Culmination

Culmination

Hello Readers

Hope you all are doing well.

Each day in our lives is a new page in a book which can be filled up with what we want, so make it a good one.

When I was in college, sometimes my friends and I used to ponder about random stuff, like situations, life events, news, current affairs and so on.

One topic stands out among all those on what we discussed; it is this concept of "It always is different for you and ends differently for you."

There is no beating around the bush here; the society we live in is prone to comparing and judging almost everything which can and cannot or should not be compared.

We have all forgotten that we are organic beings and not some time-bound processing robots!

The realization is yet to spark that there is a need to relax and take things slowly.

An average human is considered mentally mature when he or she reaches adolescence and then the metamorphosis from being an adolescent into an adult.

For everyone, this is an essential part of their life, what they go through on those crucial years of their experience both at societal and personal front defines them.

We start planning our life during these years.

Education is first on the plate; we graduate and choose a career or start a venture.

But is it the same story with all of us?

When there can be a countless number of species of birds and animals living on this earth, why can't our situations differ?

I mentioned earlier that, we are all organic beings and you know, we are not kind to ourselves sometimes, because of the rat race which goes on this world.

Plans working out is another important point of discussion which also vent out to our other topic of conversation, which is "it always ends differently for you."

Simple as it sounds there are always two parts of everything a yes has a no, a thank you has a welcome and so on, so does success has a failure.

Can we also say success has a failure? But why is failure considered bad with a frown, and success with a smile and positiveness?

Understandable due to the consequences, success takes you forward, and failure maybe will not take you back but will ask you to stay where you are!

But there is a beauty in failing you learn something which you don't ever find out when you succeed!

Are you surprised? Let me tell you we learn so much more when we fail; we, first of all, understand the bitter taste of it! Then we work on the problem again and understand it better. Finally, you will end up solving the situation in the best way possible.

Well, that doesn't mean that you need to fail the first time always if you have the maturity to succeed by understanding and contemplating what if? Factors in and maybe also understanding what if this was a failure and build fall back plans its excellent, well such people are super matured and wise I would say.

But for the rest, if we fail, there is no point we are feeling different from others, it is as equal to success.

The crux is that each person enters into a situation that faces it and comes out, for each person, it is different.

 

Therefore, it ends differently to each one of us, let us not waste time by comparing one another and rating us superior or inferior.

Your pal might have just come out an interview and explained you the whole candidature selection process, and you may think Okay! Maybe these are all the things I need to do when it's my turn.

But when it was your turn, they were happy with you in the first instance, and the other processes were cut short, and they gave the job!

Failure is not the opposite of success; it is a part of success.

-Arianna Huffington

So, let us all enjoy life, treat bitterness and sadness, and all those negative and positive feelings in an identical way, success failures and their ends is a carousel.

Thanks a lot for your time.

Helios.