Hope you all are doing well.
In a war of ego the loser always wins.
How many times have you felt that you have been trapped in a situation or felt bad about a situation that it happened only to you and it never happened to the person next to you whom you think it should have happened to , though I agree it is a bad thought to wish something bad to happen to someone, but it is a honest fact that we would have got such thoughts.
The reason why I wanted to talk about this theme is actually simple there is a urgent need and it must be addressed because I see many of my friends and some people in my family circles repenting and feeling bad when they compare themselves with others!.
We actually know that comparing is not a right thing to do but we end up doing it, which is also fine but when you think and feel that you are the one, I want to you to ask yourself one question when is that this question “Am I the one” come to your mind .
I think most of you will agree with what I am going to say, you feel too worried and sad when you are in a situation which is bad or negative, for instance you have sprained your leg or while driving you had a minor accident, of course I am generalizing that you would react in the above manner there will be definitely exceptions but I am talking about the typical behavior recorded.
But there is a contradiction to the above which is you do not complain or feel bad or think “if you were the one” when good things happen to you again for instance, you were selected among six of your colleagues to go on an assignment to some foreign country, have you thought am I the one that moment of time? I don’t think so.
You would not have told anything at that time because your ego will be jubilant and will voice your mind by saying of course you are the best that else will the opportunity go to other than you and so on.
My dear friends that is the mistake we make in life when something good happens with us we forget to thank that force which made it happen, that force you call it cosmic energy, God or anything you respect and consider it is higher than all the things in this world, we should start thanking this force which also makes people do what they do to make you experience those jubilant moments in our lives.
This life is a constant fight within our mind and ego which has set certain standards and expectations if not fulfilled we would be angry or unhappy and start feeling all bad things happen only with us and we think we are the ones who have not done any mistakes.
Please start leading a logical life and analyze the problems you face daily minus the ego and the emotions that will help you progress and also make your life more meaningful.
Stop judging yourself, that is the famous mistake done by mankind.
- George Bernard Shaw
Thanks for your time, have a great day ahead.