Friday 27 June 2014

What If? I Am You And You Were Me?

                  Hello readers hope your doing fine, let me start with a thought, determination is the most powerful lock in the world which is often broken with a master key called distraction.
             So do you think the question which is my title is possible in the known dimensions of the earth ofcourse it is.
             In our day to day life we grow both physically and mentally and develop various qualities among which identity is one which is deep inside your brain printed like a circuit as to who are you, whose son or daughter you are and so many basic questions which you will never forget in your lifetime. But here the whole point is not about your identity or character,it's all about the person who is standing opposite to you.
The Situation
         This is what I wanted to talk about today this factor called 'I' is eating man from within, like a termite eats the tree inside out, the people who have this what  I call the ego disease,are stupid enough not get the point atleast now that they too are  humans and there is every chance they may endup like the latter,the world has one  bad mechanism from time immortal as rightly said by Sir Charles Darwin survival of the fittest,this works on all cases at your home, school and the best version is at your work place where the mindset of some people is worse than a infant who cries to fullfill is need.
              Every person should understand that life is and will not be a smooth ride it will have bumps, ups and downs and also few accidents and mishaps the challenge is to react to all of this in a single calm way and when that is achieved that 'I' will die from his mind and he will start thinking straight, people get carried away by power, money,fame so easily that they forget themselves as to who they were and suddenly act like a royal clan! And treat their own kit and friends like servants and strangers!
               The time they realise their blunder it would have been too late, because they latter would have moved on in life, so my simple message is always think from two sides of a coin built rapport between people when you want to criticise a person just think how it would be if he would have done the same for you? Think about your purpose of life is to make a few friends than a bunch of enemies who hate you and always look for a reason to fight against you so always go with the mindset of putting yourself in people's situation then you will see a light in your mind which I call is the path for clear thinking, thanks for you're time have a nice day.

Saturday 21 June 2014

Come on! Its About Time You Decide!

Hello readers happy weekend so,time to read.
              Let me start, with a simple question today?Have you  made decisions in your life? well I am not talking about decisions like :Ok lets bunk college today, or lets finish some statistics today! I am talking about tough decisions which have started a quarrel at your home and distanced you from them.And that day you felt so bad, but at the later stage your own people realised you were right but that later had become too late!  
                 The greatest disaster in this part of the world well I am referring to the Indian sub-continent is the wrong comparison between children especially with respect to education and continuing education is another pain because here in India arts and humanities are considered as outcasts and people joining to these courses are considered as failures in life, my simple answer to the people of this mentality is that stop being foolish in life who are you to decide your son's or daughters career? Just because your his parent or guardian you cannot be their brain? It is their brain that decides to what field that they want to end up in life? The primary reason for this tazzle is the prestige issue of a mother and the also the father I do not blame them even an inch because the child of this generation after 2000 millennium have been distressed and distracted so much by the forces of technology which has lead to this aimless way of leading life and giving them the feeling of this  'I know everything' and artificial maturity in life. Hence have lost the ability to make decisions. But coming back to my basic question what is that stops to make a decision of your own? My dear friend is about time we break that glass of fear to society, parents,friends and Achieve what we want in life finally it is your life and you will have to lead it alone I mean it Yes all alone think about the un known future take a decision so firm that the devil called money runs away if it just notices your shadow, as the famous business man of all times Warren Buffet said it is ok if you lose few friends and family people today than becoming their problem for listening to their own words and ending up stale!
                Finally want to conclude by saying this world is seeing and enjoying everything around it only because of few people who took good and firm decisions which initially was not liked by the crowd around them, but later could not help liking it as it was one of the best decisions ever taken.Be firm and take the best decision, wishing you all the best, thanks for your time.

Friday 13 June 2014

Mind-The Colourful Machine

Our life from the day it began has seen colours the first colour I remember seeing was a blue coloured ballon on my cradle.Colours add a new ray of hope and happiness in our life and we are blessed with eyes which gives a new height of thinking.
             Well hello again, today is considered as the black Friday in the states.But I consider all days as same.
            So continuing my talk on colours we all know everything about colours, great minds have discovered that the sun is giving out chemical light which they call composite light which has the basic colours of this world, which if altered can result in other colours.
         Let me continue with my core topic does ur mind notice colours? Let me put it this way is your mind colour coded? Is your reaction and imagination linked to a colour does your brain react when you see certain colours?  the answer is definitely yes we do react to colours when I see green I feel the trees I enjoyed in my childhood,the reaction I would experience can be different to you depending on what experience you had but the hidden fact is not about colours at all its how your mind keeps playing with you like a colours changing chameleon , green for good, red for bad pale white for fear this way mind takes your time all day playing but if  you have control  on it and you start liking your own colour thats when you will become the bold white of purity and excel in life always, remember this mind is your master but it depends on  you whether you will be his peer or slave happy weekend, until next weekend adios!

Saturday 7 June 2014

A Friend Who lives within you!?

Why did it happen only to me? What next will I do? Oh I think my life is sealed,these are some of the pharases that we are all listening or telling to our selves or hear  from others.
       Well hello again there,meet my friend Mr.anxiety who has never left me in my hard times and also introduced me to his pals who are Mr.tension and Ms Heartburn.
          now your thinking that this is very strange that I calling anxiety as my friend because of which we always endup burning more calories than usual and we forget to move on and fall in that well of thoughts just thinking about what just happened.
            Let us see.... Why do we get anxious, the simple reason is people want to be the best always and are scared of future, this is not agreed by some who tell me they become anxious if their child is not back home for supper or if their kith is driving a car!.
            well come on there are some instances where we need to be little bit worried but not all the time, if we are so worried about future why dream about it, remember future is just an unreleased movie which is open to watch day in and day out whether you like it or not like to watch it in this theatre called life, every day I see lot of negativities happening around me due to this disease called anxiety, which is horribly stressing,depressing and even killing some people who take it too hard, I am sometimes upset on myself as to why I feel I am in a hole which I cannot jump out and I later realise my legs were tied due to tension.
         My message to all chaps who get nightmares thinking about tomorrow and today is 'stop thinking 'and face life with courage and honesty and you will never be played around by your friend who lives in your adrenaline called anxiety.
  Thanks for your time, happy weekend.

Tussle- Story about a fight.

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