Showing posts with label life experience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life experience. Show all posts

Friday, 4 May 2018

Anubhava - A Teacher

Hello readers

Hope you a are doing well.

When a man with money meets a man with experience, the man with experience will go with money, and the man with money will go with experience.

-What I have learned from Russell S

There are many strict teachers in the world one amongst them, who teaches you lessons in the hardest way possible is “experience”.

The Sanskrit word for experience is called "anubhava."

The beautiful sculpture.

Birth is one of the greatest miracles which happened in this world and continues to; we can call it the chemical and spiritual magic for all times.

Till date, the famous biologists have agreed on the presence of soul when a soul leaves its body or what we call as death, and you know the evidence for this is the sudden loss of weight of a person the moment his heart stops.

It was said and proved that approximately 25 gms of the body weight are lost as experimented by Duncan MacDougall in 1907 at Massachusetts.

Does that leave a chill down your spine, hearing that fact well this is also an experience, so now your perspective and thinking will change about soul and your body?

That is the beauty of experience it just as a surprise for you each day which opens up spontaneously.

We were discussing birth after the miracle happens you will learn to lead your life, Oh my god I think that is the longest and the best learning process which we continue until the end.

How important is it learns and grow? It is as important as your heart beating to keep you alive, as vital as you lungs constricting and comforting to hold you live;  without learning you are just a lump of flesh and physical weight.

Learning and experience go hand in hand, each person will have their way of thinking, but there can be a convergence of thought after they experience and conclude that what they felt was something different then what they expected but now their feeling about that thought or process is matching with what his friend thought it would end up as, so we come to point of agreement based on our perspicacity.


So experience is one brilliant phenomenon which will bring people together, at the beginning of the passage I mentioned experience as a strict teacher. So it turns out either you learn based on others experiences and moves on the right path or you get tutored the hard way from professor “ experience.”

For a sculpture to become beautiful, it takes many blows from a chisel before it becomes that beautiful piece of art.

Please do not feel disheartened, depressed, agitate or feel desperate in your life when things don't go your way that is to say you are currently having a bad experience in your family or work or your business ; these are all class tests and exams devised by professor "experience" which he wants you to come out with excellent marks of maturity and enthusiasm which may probably make you understand the purpose of your life and move on like a man who is always protected by a shield of  patience and wisdom, which will help you just to smile at the people who try to flatter you, betray you or think you are not understanding their hide and seek game. that is the result of the excellent coaching of your pedagogue.

Try to help people around you to move in the right direction and also which will, in turn, help you and make you stronger and boost your self-confidence to pass these brief moments on earth, make it a memorable one.

Let me know your thoughts.

Thanks for your time

Helios.

Sunday, 2 July 2017

Contrition - A Disease!

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well.

Repentance is not when you cry, it is when you change.
-Anonymous

We start leading our lives according to the environment we are born, there is so much truth in that statement; but still can you make live life out of that environment? and live like you wanted to?

My intention is not to confuse when I typed those two lines, but the last part of the paragraph is actually a challenge, it is difficult to change the way we are leading our life.

We are emotional and social beings; we show all types of emotions depending on the situations we face.

One such feeling is repentance; we do mistakes deliberately sometimes even though we may know the end result. Why do such mishaps after all we are called the most intellectual lot in the whole world. Let us discuss.

When was the last time you sat in contrition and got visions in your mind that: supposed you had worked in plan B you would not have ended up in your current state.

Before that entire discussion, first think about this, is remorse good for you? Does it improve your life, there are actually two sides of the debate one part of the it is that up to some extent remorse is good; to complete the second part I would say it is not good always.

I will try to explain both the parts now, first part regretful after making a gaffe is good because it shows that you still have good character left inside you that still is policing you to move in the correct course, that is the good part, however the part which is not so motivating is forgetting this wound very soon and ending up back in a mentally injured mode (remorse) in a short while.

That my friend is the part where we all need to improve, I am sure when your senior at office was training you during your probation something, or your teacher was teaching you some topic in school they would have told you make mistakes now, but when you are on the job or when you write exams be careful and make sure you don’t repeat these mistakes.

But in life there are times you do not get that probation period or a practice class, you may have to rush into an exam hall unprepared! Or work with huge responsibilities without support staff, well that is life! there is no margin for errors; this is law of the nature.

So we need to take decisions very carefully, because you might not get another chance.
What is the point of you being upset on yourself and making the surrounding milieu also look sadistic for the mistakes you did.

You have got this one life, we need to keep our energy bubbling, pump our lungs with the pure air of confidence move on from the mistakes we did and not to repeat them  and most important put it behind us and learn valuable lessons from such undesirable experiences.

So from today repent once and never repeat the same mistake again! Because there is much to do  the switches of happiness, opportunities and so on waiting for you to switch them on and  there are so many unexplored  places for you to go on a an adventure.


So the question: Can you live life out of your environment? and live like you wanted to? Well it is very much possible is what I feel. The success and failure both depend on how you deal with your life. I Wish you success.


Thanks a lot for your time, have a great week ahead.

Friday, 14 November 2014

The Stored Secrets.

Hi readers,
Great to be back,happy,Ok before I start my topic today, there are many people, who always say, I have my moments,  please give me some time.

So what is the actual meaning of this phrase?

First of all what are these moments? these people are taking about are they happy momenta or sad? Well the answer I would give is, "well my dear Sir I do not know, I just enjoyed the moments as they came, irrespective of their happiness or, whatever was in store for me!"

I think some of you may think that my answer was rude, but sorry to disagree with you, it is the truth,I have heard many people talk about future, they say that the future of any individual is what, they become, wish to become, on the contrary there are another batch of people who say, the future is uncertain!

Who is right? If you ask me I would reply they both are right,because the first statement is valid, for those young lads who are in the peak of their careers, schooling, collectively called as education, and the latter holds, good for the, brave people, like a soldiers and farmers who always plays a game of fate, with their lives? But it also holds good for common people like you and me.

The moment we were born, we started our journey, whose end is for sure, some day, but it is uncertain.

Can you make your future, predictable that you can be more smarter than a fortune genie? I don't believe in them,but for those who do believe they can try this and see if the results match.

But whatever the fortune tellers say, and what happens after that is merely a coincidence, except for some rare cases.

When we started this journey called, initially you were told, which road to travel,which lane to turn, eventually you got the ability to decide on your own, and started travelling, let me stop there,Mark that day where you started, hunting for your wants and desires all by yourself that decides your future.

These are stored secrets which unfold, like the levels which progress in a game as you advance each stage towards the end of that game.

At the end of each level we may have to face a huge villan, who is difficult to defeat,if we compare it to life it may be a bad habit you learnt, a bad friend because of whom you were highlighted for the wrong reasons and so on.

There are also situations of anti -climax where good people end up in drains, there loved ones, suddenly collapse due to a disease, and his poor son on his happiest day is just stumped.Is like that unfair level in that game where your enemy is just winning in an unfair way! that is the so called famous term called "luck"!

So this is how my dear friends this greatest program called life works, let's get used to it and win that game once for all.

All the best to all of you have a great day ahead.

Friday, 3 October 2014

The Illusion Paradox.

Hello readers
Hope all are doing well, what a week it was with two great leaders, sharing their views in a single editorial, hats off to both President Obama and Prime Minister Narendra Modi,who have shared their views on the various issues and have tried to arrive  solutions for them,I am very privileged to be living amoung these great leaders.
             So my topic of the day talks about the basic question scientists have been arguing, about the terms like, string theory, the multi -dimension theory, these theories  will bring a spark in your mind and, keep yourself staring at yourself!about questions like,are there copies of me living in another dimension? Is there another planet with life,who are far more older than our.civilization?
             But what does this have to do anything with an illusion paradox? let me tell you I am not talking something which not related to it here, the basis of this paradox,are very much related to these theories.
            We humans no doubt are the so called 'superior species' in the universe which I don't agree upon for many reasons, but still we can atleast agree that there are species which atleast live, more than we do, like the turtle which we are aware of.
           As we are the superior, blessed and brainy ones,we do good things and bad things to the society around which, includes plants and animals that we take care of and also them for our selfish gain, the reason I say this is,its about time that we all should get a heads up that there is a reality which can spill out in any part of a person's life, it can hit him or her so point blank that, their brain are left stumped for quite some time, just to process what has happened, and just stunned, and feel the sense of awakening, that your out of illusion.
             For instance a person who was at his peek of his career, as a merchant falls into to the cage of fate and loses everything, and is out -casted by his family and hunts for a job the next morning with absolutely nothing in his pocket?
            Or a famous bureaucrat who slept in a luxurious apartment the previous evening but, woke up with a arrest warrent the next morning at his door and sleeping in a prison,that night.
               Just imagine what would be the impact on their minds, what a shock, their brain takes and and still tries to keep them composed,except for some cases where we have seen people dieing after seeing and hearing, news headers about them, which they cannot handle it and die!
               Let me tell you my dear friends I am not being pessimistic here, but the force around us which people call as God performs reality checks on people randomly and bring us out of that illusion,in  which we were living, the day to day life, the celebrations, the feasts,and festivals the joy of living, and yet we crib about our life.
              But once we are out of the illusion paradox, all the days of the week just keeps us stumped and when the world rejoices a feast, it doesn't even matter to you, as now you are aware, that what you are current living with the pain, the agony and your determination to come out that bad event,is what is actually called life!
              Always convert all your illusions into reality, and be prepared to come out of that, and face the heat.
              Thanks for your time will be back next week take care.

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