The comedian.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing good.

To give someone piece of your heart, is worth more than all the wealth in this world.

-Michael Jackson.

There is one thing in this world that we all like , that is laughing  the beauty of laughing is that we forget our differences when we laugh and it is the second expression after crying that we all would have expressed I am sure all our parents would have recalled it, for them it was a jubilant moment to see that innocent face chuckling.

All of us follow a mood culture in our tiny stay on this earth, well if you ask me what is mood culture? This is relatively a new term in psychology, and it is defined as the graph that can be plotted by observing a person’s change in his moods in a single day or over a period of time.

We are aware of the fact that frame of mind is playing an important part in our lives, the simple question I would like to ask is, if we are expressionless, this world would not have been like this, it would always be gloomy.

When a whole crowd was serious, there was that one person who laughed loudly despite the “maintain silence” board seeing which others in the crowd felt lighter that is the beauty of humour.

When we wake up in the sunrise the mood we are in is calm and neutral , as you know it is a very natural effect of sleep, unless your yesterday was so bad that you couldn’t sleep over it, that your brain carried it on.

So after your fully awake and ready to go wherever you want to you go, there is this place you will definitely visit and you go to this place each day, are you thinking about that secret place where you hid your best stationary, which you did not want to share it with your sibling! No I was just talking about your bathroom.

It is proved that, this place defines the phrase “lighter moods”. When we think about this place what comes to your mind? At first soap, shower, taps, water and so on but,I am sure even this word will strike you: “Bathroom singing or singing in the shower”.

Of course I proudly agree that I sing in the bathroom at times and I am sure most of you do, and we never care about the listeners.

I think it is just amazing, our brains enter this state of bliss, we sing all our favourite songs and come out happy and again become serious, To be scientific on this , when I did some research on this mindless and hilarious singing, I found that when your alone, your brain reaches this lighter mood where we forget all our problems and turns you into a comedian, where you remember all your happy moments and the result of this remembering of your lighter moments is singing, this also happens during long drives, where you hum along with your car stereo or with your fellow passengers.

Seriously I feel this is just incredible, what a wonderful creation is our brain? It knows how to go easy on you and when to be tough with you.

But you should be above your brain and decide whether you want to be in a lighter mood or always be that grim fellow.

Problems are there for all but jumping out of the box is what is required, we all should laugh our hearts out each day, laughing clubs are not the places I want you to go because it is not an exercise that we laugh in a particular pattern as instructed by someone, it is a reflex action that is triggered, and it has to be that way.

Try to be a comedian to yourself and all the people around you and just check, your problems will vanish in thin air.

Remember how you were caught in class for laughing loudly after few seconds the whole class including your professor burst into laughter.

Remember when you had a great ‘singing session’ in the bath and your family had that glued smile on their face when you came out.

Life is not as hard as we think it is light and gets lighter like a feather, keep your focus on the goal you want to achieve but let smiling be one of your tool to achieve it.

Thanks for your time and have a nice day.

The Refresher.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

Read failure stories,you get some ideas to get success.

-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Life is all about making mistakes and learning from it, this is one of first lessons we had learnt, in our childhood.But  this statement has a very deep meaning.

We all would have made mistakes in childhood, knowingly or unknowingly and it is just considered as an act of innocence.

But looking at the current situation and talking in the present we all commit mistakes on purpose, why is that, what motivates us to do it?

Well initially we can say, desire is the root-cause, but I personally do not agree with that statement, for the simple reason that desires are not bad these desires and ambitions is actually what keeps us going on in life and help us to achieve new goals and builds hopes in us.

So what is “the” or list of factors which motivate us to divert away from not doing mistakes to just getting it wrong each time.

I think the first and foremost reason is that we get too much emotional when we start to do something ,for instance if you’re driving most mistakes happen, your driving is the reflection how you handle your emotional stress, we swear at people on the road as most of the people do not follow traffic rules, and even though we are driving ok we are not happy at others driving without road sense, this is actually a very primitive example to show how we just waste our emotions on silly incidents.

When we have been put in a situation, our minds follow the traditional problem solving framework and majority of us do not think out of box and the total process is engulfed by proper experience and emotions which blocks our thinking ability.

We can think clearly I tell you , it is not at all a difficult task but we have resistance in doing that, we all need to become great listeners, listen to beautiful things around you, understand others emotions respect them, try to think in a logical way, and try to keep sentiments out when you’re trying to think, I assure you if you practise this we can lead a better life. Avoid knee jerk reactions.

For all problems there is and will be a solution and that answer is none other than you, others who care about you can give you some useful suggestions but you are the one who will initiate the process of solving the problem, it is like your sub-conscious initiating a process of healing a wound after you have taken good care of that wound, by guarding it from infection.

We all need refreshers in life , as we seemed to be lost at times,  where we are caught in the web of problems and complexities and you feel your brain is locked, meditation would be a best option which opens up these locks and you would get the answers for your problems automatically.

Knowing what you’re doing mistake but still doing it is not maturity, if you are still doing it,  guess you’re just fooling your own character and eventually will lose it.

I wish all my dear readers success in whatever they wish to achieve, let us think logically, and keep our mind fresh like the dew on roses.

Have a nice day.

The valiants and the frontrunners.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock.

-Thomas Jefferson.

We are born innocent in this world, and pretty much learn everything from our external environment continue learning, throughout our life.

There are certain qualities for which there is no learning required, but it is stamped in our genes from the day you were born, we prevalently call these qualities as nature or charisma of that particular person.

Among those aptitudes I feel being brave and becoming a leader is one of the toughest tasks in life. Well I am not pessimistic here by saying it’s a herculean task, but to be frank I feel that is the reality.

Being Brave.

Bravery has been my all-time amusement about a person, and the reason behind my admiration is, I think many people would have felt this: A brave person is a risk taker and positive motivator, he brings confidence in people around him, so the weaklings who are low in confidence look him up as a hero and as a matter of fact start following him and one day they too become brave.

I always had a question: Is a gender a Criterion to be brave? to be frank this question is haunting me from my middle school when I was first thought about the freedom struggle of India, I would never forget those history lessons, even though I hated history when I was in school, I feel history is one of the best subjects to understand a person’s life.

So when I read about some great freedom fighters like Rani LaxmiBai of Jhansi Rani Channamma of Kittur, I keep wondering certain things like: the maturity level of these people at that time ,it was brilliant , now we all sit in our corporate classrooms and learn about great words like, self-motivation ,positive thinking , stress management and so on , but down the time there were no corporate classrooms! the environment in which they lived was their best teacher , and also want to mention this word called commitment which is frazzled these days and most of us dearth ,I feel these leaders had two hundred per cent commitment towards whatever motives they wanted to achieve.

Finally I have concluded gender has no business to do with bravery , it’s just that brightness which should come from inside , seeing which the people around definitely will understand that ,this person is different from others , because we all can communicate without wires ,that is through our mind which is popularly called as telepathy.

The leaders.

We need great leaders, like we have seen in history, for instance Subhas Chandra Bose was a man who could build his own army to fight the British, is it not the true display of one’s potential? Just think for a while how much determination Mr. Bose would have required to convenience people to join his army Indian National Army ,so this definitely gave me an insight that in our tiny little simple life we can manage things definitely better, and it is not at all a mammoth task as what we think and feel sad about it, JRD Tata the architect of the TATA empire would be so much more productive and positive and would have foreseen his company and worked towards making it the best .A person who wants to be an successful entrepreneur should involve himself in his venture not hundred percent I would say the number should be infinity .

Ask a person who just recovered from a bad accident, and came back from down under and again started leading his normal life; you will understand the true meaning of bravery.

Ask a guy who was stuck in a mine deep down the earth with his co-workers and was rewarded later for helping his team to get out of the death trap; you will understand the true meaning of a strategy and the quality of leadership.

The world moves on, but in this process how selflessly we work towards improving the place you live should be our primary goal in life, which gives birth to great leaders and brave men and women.

Be  brave and also serve people and become leaders.

All the best thanks for your time

Have a great weekend ahead.

The Pal.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings.

-Francois La Rochefoucauld.

There are some people in life whom you consider as the guys who match your frequency, so what do I mean by this word frequency, it means your taste your way of thinking, and your mind which is in-sync with them.

Whenever there is an agreement, there is no argument, a famous phrase used in big discussions we can also extend the thought by saying, where there is agreement there is harmony as well.

When we are too young may be toddlers, we started interacting with people as well as children of the same age, and you liked some in that group and first time in your life you uttered this word ‘Friend’. We say “He is a good friend of mine”.

So who is actually a friend, well for starters we can say he is a person who comforts you when you are in trouble and laughs along with you when you are happy.

Apart from the above thoughts I feel friends even influence you more, than anyone he can motivate you to the summit and make you that person who you always always wanted to be,  that is the  power of friendship. That is the reason being with good friends is most important, we can without say without a doubt the friends you are with add to your whole personality.

The relationship called friend is a very subtle one, now why is that or is it really so delicate. The answer for this is in each friend and his friend in this world, if they build that friend-ship strong, no seas can shake that ship, the reason, when two people are great friends, sometimes this ship is shaken by the tall tides produced by people in the form of intolerance against this friendship.

The need.

There is definitely a need for a good friend, these days because sometimes in our busy lives we get some free time and start thinking about our own lives the way we started it which was way too simple to the current complexity that we are in we would definitely get thoughts about some people who stood there when you most needed help, a person who motivated you in your time of distress, talking to whom you will feel refreshed, and your childhood pal whom you can never forget.

Friend is a very valuable person in everyone’s life the simple reason is that we tend to share the most personal issues with a friend as this relation is a very unique one , we all would have shared some secrets with a friend which we would not even have shared with your family, that is true test of confidence and integrity of friendship , as I told you that this  relationship is a very unique one , because with friendship there comes a brotherhood between those two souls,  a real friend is the one who always understands you no matter , whatever difference of opinion you have with him , also he compromises his happiness for his friend.

 The actual need to have good friends is that they understand you better than anyone, and there is a supportive atmosphere between you and your pal and vice –versa as both of you would have experienced similar hurdles in life.

The world needs the network of good friends and benefactors lets build that rock solid network, which brings about harmony and peace in this beautiful world which is most needed at this point of time.

Thanks for your time, happy weekend.

The Crystal ball.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.

-Jamie Paolinetti

Some movies are truly motivating, and we accept those  movies and implement in life.

There is also something also called as the movie buzz well most of us know what it is, I read some articles on this published in the famous huffington post  and e-magazines like Reddit.com. First of all it was an amazing experience reading those articles, because the writer gave me a new edge and approach towards movies.

The article has described movie buzz as a psychological phenomenon, where your brain enters this state of accepting the movie as your reality, actually the basic concept of a movie is actually the same that you need to accept the movie as an alternative option or an approach towards life and it should create a fantasy in the mind of the viewer and make him feel awesome.

They call it the 'self-hypnotism' where you go yourself into a hypnotic trance and will suddenly forget all your pains and problems in life, at least for a day after you have watched that movie.

Why can't we always be self-motivated and be in  the same hypnotic Trance by accepting our problems and moving on.

This whole life has a beginning a upper peak projection and gradually descends. As we progress in life both in our career and age, we will see life becomes complicated which is very much normal.

I  actually feel we make the mistake of using this word complicated , because actually it is not complicated these are just situations which we just have to deal with , we all feel sick about it and get demotivated , and we always need some boosters to get us going again.

But if you imagine a crystal ball and an old man who creates an illusion in your brain who says you will have a great future ahead don't you worry, and we will definitely would believe him for a long time and you will worship because your problems get resolved, the actual reason is that there is a healing power inside you which helped you smoothen that problem and get over it , the old man just initiated the process of healing.

So why can’t you believe in yourself first, rather in believing crystal balls.

Let’s say we can do it, in your subconscious instead of saying we can’t, and see the miracle .

Thank s for your time has a great weekend ahead.