotism and love your motherland ,and be proud of what you're doing in life .

Come what may ,ever time you come across a speed breaker -a person who tries to demotivate you gently drive on the speed breaker,tell him thanks for your good compliments sir! give a smile back for his frown and continue with your journey!

If we drive our car in this way I think we will be the most efficient vehicles manufactured ever.

Thanks a lot for your time ,have a great weekend.

The real happiness.

Hello readers                                                                                                              15-MAY-2015

Welcome back to friday!

Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.

-Helen Keller

Well in today's blog I want talk about, happiness and the way I have understood this feeling which everyone want to feel all the time, is that possible? Let's see.

When do we feel happy ,that would be a simple way to start,we feel happy when we see an old friend ,who was close to you,we feel happy when our desires are fulfilled  and so on.

But is that real happiness, I don't think so ,those jubilant feelings we experience is a reflex action of that moment,for example there are situations where we feel very happy after clearing a test or an exam, the reason is that the brain was in a controlled environment, and had stressed  out ,and when you completed the test ,and also passed it the accomplishment ,eased your brain and you felt happy.

But actually what is real happiness,it is actually you as person feeling happy,confusing?let me make it  clear and simple with an example

Imagine you wanted to take a nap on this saturday afternoon and your very happy that there is no work today and you have finished all your morning chores ,and all set for your power nap,when suddenly your doorbell rang ,and it was your favourite uncle !

You felt very happy to see him ,but inside you feel that someone cribs that you could not sleep?who is that someone?that's the person who lives inside you or your soul.

This is the conflict I am talking about ,we are doing things in life which does not make the person happy ,but only the medium which is your mind happy.

I do agree that there are compromises in life which we do for others pleasure and as a help ,but at some point of time we need to start doing ,what we want to do .

The next type of happiness that I want to talk about is called the combined happiness.

The concept is very simple again,you do things in life which will make you feel happy ,as well as the people around you happy,now how do we do that? well we know many stand-up comedians this is what they actually do ,whatever is the problem going on their life ,they put that aside and laugh to the core and make others or his or her's audience laugh ,which is a great quality.

There is no point in cribbing because as my boss used to say,its the most unproductive feeling you can experience !and the next moment he used to say come on !what's happened has happened just move on! I think that is exactly what we need to do ,we must start living for the moment ,time is very dynamic its sometimes faster than your thought.come what may always aim to be happy and spread happiness

In life I think that is what counts ,we being selfless ,but not cheating yourself and trying to spread the happiness wave .

It is not easy to bring a smile on others face ,when a person is in agony ,great people like
Robin Williams and Michael Jackson had the great power and were successful in making others happy through their great shows,music and movies though their personal life was not a happy one.

In  the end ,I would like to say  spread happiness to the world ,its okay to compromise ,sometimes on our happiness ,for the sake of others ,which will give you as person more happiness,we should start targeting in making our souls feel happy,which happens when we start being selfless and service -minded Which will take us closer towards the path of salvation,in life.

Thanks a lot your time,have a great weekend .

One step closer.

Hello readers

Welcome back to weekend, I have lost track of time, that's how fast it's going.

I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.
- Ernest Hemingway

Well today wanted to talk about this concept, which is true, in many of our lives.

When we were born,and we were innocent, that is the basic quality, a baby will have say the doctors

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Well the obvious part is that we finish our journey and, leave this great earth, when the journey ends we are supposed to be wise,as we would have travelled and completed our small world tours of happiness,sadness and reach the final destination.

Rest in peace is slogan when that journey ends,which is very symbolic.

Actually what matters is that the time after the arrival and before departure, which is collectively called life, so do we go one step closer to become wise each day let's see.

I decided to write this blog because everyone is always in a hurry for no reason, we are not living life, in the way it should have been lead.

So if you ask me how am I sure? when  I make such statements, I mean what right and judgement do I have? to judge on people's life? and life style.

Well the answer is not so complex, we are seeing the world in apathy and unrest, each day,people always try to outsmart the next one,bully others, the crime rates,the so called bureaucrats, over -riding the system, the person who is affected in this chain of events is a man who wants to move one step closer.

The person who wants to think clear, who wants to do, good for the society, wants to change certain things around him, he  is considered as an obstacle, to all.

If you ask me what happens, to these people, they just become wise and do what is required, and take that extra mile, each day to do something and go one step closer to become more wise, more satisfied and get peace in life.

Every time we help others,we donate for a cause, encourage positive mental growth, we get satisfaction, and I think that's all it takes and makes lot of difference, in everyone's journey to move one step closer to God himself.

We must always experience hardships, that is when we understand the value of success,and what it take to become successful and also understand how to solve a problem? we must listen to the problems of everyone that is when we can solve it and that is when your mind grows.

We must experience every aspect, which should be so pure, as the air we breath in, and in a constant speed like the rotation of mother earth.

Let's start moving one step closer each day, towards,peace, towards becoming wise, and give this journey, a good conclusion.

Let us all start being more patient ,more considerate to the person next to you and see him just as an another person ,instead of analyzing him a like a fund,which can can gives you return on your investment! that is the help you did to him or her , the time you spent with him or her!

All the best to all of us. Thanks a lot for your time.

Take care.

The real world, redefined.

Hi readers

First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak.
- Epictetus

Hope you are doing great, here comes the Friday again.

Well time just breezed over this week.

I wanted to talk about, this topic from a long time.

But it took me sometime to pool up all that I wanted to tell, and still I am not satisfied, that I have can give you my complete idea about this, but let me try.

I am very much upset about how somethings work around us.

The modern world which we say! Has totally  become a place without any meaning.

We always hear from people who say the world is becoming smarter each day.

But some intellects say becoming so smart suddenly is a disaster.

I some how have to agree with them, once I had a debate with a friend regarding this,it turned to at the end,that I was being very, ancient in my thoughts the comment that I got from my friend , and we concluded that too much of this so called smartness becomes useless.

The present world or the real world is running with a velocity, which is dangerous, where the people are forgetting the basic values of life, which is very unfortunate.People view their life like a profit or a loss statement.

Relations have no meanings,a person is being loved in a different way, in each stage of his life, loved as kid, then adored as a son or a  daughter married and again being loved by his or her partner.

Wish it was like that but, the real world works in a different way where people become too selfish,and start doing only what they like, and the people who helped them to become what they are today,and fulfilled their desires are totally forgotten.

The solution? Please start leading life in the way it has to lead, we have to live like a flower,which keeps smiling, even though it knows it will be plucked form its stalk, be friends with all, enemy to none, respect parents and their opinions. Practice service and sacrifice it gives you peace.

We can learn many things from the nature around us like a peepal tree which gives shelter to all,let's help as many people we can and be kind to animals which try to live around us.

Why should we put others in stress if we cannot take that stress?develop patience to and a stable mind to solve issues.

Let all the sons' of their proud fathers' take Charge of their families after they are capable of taking it, and bring a smile on their parents faces , and make their life worth living.

In many communities in India and around the world, relations are broken into pieces due to the sensitive ritual called the marriage, but the wizards who have designed the solution modules,to make it a well organised event, have to be applauded for making things easier for this generation,and I am sure we can lead a happy life by respecting our customs.

I agree that choosing a partner is his or her personal choice, but its important to take deep dive before taking decisions in life,and should not result in breaking relations and families.

To conclude the real world has changed over the years, but still there are people whom we think are true and share our precious feelings with them, a brother, who can help his brother to take decisions, a mother who is concerned about her children, a father who takes all the responsibility of a family, a friend whom you consider your lifeline to talk freely,a dog who sacrifices,his family and becomes your pet.

The generations should start looking at life in a matured way, and keep away from differences,arrogance, ego, and start respecting the feelings of the people around then and grow from inside, which will make that person's soul as pure as a pearl.

Hope I could convey my view, thanks for your time have a great evening.