Showing posts with label the need to be an extrovert. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the need to be an extrovert. Show all posts

Saturday, 24 February 2018

The truth about you


Hello Reader
Hope you are fine today.
Mind is more powerful than you can imagine, it actually knows all your hidden talents but it does not have an instrument or a medium to tell  you, instead it is you who should become the medium and open up this secretive mind before your soul departs from your body empty that treasure chest full of thoughts and talents buried deep inside your mind and understand the purpose of your living.
-Anonymous

Another week just flew away with the winds of time, just as it flew away I got some fresh thoughts which I wanted to share it with all of you today.

How many of you have thought about this? Your fears, your source of happiness, what excites you the most your likes and dislikes.
Definitely, I am sure you would have some thoughts about atleast some questions which I have mentioned above.
But still, there will be hidden truths about ourselves which you understand as time moves on, or it would be identified by the people around you, still wondering what I am trying to tell you?
Just a  simple instance will help you out, assume there is a micro group study being conducted on a group of people. The group was asked to walk on a particular street when they were suddenly shown a village roadshow, a simple poor family trying to show them some rope tricks like tightrope walking and the balancing act.
How would they react when they saw is, let me give you some choices to help you guess: would they feel happy and be amazed by the talent of the performers, or would they feel bad thinking about the poverty situation in India and think about talking to those kids’ parents and helping them attend school, or just walk away.
Even though the above example is simple and straightforward, there are certain inferences which we can trace from it.
First and foremost the example is a classical situation analysis which is presented by many trainers which help to understand the trainees' mind.
If you felt happy and amazed: that would infer you are a simple thinker and you just live the moment and a focused thinker, basically, goal oriented your goals first and societal goals later.
OK! Seeing the performance you thought for a while, even though you felt a little bit happy in the first place you continued to think and finally the smiling curve on your chin turned into a glum posture, as you realized those children were in a hardship and you felt they deserved better.
The third kind of people would be less emotionally oriented in life or fall into the category of others if you consider this a micro group study.
I would like to discuss more on the second inference, let us just assume  some ten people felt bad about it and started getting thoughts in their mind ,you know the type of thoughts which won't stop, which would also lead to a will and determination to do something and change the situation which they saw.
These are types humans who actually try to change the countries state from the grass root, I salute to all such type of people who would like to think like that.
Moving on, let us put you and me in that situational group study, how would you react? suppose your reaction relates to the category 2, that means my friend you think differently and there are lots of things to be done by you and is pending I would say start doing it don’t worry about the society or the people who  try to oppose what you want to do until and unless it not causing hurt to this society or environment.
The feeling and motivation which you got from inside to do what you wanted differently is the truth about you, that is what who you are or who you wanted to be, let me tell you many of us just shy away from what we want to become and do something totally different which we were not actually prepared for, but still excel in that do you know what it means, it says you are so talented you can excel in a field which you are not great at, imagine if you find and search and bring out your hidden talents would not achive your life goals and also feel contented?
People say we all are gifted with some talent when we are born, some people are good enough to understand that at an early age ad they excel with their strengths which is again awesome.
For others who feel discontented in what they do, expose yourself to the society to situations, to movies,to live performances or watch televisions I am sure the hidden truths will come out and actually are coming out as you are reading this and it is all your mind, the only thing which is remaining is whether  you want to work towards what you want to be at the cost of anything or just keep it aside and enjoy the comfortable situation you are in currently!
So it is all in you as mentioned in the thought at the beginning of the blog.
Thanks a lot for your time, let the hidden chest living inside you be opened up I wish you all well.
Helios.

Sunday, 17 April 2016

Feather Light.

Hello there! Good morning.

He who can listen to music in the midst of noise can achieve great things.
-Dr. Vikram Sarabhai.

We all get feelings all the time, even this moment when I am composing this blog I am in a feeling and you when you are reading it I am sure you’re also expressing an emotion.

Well what are these feelings, emotions or sensations that we experience, can we say that it is like another sense organ? Soon the answer I think is going to be an affirmative, because there are many behavioural study scientists who are trying to prove the reactive pattern in humans and some species of primates when they are exposed to different environments and also when they are not exposed to any of this scenarios and record what they feel when they are idle.

They have given certain conclusions to their on-going like you know…. They say a feeling or an emotion is triggered definitely as the first response to our five sense organs and now the sixth as the brain is also considered as a sense organ, and the way we show our emotion towards any situation is triggered by a catalytic reaction in the medieval cortex of our brain.

I was particularly interested in this one: We feel lighter after we speak to someone or give a speech, just think about that talkative guy in your college or school or at your workplace, don’t you feel he is always jolly and bright compared those who hardly speak or popularly called as introverts.

I am sure you would have experienced this,  you are walking on the road alone suddenly a passer-by asks you the directions to reach the gas station, and after you complete, the person may thank and just leave or even crack a joke like: “well this city is a maze, thank you good sir” you smile at that person  after he or she leaves you would feel jolly and relived, the amazing part is your emotion was triggered and do you know the reason behind that brief smile was not that joke, but you felt happy because you helped someone that day.

You get the similar feeling when you feed stray animals or even feed birds or give them water, there is a study which says when you interact with animals you seem to be happy and healthy, I feel this is so right because we belong to this nature, it is like the circle is complete when you take such initiatives, because your body expects you to be natural.

When you give a speech to a large audience or may be class elocution, you come out with that glow in your brain which reflects on your face, just recollect that confident face after you finished a speech which you spent some quality time to prepare.

We hardly sit on our seats when a rock band is playing because they make you feel totally stress free with their music. So we all need to talk more to people build new networks, help animals and also humans, take part in discussions which will help you mature as person and discuss challenges if you wish to,  it helps you to feel lighter and clears your brain from the dirt made by your worries and your stress.

Talk more, help the needy and spread happiness. Thanks for your time have a great week ahead.

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