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Sunday, 3 May 2020

Modern Primates

Hello Readers

Hope you all are doing well and staying home safe.

Search engines and social media are places where people enjoy bliss by giving up their privacy to the big guys! You are there in their servers forever now!
-Elon Musk a whistleblower.

I am sitting on my terrace, looking at the sky and listening to the sounds of nature it makes me feel light and contended thanks to mother nature.

The origin of humans is from apes and gibbons, so today's read about do we still carry those strains in us and also do these qualities show up in these modern civilised economies?

Let us begin, we are living in the deep ocean of people, things and technology.

Nearly two decades ago, communication was not so accessible. We were still very much dependent on the telephone, long-distance telegrams Morse code, telex and so on. Then came the worldwide web which changed this world forever a person in New-Zealand just sends an email to a person in Russia it is relayed to him momentarily no delays at all, yes the modem and the underwater internet cables across the pacific do the trick!

Even if you take these past three months when the whole world is fighting the virus, we all are still connected through virtual video applications, well this is pretty deep! Million-dollar businesses are going through virtual teleconferences, yes we all accepted the change and have got accustomed it to it pretty well I must say. But all this with the primate brain!

Why do I think so, I have seen and continue to see a few oblivious situations around me in which I see presence of these attitudes among us.

There are these profound changes this world underwent post the worldwide web. One such paradigm was the social media, I think the bubble burst from the ORKUT era, not sure how many of us still remember this social networking website which was hosted by google.

Followed by the mail group culture by yahoo, which was meant to share random jokes and pictures at various friends and family levels.

Fast-forward to Feb 2004 something important happened in this world which would change this world forever in the way it communicates.

A new company was born and called Facebook founded by Mark Zuckerberg and his fellow Harvard College students Eduardo Saverin, Andrew McCollum, Dustin Moskovitz and Chris Hughes. Project for their course this was a website created to upload and share student profiles in their college.

The website's membership was initially limited by the founders to Harvard students. Still, it was expanded to other colleges in the Boston area, the Ivy League. Gradually most universities in the United States and Canada, corporations, and by September 2006, to everyone with a valid email address along with an age requirement of being 13 and older could open an account in Facebook.

Until now, Facebook was a simple website where most of the university students in and around North America could upload profiles and share their pictures. After 2006, Facebook was gradually left open to the public as stated earlier people with relevant credentials could use Facebook and in 2012, Facebook filed for an initial public offering!

The monkey and the paradigm.

People changed the way they communicate the gaps in the world have shrunk. Now you have a world beyond the one you live, and that is the world among the server farms. The network of Facebook where we try to express ourselves with all our photos and videos almost everything about our life which we decide to share it with the world, we like comment and share others posts and paint our walls with a quote and birthday wishes.

Alas, the rosy garden of Eden of social media is finally polluted!  By the monkey brain and has brought down the wrath of hatred, bias and societal selfishness into this equation. people are enraged with sharing things without thinking whether it has a meaning or not, the chest-thumping attitude against each other, the doctors call it social media psychology!

The party men use such platforms to spin-off elections by posting political posts, Oh my lord! The whirlwind of whats app groups supporting these parties throwing grenades of hatred and disrespect among people, which are now a way of living and a new way of marketing, tagged as social media marketing.

This opens up into search engines feeding the search data to these social media companies to understand and spin-off consumer behaviour with it!

So the evolution from a significantly connected world to mutual hatred and fake news promoting social media!

Whom do we blame? Zuckerberg, the creators of the internet, the creator of smartphones high-speed processor manufacturing companies or networking companies? The answer is a big no it is the monkey brain within us which has to be blamed! The attitude overthinking ad being street smart in the places where it is not required and converting an innovation given to us into something really gruesome.

courtesy google images

 
Rest assured the social media companies are getting more prosperous more vibrant by the day, yes, they are in the data selling business, and we all have given all our data to these companies and hardly care about our privacy anymore.

Let's try to change it by spreading positivity wherever and whichever way possible also try to limit ourselves in slogging on social media and spend time as productively as possible.

Thanks a lot for your time.

Helios.

Sunday, 19 April 2020

Stalwart


Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well in these iffy times.

Even without doing anything, a friend can give comfort and eliminate misery.
Sanskrit Subashita

Man is a social animal he depends on other people to lead his life, now the scientific community is coming together and accepting that our mental health is equally important as our physical health.

So why do they think that are we saying this epiphany happened in the minds of scientists suddenly or is there a trigger point which drove them towards this thinking?

Actually, something triggered, so since the year 2015, there was this increase in mental health issues and raise in the sales of anti-depressants in the US according to a renowned consulting company.

A group of people from some of the most prestigious research institutions concluded in various paper presentations that people felt lonely, insecure and were obtuse in just popping pills in a hope to reduce depression! That is so callusing.
 
Has the world fallen to such a state that someone cannot lift a person in trouble why this selfishness and insensitivity?

But the story has a flipside the situation is not such a hopeless as one may think, some people are making the troubles one’s life a little better I call this bunch of people as friends.

This passage is more about these fantastic people whom we all come across in life.

Friend, this word is very precious to me, they have made a difference in my life, I am sure they would have made a difference in your life as well.

What is the difference between others and friends? I would say the personal space that you get with a pal I feel you won’t find that with others, including your family.

Pals are very close to heart, they make you feel very comfortable and compassionate and show you that empathy.

The most exceptional quality which I have experienced in friendship is the unbiased attitude of your friend that freedom we enjoy while sailing on this ship.

courtesy Google images
  
 But Alas! There are only very few real friends who come in your life and stay, you would have read this meme a million times on WhatsApp, which says “friends come and go, some teach you lessons and the others you miss when they are not around you.”. Hence, it is true some people come like lightning and teach you how to face a storm and then vanish in thin air, some stay there and show you how to meet the tornado and come out of it till the end.

Both groups have made a significant impact on my life.

This ship should definitely be clear of the clouds of the materialism and all the other isms in the world, hope you got my drift. A friend is just a friend. His background is irrelevant, and these backgrounds are what the humans created to differentiate people based on their whims and fancies.!

I mean seriously, friends are sometimes become so essential for you in life that without them, you may have a meltdown and unable to move forward, I may be exaggerating it a little bit, but I have reason to believe that it is true.

I remember when I was in my second grade, one of my friends had a tied a friendship band to me and also given me a greeting card which said the below:
“There is an iron ship which can sink, there is a steel ship which can sink, but there is one ship which cannot sink, and that is friendship.”

I think that says it all, I think my friend and whoever helped my pal to write those words were thoughtful, and I thank them.

courtesy Google images


 After many years I realized the essence of the wish on the greeting and appreciate the innocence and the true meaning of it.

Before I end, it's worth mentioning about man's best friend who has also made a difference in this world too they are the only creatures who love you more than they love themselves.

Keep meeting new people, become friends and help people to grow.

Thanks for your time, Have a great day.

Wishing you all a good health.

Helios.

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