Change - The constant process

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well.

Change your thoughts and you change.

-Anonymous

Change is the way of life I am sure you would have read this,  and also this one, change is inevitable

It is actually necessary and it is the reason that the world has evolved till here and continues to evolve.

Now even when we look at the animal and plant kingdom we see that what biologists call evolution, in short, it can be called transformation.

But there is a condition here; there can be bad change and good change.

Bad change can be more and more modernization leading to disasters in the world.

Good change can be the same technology helping visually challenged to regain their vision.

Now for another question what does it take to change someone of his attitude, thoughts or the way he thinks.

There are reasons people change some are pleasant and some are not so happy ones.

The good reasons that we can see a change in a person are, chasing him or her to progress, self-realization and maturity.

When we think about the unpleasant ones there are people who are nice but their circumstance made them the sadists they are today, the challenge is not to bow to the circumstance and being the person you are, which again changes you to become more brave and strong.

Now for that question what does it take to change a person, let me be positive to change him into a good person?

Well, I feel his attitude matters, suppose that person had a good attitude towards life half job is done the other half is a little persuasion and goal orientation.

But if he or she is leading a life in a negative mindset, a lot of pushing around is required.

Definitely, I feel we need to always change for the good, attitude is a set of beliefs which we see and learn as we grow up and how we respond to stimuli which are partially transferred from our parents.

But the crux is that finally, it's up to the individual how he wants to live? But I urge people to change for good and develop good qualities, mannerisms and awareness and being proactive in the society so that we can make the place you stay reach new heights, which may help change the lives of millions. 

I want to end this blog here with the hope of seeing a change in the reader's mind.

Let me know in the comment box what are your thoughts on this blog.

Thanks for your time.

Contrition - A Disease!

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well.

Repentance is not when you cry, it is when you change.

-Anonymous

We start leading our lives according to the environment we are born, there is so much truth in that statement; but still can you make live life out of that environment? and live like you wanted to?

My intention is not to confuse when I typed those two lines, but the last part of the paragraph is actually a challenge, it is difficult to change the way we are leading our life.

We are emotional and social beings; we show all types of emotions depending on the situations we face.

One such feeling is repentance; we do mistakes deliberately sometimes even though we may know the end result. Why do such mishaps after all we are called the most intellectual lot in the whole world. Let us discuss.

When was the last time you sat in contrition and got visions in your mind that: supposed you had worked in plan B you would not have ended up in your current state.

Before that entire discussion, first think about this, is remorse good for you? Does it improve your life, there are actually two sides of the debate one part of the it is that up to some extent remorse is good; to complete the second part I would say it is not good always.

I will try to explain both the parts now, first part regretful after making a gaffe is good because it shows that you still have good character left inside you that still is policing you to move in the correct course, that is the good part, however the part which is not so motivating is forgetting this wound very soon and ending up back in a mentally injured mode (remorse) in a short while.

That my friend is the part where we all need to improve, I am sure when your senior at office was training you during your probation something, or your teacher was teaching you some topic in school they would have told you make mistakes now, but when you are on the job or when you write exams be careful and make sure you don’t repeat these mistakes.

But in life there are times you do not get that probation period or a practice class, you may have to rush into an exam hall unprepared! Or work with huge responsibilities without support staff, well that is life! there is no margin for errors; this is law of the nature.

So we need to take decisions very carefully, because you might not get another chance.

What is the point of you being upset on yourself and making the surrounding milieu also look sadistic for the mistakes you did.

You have got this one life, we need to keep our energy bubbling, pump our lungs with the pure air of confidence move on from the mistakes we did and not to repeat them  and most important put it behind us and learn valuable lessons from such undesirable experiences.

So from today repent once and never repeat the same mistake again! Because there is much to do  the switches of happiness, opportunities and so on waiting for you to switch them on and  there are so many unexplored  places for you to go on a an adventure.

So the question: Can you live life out of your environment? and live like you wanted to? Well it is very much possible is what I feel. The success and failure both depend on how you deal with your life. I Wish you success.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a great week ahead.

The World behind you?!

Hello readers

Here it comes the Friday, and it is actually the good Friday.So enjoy the festival folks.

My topic for today is about the part we always miss, the world behind us?

If we just think about it for a while, we feel like just playing a game and thinking what will happen?  When I am not on this road!

Many of us even read about it on the Internet. Well that's a computer program, but our lives are not.

But the actual meaning,of the title I want to discuss today, is what happens when you go to a place, and after you leave the place,the importance of our presence,the people who were present in that place,their attitude towards you, in you absence.

Well when your at the place its obvious you can find out what is happening.

But do we know what is happening behind you.

In the game I was telling you about a little while ago there are numerous programs that load when your at the particular place and it keeps switching wherever you navigate.

Sometimes I feel even life is similar, the crowds have become  so confused about opinions towards a person that, they appreciate him when he is around but, blame and hate him, from behind.

People call it back biting which is quite common, and according to a survey I had read in the "Look "magazine which says, a person will be backbites at least 5 times in his life time and, he would have felt bad about it at least 3 times.

I also read in the same article that, the person's brain learns and senses back biting, after quite a while but the person has to develop and cultivate his brain to sharpen to detect when its happening.

This is actually a negative topic but I felt the need to spread the word as,many people and many more just fall for the trap, and consider some people as their friends and share all the good and bad about them.

But the latter just hear everything they say and give, them back a  simple reward of gossip and false publicity about them in a negative way.Even though they enjoyed their company and may be shared their joys and sorrows with them too.

I am still puzzled why the world has become so mean and cruel?,we take help from people who  in our hard times, but we forget about them and suddenly start hating  them!this is very unfortunate.

Just put yourself in that position, and,imagine how sad your mind feels when a person whom you helped just says all the words against you and brand you as useless!.

Finally I would like to say, there are few people, for whom both the worlds are the same,others don't worry, just worry about the world in which you live and don't worry about the world behind you.

My request to you is not to spoil others character and disrespect them when they are not around! You which is the worst habit one can develop.

Let's be transparent in life.Let the paper be white as it is white in the front.

Thanks for your time happy weekend.

The Lonely Experiance.

Hello readers

What's up with you guys? Here comes another weekend.

So today wanted to talk about this feeling I am sure everyone would have felt.

Yes I am talking, about those moments when, we went on a picnic with our friends, or you went alone on a road trip.

I wanted to share some observations that I have about, how I feel when I am alone or, you know it's like a general observation, about how our Brain works when we are alone.

The first thing what I observed was, my brain became more vigilant, about me, my surrounding, the food I eat, the people around me, my mood will be set, that is the travelling buzz.

I feel our true character  will emerge out during this period.

Let me explain you the true character part,when we travel alone or be alone,at home for that matter the inner person, who can be adventureous or sober pops out.

The person who likes some adventures, try new things, you youngsters like me out there , I am sure you know what I am talking about.!

The sober ones just hang in there and pass that time.

The Missing Part.

Now what is this missing part?it is actually, when you realise that seriously you miss a person,places,thing or an animal,and your heart aches, because your not able to see them.

The positives of being alone is that, it gives us confidence, builds our attitude towards people, and makes us think about the , difficulties of life, we would all feel thankful for about our parents who, we're so protective,and took care of us.

So let's learn a good message today :learn to lead life of calmness, first when your alone, then start practising the same when you are part of a family, or ultimately this society.

Thanks for your time see you again next week.

The Chemical Circles.

Hello readers
           hope you guys are doing great.So the thought for today will be, salvation lies within,it is taken from the bible, but I have taken this from my all time favourite movie sweshank redemption.

               This morning I was remembering my chemistry classes, the atomic structure of all chemicals, my exciting days in the lab and so on.
               
               So the concept that I always relished to study, was about the atoms, the orbital theory, how they revolve around the nucleus,the attractive forces, and the repulsive forces and so on.

              What amazes me about this topic is that, the nature of revolving around a central object, holds good from the atomic level, to the planets which revolve around the sun! Whatever research has been done, about this, yet it is still unclear why this happens.
            
             Here comes the kicker,the same principle also holds good in animals, apes and humans, we keep revolving in circles,the nucleus will be our parents or guardians or some great people, who helped you out, and our friends ofcourse, we get attracted to some people and repel to some, bond with each, other we act as a catalyst,so do we all follow the already formed laws of nature?       
               Its was quoted in the bagavatgita the most holy scripture of hindus, that everything is scripted by me (lord Krishna) you (Arjuna) are just a means or an instrument, who performs the task.
   
          So this blog is changing pitches from Chemistry, to astronomy to mythology and family? don't feel that  am not clear, on the point that I want to make, I am very much sure about what I want to convey, it is a simple awarness.

             The awarness is that this world is not live  as we think it is this mammoth recorded movie which is playing without a pause, there is this giant script whose end is definitely not in our time lines, which works same for all, no superiority or inferiority,only a small amount of tuning, and alteration,which people called life, that helps in following the law of nature better!
    
           To conclude, we must all stop the acting foolish, about  being superior, and inferior, respect your peers,and all other beings on this mother earth, and always remember, what makes you angry can make, the next person angry,when you do it him, live happy and with science in mind.
          
           thanks for your time will be back next week have a great weekend.

             

The Universal Boss.

Hello readers,so here comes the weekend!

Hope all are doing OK.I am doing almost fine ,why I say almost fine is that,have some questions which keeps my mind wondering and puts me in a fix every time I think about it, and I end up either satisfying myself with an answer just to shut my mind, thinking about it or find the answer,until next time again it pops up and says!"hey you just faked an answer last time so what about this time"!?

                 So my question to all of you the knowledgeable crowd out there is? do all of us have a single universal boss ,irrespective of what we do in life ? think about it, a single person to whom 7 billion people report to,send sign-off mails ,say sorry for not reaching targets?and blasted in a meeting room for not performing  in the 1st quarter or will be removed, from a job for not washing his car,sacked for not spilling coffee on a customer! so the list is endless,but again we come back to the same question is there that one guy whom we can call the one boss for all?

        

                  The immediate question following and which is the most obvious would be is this so called boss a human? or is a force or God himself,my easiest ,answer for this would be 1.Your consciousness 2.Mother Nature and 3.The force what we call God. 

  

                   So taking my answer number one you all know what is consciousness every time you do a thing in your day to day life before everyone else you know whether it is right or wrong ,so from the minute you so saw light till the second the light fades away in your eye you keep reporting to your conscious and always try to stay in the top performer terms with him ,by following what ever he says!and you know at times you are at fault ,yet we ask excuses to our boss and act meaning less on the outer side.So this keeps happening with every single person in life,except for some greatest exceptions ,they are just a handful according to me.

                     The second boss is the toughest boss of all times and he will remain the same until this world ends! OK for people who are thinking I am just being philosophical here ,no I am being scientific about it,I think a simple example will help you understand,There was this very rich man who was very proud his wealth and was a expert in building house which he claimed would resist any type of nature's fury,but one fine day he realized this was not possible but,never stopped making promises to his clients and continued building houses ,but nature gave the taste of his own medicine which was a giant tsunami which washed his own Backyard and converted his own kitchen garden into a grave yard of floating dead bodies! so the inference is that we can never shy away from nature and live as if we don't care about because finally nature is life and life began from it.

                 Well all of you know this force definitely exists some call it God and some call it the positive energy that surrounds good people ,and the negative energy which surround the people who take a bad U turn in life and are confused in  life and hurt this world with their stupid and merciless deeds,but this force wont allow them to live in peace and will certainly will show the way to their end without their knowledge!

 

              So after discussing the three forms of the same boss whom I call the universal boss ,I feel all the three are same but each shows up in different phase of our life  to show their presence to us and alert us,congratulate us and some time warn us in the direction in which we are travelling,but one thing is very evident when ever this leader of the world shows he has his own style of taking things into his own hands like an MD of a company handles a big escalation, but this boss can reset the world in a jiffy! so my message to all those great people who call them business man,and who never do fair business and do shameful deeds such as;

unnecessary deforestation,poaching of those poor elephants,think again you do it next time,because who knows the boss(nature) may be inside that poor animal;you want to kill and you may end up being exterminated from this job called 'living' and from this mammoth 'industry' called earth! and my general request to all my dear readers please follow the policy of live and let live and imbibe it to the future generations who are on their way save the industry and try not to shut it down for ever!

      Thanks for your valuable time will be back next week, enjoy life.

Think Before You Help!?

Hi readers
Hope Friday is going well to all of you and So my topic for the day seems very selfish isn't? But don't worry I can prove you wrong.
           We have heard of famous proverbs like "look before you leap "and think before you ink " and we would have quoted it to many people at the right instance, but why think before you help?!
       Can help not be done to people who ask for it?
         The answer should be actually to the deserving yes and for the people who act helpless but are looking for an opportunity to get help from others to run way from their problem for them the answer is no.
          let me tell you why we should help this society? you may be ashtounished by me telling that we have not even repaid this society half the help it has given us today!
            Let me explain you this,we were born on that holy day which we celebrate it as our birthday, that is the day your account of receiving your help started from that doctor and nurse who helped you come out of your mother's womb,and ofcourse your motherbecause of who's grace your leading a life today which has a morning and a night a place to sleep and thought you the basic lessons of life starting from how to drink a glass of water for free!
              Then on you have been getting help from the post man, the newspaper vendor, dont know how many servants who cleaned our dirty clothes.
              Not to forget the military and the army whose help can never be repaid by us unless we become one amoung them.
The money motive
                  Now the obvious argument for above that would emerge would be the people whom I have mentioned above do it for the sake of money, and patriotism which is a noble cause to fight for, with the people who say money, I cant say that I completely disagree with them but with a clause for disagreement which is there is motive other than money which is the service minded motive! Yes don't you think so they help you make you come out of our pressure or stress or get your things done on a larger scale protect you.
            The moral of the story is we have been receiving lot of help but, when its or time to return it back we first do this great calculation without any formulae judging the person who had asked you help, and some questions like, why should I help him? Is he worth the help and many more emerge and this has happened with all of us I am sure because we are all humans with limitations except for those like mother Theresa,and the great pontiffs of the world who have done service and given knowledge to the mass who gatherd and gave out their good thoughts to the world on foot, to wish and make this world a better place to live.
The anti-climax
                       So after understanding  how the world has helped us, let's talk some reality,we all must agree to this that we have all been selfish and money minded always, and help by choosing people like roses which are kept in a church and you the 'preist' decides which flower should be kept on his cross?, sorry my friends this is the sad fate of society, which lacks humanity, and I must say we have started thinking in this direction because we cannot, decide when to become selfish and selfless, and the mother of all disease is the expectation we have to always get a help in return or money or gratitude for me all are the same! They were and are few souls who used to help and not think about it, but that population is diminishing as the sun sets each day, we can get over with all the Wars of the world if there is simple factor called "help" and if all the citizens of a country are in unison with another there is no need for a war or a cease fire.Let's start helping people you can start by helping a kid to choose what education to select? Or helping a blind man cross the street, helping your old neighbours who may be ill and there  children are not with them if you start helping, the person next to you will and it goes viral.The great Yoga guru BKS iyengar who can left his body only a few days ago had said he gets pleasure in helping the people around me and he wants to see them fit,and today you can see millions cured of their pain, just imagine the bliss he would have felt every time he healed a person.
               let's stop thinking and start helping and serving this great society, see you next week thanks for your time, good evening.