Medic

Hello readers

Hope you all are fine.

Don’t pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure the difficult one.

-Bruce Lee

To live a normal life we depend on many people of various professions, because they help us fulfill our daily needs and help us to continue living a happy life.

Among these daily needs there is one delicate and important need and that is health care, when you think about health care almost it is natural that the first name which comes to your mind is a doctor.

Let us discuss a little bit about this: When we visit a doctor we will explain  infirmity to him.

Now it’s the doctor’s turn to diagnose your problem and suggest a treatment.

What method does a doctor us to break your problem in bits and then solve most of the doctors use a method called as ‘negative feedback method’ so if you analyze the name of the method, it says you giving a feedback in a negative way.

But is it good because seldom people say talking negatively about oneself is bad, but that is a poetic way of looking at it, in medical sense it means that telling the ailment discomfort then the solution you get from the doctor is the feedback. So you expressed your negativity which the doctor will convert into something positive called a treatment which is the solution.

The  strongest feeling that a human can get and motivate him is hope, hope will bring you that strength that which muscular power cannot give you and that my friend is called the mental strength which most of the people try to steal from you by demotivating you.

So the first rule in the doctor’s rule book is filling your mind with hope and confidence. The second rule in the book is healing.

Never give up on yourself

Healing is considered as one of nature’s virtues and most sophisticated and wonderful methods till now and a great mystery to many scientists.

The good part is that healing can also be initiated in certain cases for example ,you are disappointed on something your mom or father or your friend will motivate you and try to cheer you up that is the healing right there and you will have a sense of mental relief. The chemical healing or the network of blood solidification that happens on a wound, is a chemical and automatically initiated process, but mental healing can be initiated like what I have mentioned above.

The third and the most important rule in the book of a doctor is the never give up attitude.

When a doctor meets a patient, he would start from the simplest treatment and also tries to identify the root cause of the issue, finally he will solve the problem, suppose it is a complicated case he will try to refer books ask and discuss with senior most colleagues and do almost the best to make that person get-over his illness and lead a normal life.

He will never give up and will never take a step back for the sake of his patient.

This is what is required in life never give up on your dreams never give up on doing good to people, continue helping the deserved, please make the person standing next to you feel relieved of his pressures, as Bruce lee said, make atleast one definite move towards your goal, I think that says it all.

Try to be that doctor to as many people as you can who will remember you till their last breath not for your medicines  but for those few good words and confidence you gave them when they needed it, we must always be service minded to certain extent well that's my opnion.

Thanks for your time have a nice day.

The counsellor

Hello readers 

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us.

-H. Jackson Brown, Jr. 

Hope you all are doing well. We all live effectively for 40 odd years, surprised? see what Muhammad Ali had to say on life!

 "You live first 10 years of life just to make sense of it, next 15 in your own hitch ups and then move to marital life or any other life so these 40 years are the one which actually count".

He continues to say what you give back to this society in these 40 years is what matters.

Have you visited a counsellor  anytime?  not only for depression or issues relating to your mind, even for educational purposes we visit them, to estimate in which aspect we have the aptitude.

Well that is one way of looking at that profession there is another way this profession is taken into, that is ethical or social counseling.

What is ethical counselling? It  mainly deals with the fine tuning of some moral principles and values which the person is not aware of or has failed to follow due to various factors like personal issues or societal issues.

Social counselling specifically looks at more personal problems of individual, like issues in his family or whatever difficulties he faces on a daily basis when he wants to communicate with people.

Those are the basic definitions of ethical and social counselling.

But there is actually a counsellor within you,  have ever observed for yourself?

It is the same voice which speaks to you when you are angry and tries to calm you down, when you are happy makes you laugh and also try to share it with friends and benefactors.

So who is this sitting inside you and trying to always keep you stable, it is your own intellect, your mind or soul whatever you want to call it.

Among the families across the world, Indian families are considered one of the most successful families no doubt it is true our marraige is a very well planned instituation, but at the same time it has its own problems.

Indians suffer from the problem of ego, and that is almost one of the most damaging factors in a family.

A scientist in Russia once said, family is just like community living where everyone will be provided with similar luxuries and eat at a  common place and mostly the family is best when it is a joint family because it would have various senior people to advise the inexperienced emerging fathers, is how he puts it in his book family: An industry.

But as time has passed the joint family concept in India stands at all time low, so the nuclear families have taken over, but due to egoistic elements in these families we see many traumatic incidents within the family which any member has to bare the brunt. The reason it happens is may be due to the person  is not  considerate to others in the family may have had a rough childhood or he is totally ignorant and arrogant.

Is there a solution of this growing problem which seriously mentally drains other people in the family? and having a direct impact on the future generations.

Of course yes, first the person should think for a while is it correct to do  what he is doing? To him and others this is the self-counselling he should do or others would motivate him to do.

The most important role would be of that particular person in  that family, who has the zeal and the charisma to impress the person in question and help him understand his problems.

This internal Counsellor is present in almost all families and I am telling they are the people who can take the maximum stress and push the family towards heights of success.

I salute to all these special people for being matured at the right moment and help the people around them to ease them in a grim situation caused by someone's silly and stupid behavior for silly things.

So as Mohammad Ali the great boxer said concentrate on those 40 years, what will you do in life other than frowning, grumbling, blaming and making people around you feel sad for your behavior.

Thanks for your valuable time. Adios!

Live happy  always.

What We Lack?

Hello readers

Hope you all are fine.

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans

-John Lennon

We all are peddling our own cycles of life each day.

The chain snaps someday, and we will fix it and continue our journey most of the times.

But there are troubled times, where you are not able to come out of of the situation, and you will start thinking, or get dis-heartened.

But in this journey I feel if we can do some enhancements we would still near our destination or goal which we would like to reach out which we have planned.

So what are these enhancements which I am talking about.

To start  with I would say, we need to involve ourselves in whatever we are pursuing or wish to pursue, working with half interests does not us anywhere.

Second aspect is the task we are doing should be linked both physically and mentally, I say this because just thinking about work, does not finish the job. Or working without thinking and concentrating on the work you wish to do does not serve any better.

There is another important aspect which we miss out and that is courage.

How many of us really know what courage is?

Daring is a force which can make an impact on a tie future generation even if the person who showed the valor perished in war or rubble.

It is a vibrant feeling felt by us when we hear the name of true heroes. That is actually courage, the rebellion attitude which comes out when you see injustice going on in front of you is bravery.

Does this generation lack courage? Partially I would say though everyone hasn't lost it.

Half the times we would like problems on our heads this may be due to fear or just a callous attitude which won't let you face that problem, because it is a very comfortable to mind our own business and be happy.

In this modern era the soldiers, the police force, the doctors and the nurses are the one who have courage in what they do, and also apply the other two aspects as well in their lives.

Even if you think the mythological events as a story, I am fine that because what that intend to tell is fully clear, and that is to develop great values, which is great and mature way in shaping a healthy society.

So what we lack is this commitment and the positivity in us to make what is required to complete what we started.

In whatever we have to do we need to keep in mind we need to show commitment, concentration and of course the will and courage to complete it.

In this motivational I would end by saying the vintage phrase: do what you like, like what you do! and be courageous and focused when do what you like!

Thanks for your time.

Good day.

One step closer.

Hello readers

Welcome back to weekend, I have lost track of time, that's how fast it's going.

I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.
- Ernest Hemingway

Well today wanted to talk about this concept, which is true, in many of our lives.

When we were born,and we were innocent, that is the basic quality, a baby will have say the doctors

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Well the obvious part is that we finish our journey and, leave this great earth, when the journey ends we are supposed to be wise,as we would have travelled and completed our small world tours of happiness,sadness and reach the final destination.

Rest in peace is slogan when that journey ends,which is very symbolic.

Actually what matters is that the time after the arrival and before departure, which is collectively called life, so do we go one step closer to become wise each day let's see.

I decided to write this blog because everyone is always in a hurry for no reason, we are not living life, in the way it should have been lead.

So if you ask me how am I sure? when  I make such statements, I mean what right and judgement do I have? to judge on people's life? and life style.

Well the answer is not so complex, we are seeing the world in apathy and unrest, each day,people always try to outsmart the next one,bully others, the crime rates,the so called bureaucrats, over -riding the system, the person who is affected in this chain of events is a man who wants to move one step closer.

The person who wants to think clear, who wants to do, good for the society, wants to change certain things around him, he  is considered as an obstacle, to all.

If you ask me what happens, to these people, they just become wise and do what is required, and take that extra mile, each day to do something and go one step closer to become more wise, more satisfied and get peace in life.

Every time we help others,we donate for a cause, encourage positive mental growth, we get satisfaction, and I think that's all it takes and makes lot of difference, in everyone's journey to move one step closer to God himself.

We must always experience hardships, that is when we understand the value of success,and what it take to become successful and also understand how to solve a problem? we must listen to the problems of everyone that is when we can solve it and that is when your mind grows.

We must experience every aspect, which should be so pure, as the air we breath in, and in a constant speed like the rotation of mother earth.

Let's start moving one step closer each day, towards,peace, towards becoming wise, and give this journey, a good conclusion.

Let us all start being more patient ,more considerate to the person next to you and see him just as an another person ,instead of analyzing him a like a fund,which can can gives you return on your investment! that is the help you did to him or her , the time you spent with him or her!

All the best to all of us. Thanks a lot for your time.

Take care.

The real world, redefined.

Hi readers

First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak.
- Epictetus

Hope you are doing great, here comes the Friday again.

Well time just breezed over this week.

I wanted to talk about, this topic from a long time.

But it took me sometime to pool up all that I wanted to tell, and still I am not satisfied, that I have can give you my complete idea about this, but let me try.

I am very much upset about how somethings work around us.

The modern world which we say! Has totally  become a place without any meaning.

We always hear from people who say the world is becoming smarter each day.

But some intellects say becoming so smart suddenly is a disaster.

I some how have to agree with them, once I had a debate with a friend regarding this,it turned to at the end,that I was being very, ancient in my thoughts the comment that I got from my friend , and we concluded that too much of this so called smartness becomes useless.

The present world or the real world is running with a velocity, which is dangerous, where the people are forgetting the basic values of life, which is very unfortunate.People view their life like a profit or a loss statement.

Relations have no meanings,a person is being loved in a different way, in each stage of his life, loved as kid, then adored as a son or a  daughter married and again being loved by his or her partner.

Wish it was like that but, the real world works in a different way where people become too selfish,and start doing only what they like, and the people who helped them to become what they are today,and fulfilled their desires are totally forgotten.

The solution? Please start leading life in the way it has to lead, we have to live like a flower,which keeps smiling, even though it knows it will be plucked form its stalk, be friends with all, enemy to none, respect parents and their opinions. Practice service and sacrifice it gives you peace.

We can learn many things from the nature around us like a peepal tree which gives shelter to all,let's help as many people we can and be kind to animals which try to live around us.

Why should we put others in stress if we cannot take that stress?develop patience to and a stable mind to solve issues.

Let all the sons' of their proud fathers' take Charge of their families after they are capable of taking it, and bring a smile on their parents faces , and make their life worth living.

In many communities in India and around the world, relations are broken into pieces due to the sensitive ritual called the marriage, but the wizards who have designed the solution modules,to make it a well organised event, have to be applauded for making things easier for this generation,and I am sure we can lead a happy life by respecting our customs.

I agree that choosing a partner is his or her personal choice, but its important to take deep dive before taking decisions in life,and should not result in breaking relations and families.

To conclude the real world has changed over the years, but still there are people whom we think are true and share our precious feelings with them, a brother, who can help his brother to take decisions, a mother who is concerned about her children, a father who takes all the responsibility of a family, a friend whom you consider your lifeline to talk freely,a dog who sacrifices,his family and becomes your pet.

The generations should start looking at life in a matured way, and keep away from differences,arrogance, ego, and start respecting the feelings of the people around then and grow from inside, which will make that person's soul as pure as a pearl.

Hope I could convey my view, thanks for your time have a great evening.