The Refresher.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

Read failure stories,you get some ideas to get success.

-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Life is all about making mistakes and learning from it, this is one of first lessons we had learnt, in our childhood.But  this statement has a very deep meaning.

We all would have made mistakes in childhood, knowingly or unknowingly and it is just considered as an act of innocence.

But looking at the current situation and talking in the present we all commit mistakes on purpose, why is that, what motivates us to do it?

Well initially we can say, desire is the root-cause, but I personally do not agree with that statement, for the simple reason that desires are not bad these desires and ambitions is actually what keeps us going on in life and help us to achieve new goals and builds hopes in us.

So what is “the” or list of factors which motivate us to divert away from not doing mistakes to just getting it wrong each time.

I think the first and foremost reason is that we get too much emotional when we start to do something ,for instance if you’re driving most mistakes happen, your driving is the reflection how you handle your emotional stress, we swear at people on the road as most of the people do not follow traffic rules, and even though we are driving ok we are not happy at others driving without road sense, this is actually a very primitive example to show how we just waste our emotions on silly incidents.

When we have been put in a situation, our minds follow the traditional problem solving framework and majority of us do not think out of box and the total process is engulfed by proper experience and emotions which blocks our thinking ability.

We can think clearly I tell you , it is not at all a difficult task but we have resistance in doing that, we all need to become great listeners, listen to beautiful things around you, understand others emotions respect them, try to think in a logical way, and try to keep sentiments out when you’re trying to think, I assure you if you practise this we can lead a better life. Avoid knee jerk reactions.

For all problems there is and will be a solution and that answer is none other than you, others who care about you can give you some useful suggestions but you are the one who will initiate the process of solving the problem, it is like your sub-conscious initiating a process of healing a wound after you have taken good care of that wound, by guarding it from infection.

We all need refreshers in life , as we seemed to be lost at times,  where we are caught in the web of problems and complexities and you feel your brain is locked, meditation would be a best option which opens up these locks and you would get the answers for your problems automatically.

Knowing what you’re doing mistake but still doing it is not maturity, if you are still doing it,  guess you’re just fooling your own character and eventually will lose it.

I wish all my dear readers success in whatever they wish to achieve, let us think logically, and keep our mind fresh like the dew on roses.

Have a nice day.