Showing posts with label judging oneself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judging oneself. Show all posts

Sunday, 8 March 2020

Skyrocket


Hello readers

Hope you are doing great today.

Self knowledge is the beginning  of the self- improvement
-Anonymous

 This topic was in my mind for a long time, it's about scaling up.
What do I mean when I say scale up? It is just not skilled development for your professional life or you building body for your physical fitness and appearance.

This is something very different this is understanding yourself your environment and the all the people whom you interact with it.

Even today there are certain aspects of life we need to learn by ourselves, an example where to talk, how to talk, whom to talk, how to talk? Even though it is a million-dollar industry, it is just a curtain opener to all of us, but definitely, finally, only self-learning and experience pay off.

I would say other than the academcis and all that paraphernalia we ought to consider the above equally or more than essential because these are life skills.

You prepare a great profile and talk well, you crack an interview, and you get a desk to work, but what next after that? That is where all your non-academic skill or what is called the interpersonal skills come to picture.

Even though there is a paradigm shift in the Indian education system where just read your book and take loads of homework to home policy has come down, the teachers and the management have opened up to innovative learning methods. Still, there will be some gaps which need to fill.

That is where we need to scale up, you as a person needs to scale up, talk to people, network not just with your team try to network with unknown faces each day a new face, they might travel with you to office, but we never talk to them, outside work as well explore new places meet new people.

Facebook and all the other social networking platforms were made to connect people at first, in his own words Mark Zukerberg said and I quote "We made Facebook connect people without any boundaries, and we encourage people to use it only for this", but now there is no need to explain how people are using these websites.

Of course, Mr.Zukerberg is happy for obvious reasons, the best business model in the world I would say.

 We all need to scale up, never be just satisfied with what you are today, try to scale up your skills each day and try to become better each day, I feel that will solve two problems that are feeling worried because you keep your mind occupied in improving yourself. Two, you will understand life like never before.

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When I started writing, people told me it is not my cup of tea. They asked to stop due to typos and paragraph structures. Still, I tried to scale up, and yes, it's been a pleasant writing journey for me till now.

I realised persistence, determination and putting my mind on it has brought me till here, and please ignore all those grumpy faces who don't want to achieve anything in their life and also don't let others to even think.

So be done with the complaining, whining and sobbing apart and scale up like a rocket!

Thanks a lot for your time
Helios.

Wednesday, 21 June 2017

Am I the one?

Hello Readers

Hope you all are doing well.

In a war of ego the loser always wins.
-Anonymous

How many times have you felt that you have been trapped in a situation or felt bad about a situation that it happened only to you and it never happened to the person next to you whom you think it should have happened to , though I agree it is a bad thought to wish something bad to happen to someone, but it is a honest fact that we would have got such thoughts.

The reason why I wanted to talk about this theme is actually simple there is a urgent need and it must be addressed because I see many of my friends and some people in my family circles repenting and feeling bad when they compare themselves with others!.

We actually know that comparing is not a right thing to do but we end up doing it, which is also fine but when you think and feel that you are the one, I want to you to ask yourself one question when is that this question “Am I the one” come to your mind .

I think most of you will agree with what I am going to say, you feel too worried and sad when you are in a situation which is bad or negative, for instance you have sprained your leg or while driving you had a minor accident, of course I am generalizing that you would react in the above manner there will be definitely exceptions but I am talking about the typical behavior recorded.

But there is a contradiction to the above which is you do not complain or feel bad or think “if you were the one” when good things happen to you again for instance, you were selected among six of your colleagues to go on an assignment to some foreign country, have you thought am I the one that moment of time? I don’t think so.


You would not have told anything at that time because your ego will be jubilant and will voice your mind by saying of course you are the best that else will the opportunity go to other than you and so on.

My dear friends that is the mistake we make in life when something good happens with us we forget to thank that force which made it happen, that force you call it cosmic energy, God or anything you respect and consider it is higher than all the things in this world, we should start thanking this force which also makes people do what they do to make you experience those jubilant moments in our lives.

This life is  a constant fight within our mind and ego which has set certain standards and expectations  if not fulfilled we would be angry or unhappy and start feeling all bad things happen only with us and we think we are the ones who have not done any mistakes.

Please start leading a logical life and analyze the problems you face daily minus the ego and the emotions that will help you progress and also make your life more meaningful.

Stop judging yourself, that is the famous mistake done by mankind.
- George Bernard Shaw


Thanks for your time, have a great day ahead.

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