Root cause,The self research.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

You are always more capable than you think you are.

-Einstein

Life moves on each day, we all keep wondering always the good and bad happening to us each day, so I thought let’s start thinking about the root cause of all things that are happening.

So let me tell a small story, Mr Beagles is a successful person in life and very much satisfied with his own life, he is also very jovial with all the people and also has a good helping nature and also a compassionate person.

But still in his life he is used to undergo phases, where he used to feel disheartened from various reasons like a petty fight with his wife or children, a small argument with his boss at his work place and so on.

It so happened that he met an old friend one day and found that he is also working in a similar industry same as Mr.Beagels, so they started discussing about their respective businesses and also socializing with each other families.

Beagles was surprised to see that his friend never used to crib about things and this made him realise he is actually the person happy in life.

So he made up his mind asked his friend, “Can you please tell me how you manage to be so happy in life”?

The friend replied “I see happiness in everything’’ and just smiled at Beagles” Mr.Beagels was very much confused with this answer and started thinking in depth about the answer being given by his friend.

After few months Mr.Beagels was also happy like never before and same with his wife, even though he was a satisfied man in life, he had never felt so pure and peaceful.

So what do you think is the trick that helped him to lead this happy life?

It’s nothing but thinking, when his friend said that he sees happiness, Beagles was puzzled how he can see happiness in all things like in situations of death or a disease.

Then the great realization struck to his mind that, of course his friend was suffering with many problems of life, he just spent time in thinking about this problems and stop being emotional abut it and was thinking on it in a deeper way and had found the root cause of his own problems and had taken responsibility to correct those problems.

So people there is no point in sitting on our own problems and just cribbing about them , we need to just get there, analyse and solve it like a mathematician who solves a problem. I think that is the most challenging part of life, and we need to move on from all these situations and try to balance our problems and deal with it instead of blame games ,and showing g anger on others.

Always remember if you want to quit, think why you started it!

All the best start thinking and, come let’s solve those petty problems.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a great weekend.

The Sigmoid Curve.

Hello readers

Hope you guys are doing well .

Do not wait until the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.

-William Butler Yeats

Well it’s another gloomy day here in Bangalore, a great season to take out the blankets and sleep.

But definitely we need to work towards our goal and then we will sleep in peace, well today wanted to talk about growth and difficulties in growing.

We all have heard about the title, the sigmoid curve, it is usually quoted in two fields, of science in mathematics and biology .In mathematics it is been studied in a bigger branch of the subject called the calculus.

In biology a sigmoid curve helps in understanding the growth rate of animal, bacteria, the cells in our body and so on. There is a main characteristic of this curve that is the‘s’ shape and the gradual dips and boosts is also a feature to be observed.

When we start discussing the growth aspect, immediately we get the next thought, how the growth rate is, is there any hindrance that is slowing the growth? And so on. Definitely there will be always factors that will promote growth as well as demote the growth that is the rule of nature to maintain equilibrium.

Let’s start with Children ,when a child is born the parents are the most happiest people in the world ,they promote the growth of that child to the maximum extent possible by providing the essential values of life ,the love and care it needs. Then there comes a stage in the life of the child where he or she has reached equilibrium in the sigmoid.

The future dim or dip of the curve according to me should be taken care of that child, that is what determines the next aspect which is, how he or she will handle difficulties ,that are sure to first discourage the person’s growth but, getting out of these hard times will definitely will get the person success.

Now talking about is this word called difficulty, I feel this is an important word that makes its mark in a person’s life, it can make a person or break a person, it can make a person a hero or a complete loser in life, he becomes wise or a fool, if he does not know to handle difficulties, the foolishness can go so intense that sometimes it may lead to even death!

The part about death I was talking about is definitely not an exaggeration ,have we not seen people dying just because he did not get a nod from a Girl or his dad for his marriage ,come on can he even take that situation as a difficult one? That is the sad state of this world .People have lost the sense of differentiating, what they can handle and what they cannot! And consider all situations they face as difficult.

This happens due to loss of patience.

We want everything to happen in a jiffy like a pizza delivery! No that is not how life should work, there should be struggle in life we must face difficulties, drown in them and then come out clean, like a fish out of a dirty pond.

These difficulties are the testing times in a person’s life.

It starts suddenly ,escalates and goes to a  point where we feel it’s all over !then it stays there for a while and after that the breaking point is reached from the next moment what you will see is only a life of success where you can be confident to face the upcoming difficulties of life.

When we see the sigmoid curve after the equilibrium point it moves further higher ,we must not mistake that its becoming more worse than before ,because according the theory in biology the growth further moves on ,so we can interpret that our difficulties will come down and promote growth.

When we walk ,tripping is normal ,likewise for growth ,hindrance is natural ,that doesn’t mean we must close this book called life by just seeing the first few pages and thinking that it is difficult to read.

Let us face difficulties and grow wise, and help others to come out of the same situation and help them as well, to grow, to become better individuals in life.

Thanks a lot for your time, all the best, make sure your sigmoid always maintains its shape.

Have a nice day.

Self healing-The key to success.

Hello readers

A very good morning to all of you, hope you are doing fine.

It’s ok if you fail or if your being discouraged these tools will challenge you ,and  meanwhile you achieve success.

-Sri Subhas Chandra Bose.

So today wanted to talk about the concept of self-healing.

When we look at this concept of self-healing it is actually a very simple one and we all have this quality embedded deep inside our body and mind both biologically and mentally.

But have we thought about self-healing to solve our issues and difficulties in life let’s see.     

   

So the first self-healing mechanism was recorded some two centuries ago by many scientist and Gurus and we have lot of literature regarding the same.

We also are aware how advanced the field of medicine has become ,this filed is so vast that they have  cameras which can show you ,your own healing process using advanced delayed photography.

Well healing a cut or a wound is the first type of healing which we are familiar with.

It is a great biological process where the body tries and is successful in repairing itself If we just observe the concept, we find that body tries to retain its original shape ,size ,chemical condition and other essentials how much ever its being damaged.

Isn’t that so wonderful?

Yes of course biologist call it homeostasis, where the body follows the two famous feedback methods called the negative feedback or the positive feedback method and tries to bring back your body to stability.

So in nature its very evident that self-healing is the key to survival? And that’s how we, supposed to be the most ‘advanced species’ of all times are here today.

Can we just apply this in our tiny little lives?

Of course we can, well I am not suggesting to, start sulking with diseases and never go to the doctors that will be foolish, but I feel we can definitely start analysing the problems of our own lives instead of just being emotional, weak minded and stop the blame game.

I had told you at the starting of this passage that this a very simple topic it’s about  , how we take our lives ,if we take it too seriously ,life will be the mahout and you will be that tamed elephant ,but if you take  life a little cool and calm and spend time in analysing it ,I am sure we can lead a heard of elephants!

We can lead a composed life. Where the graphs of emotions and productivity will go hand in hand.

What is the key ingredient of success for all the great people who lived and gave us great knowledge and invented things, that we are still fascinated about?, they never cared for tall the people who tried to pull them down they stood there like a rock and they were just oriented on their goal.

So by the time others tried to pull them they were surfing on success. They also controlled their emotions how much ever their mind was trying to cry inside, they maintained homeostasis

Remember we are the only ones responsible for what we are in life today, and you as person is the one who has to, self-heal and maintain homeostasis of your physical body as well as your mental self. The body takes care of itself, most of the time but you will have to take care of your mind.

Just look at the sky when you get a feeling that everything is breaking apart ,the birds fly with such high confidence ,the clouds pass by,some fail in the effort and give us rain some move forward,but they too will melt down.

In life ,there is a fun in every struggle that we undergo,every drop of your sweat ,turns into pearls after the day ends ,and you will sleep in peace ,and I am sure we can only be  peaceful through hard work and truthfulness.

Self-healing is the key to success ,because you’re the best judge ,to rate yourself and I am sure you have all the witnesses within you to prove yourself ,to forgive yourself and also punish yourself ,and at the end of your judgement we have a successful man .Who is self-healed!

All the best to you, start healing yourself.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a great weekend.

                       

2 Sides of a coin!

Hello readers

Hope you had a good week.

If you tell the truth, there is nothing you have to remember.

-Mark Twain.

Today wanted to talk about the two aspects of life that we all consider every day ,and react according to it ,one is a smiling face and another is the sad face, or positivity and negativity.

I see the direction in which we are looking at things is sometimes I feel is illogical.

For instance, a conversation between a mother and her child, “Mom I want to learn swimming “there can be two answers for this the first one would be will just be a OK and the child learns swimming.

The second answer can also be a no ,where the mother cautions of being drowned in water.

Ok I am sure all of us would have many situations in our life like this where your parents or guardians said no for ,what you wanted to do ,sometimes you were upset on them ,sometimes not ,but the point which is forgotten is there are many ways of telling no ,or just think ,should it be a no always!

I read an article recently in a popular magazine where ,it says an average human receives the answer 'no' ,at least some fifty thousand times in his life ,and the sad part is the brain too tends to become prone to  negative functionality response  which is now considered as disease ,which reduces self-confidence.

I agree that reasonable "nos" are fine, but why all the time?

So what is the solution for this, the solution is just within you,yes the guy behind the driver seat of the car you drive which is life ,it is how you drive this car in pot holes called negatives and come out happily with a positive smile, and make the passengers ,the people whom you come across in life appreciate on the way you drive!

We must definitely look at life in a positive way, we need to observe, that there is lot of positivity around us, but we tend to choose negativity! For the reasons I explained in the conversation.

Can we not think this way let all the positives remains positive and try to convert all negatives into positive!?

Let there be a balance between the two ,a negative situation is the one driving you towards growth remember that ,because it puts n to stress and strain and makes you worthwhile of the pain you underwent and also helps you in solving the problem by yourself.

A coin has 2 sides, it almost impossible that when you flip a coin it keeps falling  on the heads, or tails. Life also works in a similar way ,we will have ups and downs just look at how to come up when your down and try to stay up ,but if you fall down repeat the same .SO let’s stop being too hard on ourselves.

There is positivity in everything on this earth, it all depends on how we see it, just think of patriots ,saints mentors your teachers ,that one good boss you likes at your work ,some stranger who motivates you, the garbage collector who is focused on keeping your street clean, your old dog who always thinks only  guarding your house.

Remember great scriptures like Gita, Upanishads and all the good books In the world,  aims always to keep us motivated and feel positive.

Dear fellas they are all the glowing sources of positive energy.

I will always stay positive, come on let’s all live a positive life.

Thanks a lot for your precious time.