Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Saturday, 26 December 2015

The voice that matters.

Hello readers’ Good Morning!

Hope you are doing good, merry Christmas and a happy new-year
J

"God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple."
- Chanakya


The new-year is just five days away, so it’s the time to start writing or rather list the resolutions and try again to understand the meaning of our life and try to improve it and making it more meaningful.

So when we talk about voices they are very important in our life, we all definitely know what is a voice, it is that sound produced in the larynx and uttered through the mouth.

OK, let us do a small exercise I will give you some words just think about them and tell me the voices that first strikes you when you read these words: Leader, Teacher, friend, enemy, music, motivator, and argument.

I am sure you guys would have got your own names, these people first strike your mind because they have made an impact in your life these voices can be of your favorite actor or an actress or even a news reader or anyone.

But there is one universal voice that can break you or make you, and that is your own voice and this voice I am talking about is not that you use to speak or communicate with others but this is the voice which is always silent and only you can hear it but I can assure that this voice keeps speaking to you all the time and you always hear or rather listen to it.


We talk to our voices in every moment of our life, suppose you want to eat something and you see that when you are passing by near a random hotel that sense of jolly feeling rushes out from inside and someone says: Dude you love that stuff go grab a bite!

We always say we are directed by our mind, which I totally agree with but, we are aware that the mind talks to you and the tone has a meaning? You know this field is called mind narration which is a very advance branch of science I recently read about on mint, first time in USA a group of scientists and doctors defined this term, and devised a method to track down the thinking process of criminals.

From the above study they also found another good use of this research that even common men’s minds can be understood, so that they can think better and live better.

For example if you take a situation that you are walking on the road and you see one of your friend passing by, but unfortunately before you even could call him he tripped on the footpath and injured himself, so initially you were happy seeing him and was eager to meet him , but now after he fell you got a spark of sympathy and the voice changed inside and it sounds more protective which will reflect in your actions as well, so you make sure to go and help him and drop him home

Next time when you are suddenly face a situation, try to observe your own voice you can easily find out your thought process and how you are planning to overcome that problem and the whole process explained by the voice.

We are the best judges for ourselves we can cheat any number of people in this world but we cannot cheat ourselves as the voice already knows that what you did was not right and it is already in remorse for what you did.


When our actions are good this inner voice of the mind talks to you boldly at the same when we err the voice is submissive but tries to defend itself just to make you feel comfortable and that defense is being propelled by your own ego which always fools you by saying you’re always right. But at that moment when your voice was pale and not bold you have already erred and accepted your mistake.

This voice which is not heard by anyone in this world except for you is the best judge that you can depend on because it knows all about the actions you do and gives you the judgement each day.

Listen to your own voice, respect it and always consider The Voice before your next action.

Have a great weekend. I would like to thank each one of you for reading my blogs that motivation has made it possible to reach my first tiny milestone of 100 blogs.

Thank you all 
J

Saturday, 18 April 2015

The 7th sense?!

Hello readers
I look to the future because that's where I'm going to spend the rest of my life.
-George Burns.

Welcome to Friday, hope you guys had a good week.

In this blog, I would like to talk about the inter-personal relationships between people, and how it works.

I am sure we all have heard of this word called the 6th sense, which simply means seeing the future,or sensing the uncertain, and some people also have the ability to predict danger and warn his friend well in advance.

So what is the 7th sense? Do you feel this is just a out of the box term or it does really exist?
Actually it does exist and some people without their knowledge have become more successful, confident and better managers of their own lives,with the help of this.

If you ask me in specific, the uses of developing this sense,well the concept is too simple, we know that man is a social animal, he leads a societal life.

To lead that societal life successfully,we need to understand the people around us, their feelings, and try to respect it to the extent possible.


Now you can ask me the possible use of understanding the people around us,its first of all the best skill you can develop, you can foresee what's?going in their lives by reading their body language, and we also become considerate towards people, may be help them if they are in distress.
There is a need in this world to understand each person better,and develop common sympathy and empathy towards the person next to you, if that is done I guess this works can be a better place to live.

Let's try to develop the sense which will shape you into a better person and helps you lead a happy life.

Thanks for your time, happy weekend.

Friday, 3 April 2015

The World behind you?!

Hello readers

Here it comes the Friday, and it is actually the good Friday.So enjoy the festival folks.

My topic for today is about the part we always miss, the world behind us?

If we just think about it for a while, we feel like just playing a game and thinking what will happen?  When I am not on this road!

Many of us even read about it on the Internet. Well that's a computer program, but our lives are not.
But the actual meaning,of the title I want to discuss today, is what happens when you go to a place, and after you leave the place,the importance of our presence,the people who were present in that place,their attitude towards you, in you absence.

Well when your at the place its obvious you can find out what is happening.
But do we know what is happening behind you.

In the game I was telling you about a little while ago there are numerous programs that load when your at the particular place and it keeps switching wherever you navigate.

Sometimes I feel even life is similar, the crowds have become  so confused about opinions towards a person that, they appreciate him when he is around but, blame and hate him, from behind.

People call it back biting which is quite common, and according to a survey I had read in the "Look "magazine which says, a person will be backbites at least 5 times in his life time and, he would have felt bad about it at least 3 times.

I also read in the same article that, the person's brain learns and senses back biting, after quite a while but the person has to develop and cultivate his brain to sharpen to detect when its happening.
This is actually a negative topic but I felt the need to spread the word as,many people and many more just fall for the trap, and consider some people as their friends and share all the good and bad about them.

But the latter just hear everything they say and give, them back a  simple reward of gossip and false publicity about them in a negative way.Even though they enjoyed their company and may be shared their joys and sorrows with them too.

I am still puzzled why the world has become so mean and cruel?,we take help from people who  in our hard times, but we forget about them and suddenly start hating  them!this is very unfortunate.
Just put yourself in that position, and,imagine how sad your mind feels when a person whom you helped just says all the words against you and brand you as useless!.

Finally I would like to say, there are few people, for whom both the worlds are the same,others don't worry, just worry about the world in which you live and don't worry about the world behind you.

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My request to you is not to spoil others character and disrespect them when they are not around! You which is the worst habit one can develop.

Let's be transparent in life.Let the paper be white as it is white in the front.


Thanks for your time happy weekend.

Friday, 23 January 2015

The Super Computer.

Hello readers
Hope you guys are fine,lets understand the topic for today.
Most of us know names, of many Super-computers, designed in the world and their, amazing capabilities.
To give some examples, we have the IBM stark which can answer questions like any human, the computers in the satellites, which gives us weather updates and many more
But still I don't agree they are so Super as they know how to use logic,from the program we have deviced and loaded, but actually they don't think,they are like many animals who work on instinct.
Actually to achieve this treasure of success with computers, brilliant people have strived for it, which is great and should be appreciated.
Now after talking about the great computers lets talk about the human computer,yes the brain, there is no match for this wonderful wonder, which is protected by a calcium shell,this computer is so great that, it has unlimited memory!
The possibilities
So what can your brain do? Just start thinking, you will get the next task which you feel you should do!, actually the first task you did just now is you thought!
Just think about some verbs in english now,you will realise you would have done all those actions already once.
I recently watched a movie called, Lucy which I guess have mentioned in my earlier blogs,it explains about the use of our cerebral valves capacity! Which is actually proved in Hindu mythology,it has quoted about people who could teleport,see future and so on, archaeologists and scientists have proved certain phenomena like the vimana shastra.
After telling you about the amazing capabilities of the brain, I would like to throw some light on the current scenario which is actually not so encouraging.
People are wasting this precious life, only with childish acts, arrogance, violence, materialism, stupidity, egoism and the constant greed for the so called "vitamin M"?!
Where are we heading to? Come on start using this beautiful computer,and  become productive, spread this knowledge, the ancient people did it, for planning a civilization, we should do it for building world peace.
As the bible days "salvation lies within "
Let's become wise in our thinking and try to make this place a better place to live to one and all.
I would like end with a message :think positive,when you are about to quit,just think why you started,think about  people like stephen hawking who is a living legend.let's make that change.
Thanks for your time.

Friday, 9 January 2015

The Inner Love.

Hello readers

Hope your newyear celebrations and carnival, went on well now we are all back to our daily routine as usual, busy with our own work and other stuff,well that is fine,just read this post to kill your boredom.

So I want to talk about the four letter word, everyone likes to talk about that is 'love'.

The moment you say this word, you will feel that joy in your mind,and get that sensation, of relief so why does this happen? Lets understand why.

The love I am referring here is not which happens, to a teen, when he sees some random girl on a road or his class, that is just a infatuation or his wishful thinking of liking her.

What is actual love or, some call it true love?

According to me, true love is that attachment between you and the person or thing you love,when you share your feelings with the person or animal or a thing you are attached to, and miss it when it is not around you.

There is another concept, which actually motivated me to, write this post, which is : Do we love what we hate?

You may think at first sight this is a simple and stupid question, how can we like something or.somebody if we hate it?

But that is the crux of the matter. I read an article in the internet, which says that : there are centres in your brain, that decide, the love and hate decisions,and they say that if you hate something for a long time, your brain starts depending on it,and if enough time passes it will be loved .

I wanted to write this article, as I can see this world is forgetting to love and to be loved, and has ended in a bitter fight to the death! Some have lost their love on their children for silly and childish reasons,and others fight meaninglessly for everything and anything.

I wish these meaningless fights, haterd on each other would end soon, and we all will continue to live in peace.So just think of we are designed to love what we hate, after enough time passes by, why shouldn't we start loving it  from the beginning? and live happy.

Thanks for your time, adios.stop hating, start loving this world.
         

Friday, 2 January 2015

The Message Centre.

Hello readers

Happy new year to one and all, lets hope this year brings peace in society, which will make this world a better place to live,for both us and milions of other species.

This is my 49th blog post, and my 1st blog for this year,I would like to thank all the readers, for the continues support.

So the topic for today would be, the message centre!?

There are many ways of sending messages, in this advanced era, of technology and science, but the message centre, I am going to talk about is the most advanced one, and we still don't, have the complete idea as to how? It works.!

The reason I say it's the most advanced,is that it is automated to the core, and is more powerful than the smartest, and the fastest, computer in the world.

So the message system I am talking about is located in our brains, and is working from the day we were, born and will work, till that last breath we inhale.

So the primary, question is, do we send and receive messages? Who sends it to us? and who is the recipient? these are the obvious, questions which come to your mind.

The answer may surprise you, because the answer is you?! just go on reading, you will l understand the reason why I say its you or me, it is very simple,and scientific.

First of all, we should understand the purpose of the message, there are so many countless reasons for that. Some common reasons,for example, if you feel hungry, the muscles in the stomach contract, and we call it growling, and you eat food and the growing, stops.

Feeling hungry, is a natural phenomenon and I call it a physical message, then you may ask me is there any other type of message,the answer is yes.

The other type of messages are, what I call the "trolls " which will never stop,and the reason we think, we laugh, we have feelings, we cry is all because of the l trolls,we often say this -sorry sir I was not concentrating! The troll took over your thinking pay of the brain, and you failed to listen.

The message centre is the biggest troll builder software, ever designed, and is more powerful than any fastest instant messanger in the world.

Sometimes I feel amazed, the way my thoughts go out of control, within a short span of time,and the way brain, stiches it, into a perfect, scenario I which is brilliant.

Always try getting good trolls,by reading good things, and doing good deeds and helping this society.

Thanks for your time, I wish everyone, a most successful, and happy year again.

Saturday, 27 December 2014

Depression :A point of no return?

Hello readers

A very happy Christmas to one and all, and wishing you a great year ahead.

There is a joy in this month of december for many reasons, its a season of, families coming together to celebrate, children get gifts, and everyone enjoys the moment and the festive mood.

However, even when the world is enjoying, there are some poor souls, who are sad and, depressed.For them the words, like happiness,joy, smile are just words, and even their meanings do not matter.

But we have to understand, that they too will have a,genuine reasons to be sad, because there can be a fake laugh, but its unlikely to be depressed for fun.

The are times where I am also depressed, and get these type of questions in mind such as why was I born? Why is God cruel to me? and so on.

We are humans and yes I agree we do have limitations but, there should be a limit for these limitations.

Suppose I take an instance,a student failing in an exam, according to psychology, there are three types of responses that can be expected by the child,the first one would be, being depressed the second will be, diversion and the last one will be showing agression.

In an old regional movie which, I had watched down the time line this example was shown where, a child who was scolded by his dad, runs away from his house, and becomes a helper in a hospital for disabled children.So the kid used diversion and agression as a route to evade from his depression.

So these basic three reactions, are expected by  doctors when we are depressed.

I must congratulate, the people who, showed aggression, and diversion, when they were depressed, as they know lead there life, with the right attitude to deal with their problems and not feel destroyed for what happened.

Also the people who diverted their minds,who have a good motive towards solving their issues and move on in life.

But people who felt depressed,will never come out the well of sadness and demotivation,and always will be people who don't know the meaning of happiness.

Always be a worrier in your mind, and fight each moment, and face every problem strongly, and if you keep doing this, you will never go to that non-productive, static state called depression.
Martin Luther King Jr said long back "stop cribbing, start living "so that would be my message.

Thanks for your time and happy holidays.

Saturday, 29 November 2014

The Brain Games.

Hello my dear readers

So it's Friday, to be frank with all of you I have no idea how this week passed was just thinking "is it already Friday "?  this morning, so the thought for today would be, what my teacher used to say many years ago! Which is "you can buy anything under the sun, but time, so use your time in the proper direction "I would never forget that.

Moving on with today's topic if your guessing that, is it about a review on the famous tv show which is aired on national geographic channel because the name seems so obvious your right, I got the previlage to write,reviewers for them?!

I was just joking there, this is the most common trick, and I got you, actually not you, your brain the moment you read the last paragraph, you were like, wow you mean this guy got chance from natgeo? not bad for him!

So what just happened was that the neurons responsible for that "wow" feeling got activated, and expressed emotions which were so motivating, that you smiled at this page.

Again the whole episode was a game, which was only started by me, but actually played by your brain.

Our brain has this awesome predicting power, which is actually, a survival technique according to science, and it is a way to make us feel that  everything is normal.

Our feelings are based on how the brain reacts, this reaction is based on 2 things,your Knowledge on what you saw, and your genes?

It is actually true that some part of the feelings and the way we react and our expressions are linked to our parents!

In the beginning of the blog when I surprised  you at first you fell for it, but now without  your Knowledge you are being a little relaxed on reading this as you know, that it was a joke, they call this in science as the ' after surprised effect' you can Google about it,very interesting to read.

Our day to day life is all about this effect, starting from your shock of getting up late and running to catch the 8 am bus, and again,when you slept and realised "oh what am exciting day it was, how could I manage everything so well?

So continue to get surprised, each day because, that is the path for new learning happy weekend. Thanks for your time.

Friday, 24 October 2014

Discover Yourself

Hello readers
Hope all are doing fine.

The unexamined life is not worth living.
SOCRATES

After that thought, let me move on with the topic,well the first view of it, will make you feel is it a tag line for an ad?

       come on that is not the case, though I have studied marketing, this is not the place to use my skill, this is purely about, you,me basically every person in this world.

          let me tell you a short story, there was a small kid, who was born in a very wealthy family,so he was treated very well by his parents, and ofcourse, his house was always bumbling, with servants,and benifactors,so the boy's desire,was an order and was fulfilled within no time.

              But one day a disaster struck, and the whole village where they were living, was dismantled by an earth quake,the boy's house was destroyed and he lost his parents in this confusion, the boy who was now a man, early in his twenties, was just shocked, and first time in his life felt helpless.
               
               Months after that sad day, this man made an attempt, to think, that was the first time in his life he thought about something, intensly,he thought "why should I be sad all the time like this, if I compare my self with all those poor people who were buried alive, in front of their kids, am I not fortunate? who still has a place to stay? 
      
                So this man from that day, started to think, about each problem, he faced, and became successful also a famous problem solver, to all the people who approached him.

                I think that's all what life is about, we need to understand, our own brain, before you go and solve others problems, it should not take us a violent storm to teach us this lesson of life, as we mature, physically, it should happen mentally too in the same pace.

              The day each and every man discovers and understands his own mind, he will become free from the cage of false desires, and confusion that he faces every day,and moves in only direction  that is the direction of success.

                Thanks for your time have a great weekend.
             

Friday, 29 August 2014

Back To The Present!?

Hello readers
Thanks a lot for your time, it's only because of you my dear pals I have reached this far and get motivated each time to write a blog.
            So I am sure most of you would have watched this super hit movie "Back To The Future "so the movie is about Marty Mcfly (Michael.J.Fox) getting stuck in the past or the future with his friend Doc Emmet Brown (Christopher Loyd).
             So if we see the basic concept of the movie it always gives us a message travelling through time is a risky task, well I am not trying to give a review or a promotional ad about this great movie! but what I want to tell you is that, we always live in this present minute, but think about that hour which has past yesterday or will occur tomorrow, believe me all of us would have done this at some point in our life I am no an exception , even I would have done this,and let me tell you this is not an issue with us, it's one of the mechanisms that our brains adapt to think and help you react, a simple example would be you had some allergy to some fruit punch so, next time your buddy offers you to drink you will for sure retort, and you would say no.

why should we live in the present?
             The simple answer would be, is there any use of thinking or living in the past or for that matter mindlessly predicting the future which is uncertain asin the movie back to the future the scientist invents a time machine,and finally realises, that he had made a big mistake, and regrets it in the last part of the movie.
               Our mind rambels to stay in the present and always takes you to the previous day or that cut -away where you were sruck suffering in some situation, which may motivate you or make you quit. Do you know the result of this rambling,you cannot concentrate on your at work or anywhere for that matter and you take double the time to complete the same task that your doing for a long time.
            So next time you decide to do something do it as if your doing it for the first time that will help you get success in half the time you are taking to finish it now,Ok meet you again next week have a great evening, enjoy life.

Friday, 1 August 2014

Brain Printing-what It is? And Its Impact

Hello
There is no shortcut to hardwork,learn to listen and listen to learn, these are the all time truths that I am following all through my life.
            So what is Brain Printing? It is simple, you know brain and you know printing thats it printing a diagram of the brain? Yes that is the generic meaning but actually what it is differs.
            Brain printing is the process of your brain remembering and the same things repeatedly and getting used to that task.Where do they do brain printing?  Well ask a pre-school kid he or she will tell you the usual class drill of reciting the poems and math tables day in and day out, the reason behind which is to build the basic, foundation of vocabulary, logic and english awarness Ok that is fine,but don't you think there is limit after which this need to be stopped after the child grows.I feel there is strong need to stop this after a certain age.

The positive impact
Let me assure that rise kids will be successful in math and english for sure Ok get along with society how it works, and the usual business of life can be carried on without pain.

The negative itch
          Just try this tell to yourself that you can do something for 10 times and see the change in yourself you will feel and get a little bit of confidence. Don't you?  But all through your life you hear these types of statements such as "you can't, hey loser this not cup of tea, come on try something easy, " please understand these are negative thoughts which get printed in your mind without your own knowledge sorry no one can't change that as it designed to be like that and we can't change, but what we can is imbibing positive thoughts in yourself and also others lets keep that aim in mind and tell I can do ten times a day atleast.
         Thank you adios see you again next week.

         

Sunday, 20 April 2014

Brain-The Machine Which Never Dies.

Hello readers
Thanks for reading well saturday is about to end,that does not matter to me anymore because I have lost track of time as a result of my job to be frank.
     My topic for the day for starters is very general but at the same time very deep, it is such a big code that great people are trying to break and make a replica of it using millions of computers.
       Now,let us understand why I say brain is that machine which does not have death.A baby is born,he or she is very new to this great old earth the moment he is born he cries who asked him to do that!?You may tell me it's evolution, that is one way true but something initiated the process of squeezing those facial muscles,the lyranx(sound box) was compressed to make a crying high pitched noise and the lacrimal glands stimulated to make salt and water flow out which we call tears!so this is what we collectively call crying it is very normal in babies,the baby grows and starts reacting to situations and one of the reaction would be crying which is according to psychologists the first level of asking help,which is proved to activate the sympathy feeling in the observer which is again electric pattern flashed  in your neurons  and your brain.
         My brain is designed so well that I am thinking of so many things now,yet I am able to concentrate on this blog.I feel it is the most efficient machine anyone could find,and it's fuel? Some calories of proteins and hydrates per day and water, last but not the least keeping it in its working state by lubricating with the oils  of happiness, sorrow,challenges,pain,surprise and so on,brain works in a weird way, I call it so because sometimes I my self get surprised the way my brain finds solutions, and it's ability to learn things fast but when it wants only what it needs, it  will use the best possible workforce,the body in which it's living to get things done.The classic example is a child crying for a toy,on the contrary we have also seen how terrorists get pleasure by creating problems in society,well that's the way his brain finds pleasure.
       In my conclusion I would like to say even though our brains are different it is made up of similar materials with thinking patterns same to some extent it and different because of our genes brain is like a mega main frame computer which replicates every time a organism is  reborn with tweaks and updates and is getting far more advanced as the new generations are emerging . Even though brain lives until it's owner is breathing ,it is living forever because it is where someone thought
laughed and cried and is ready to continue its job from where it is stopped if it's given new body to work! ,therefore throughly brain is one machine which never dies.Give it a try, think about it, thanks for you're time, see you soon.

    

The Beautiful Struggle: Pain in the Pursuit of Dreams

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