Friday 3 April 2015

The World behind you?!

Hello readers

Here it comes the Friday, and it is actually the good Friday.So enjoy the festival folks.

My topic for today is about the part we always miss, the world behind us?

If we just think about it for a while, we feel like just playing a game and thinking what will happen?  When I am not on this road!

Many of us even read about it on the Internet. Well that's a computer program, but our lives are not.
But the actual meaning,of the title I want to discuss today, is what happens when you go to a place, and after you leave the place,the importance of our presence,the people who were present in that place,their attitude towards you, in you absence.

Well when your at the place its obvious you can find out what is happening.
But do we know what is happening behind you.

In the game I was telling you about a little while ago there are numerous programs that load when your at the particular place and it keeps switching wherever you navigate.

Sometimes I feel even life is similar, the crowds have become  so confused about opinions towards a person that, they appreciate him when he is around but, blame and hate him, from behind.

People call it back biting which is quite common, and according to a survey I had read in the "Look "magazine which says, a person will be backbites at least 5 times in his life time and, he would have felt bad about it at least 3 times.

I also read in the same article that, the person's brain learns and senses back biting, after quite a while but the person has to develop and cultivate his brain to sharpen to detect when its happening.
This is actually a negative topic but I felt the need to spread the word as,many people and many more just fall for the trap, and consider some people as their friends and share all the good and bad about them.

But the latter just hear everything they say and give, them back a  simple reward of gossip and false publicity about them in a negative way.Even though they enjoyed their company and may be shared their joys and sorrows with them too.

I am still puzzled why the world has become so mean and cruel?,we take help from people who  in our hard times, but we forget about them and suddenly start hating  them!this is very unfortunate.
Just put yourself in that position, and,imagine how sad your mind feels when a person whom you helped just says all the words against you and brand you as useless!.

Finally I would like to say, there are few people, for whom both the worlds are the same,others don't worry, just worry about the world in which you live and don't worry about the world behind you.

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My request to you is not to spoil others character and disrespect them when they are not around! You which is the worst habit one can develop.

Let's be transparent in life.Let the paper be white as it is white in the front.


Thanks for your time happy weekend.

5 comments:

journo_murthy said...

what is wrong with chrome, it has turned into a villain for me.
twice my comment has been blocked.
well, i am vikramadithya known for tenacity.
the fault lies with you , young man. depend less and less on environment and the characters who walk thru your life. with due respect to them, we may call them flotsam and jetsam. check whether the fault lies within you. pray that you be enlightened. and move on. simultaneously pray that the world becomes a better place to live in.
this prayer may or may not be granted. but you will be better off . remember at all times that we are lower selves trying to become our original selves. then the journey becomes fascinating.

journo_murthy said...

what is wrong with chrome, it has turned into a villain for me.
twice my comment has been blocked.
well, i am vikramadithya known for tenacity.
the fault lies with you , young man. depend less and less on environment and the characters who walk thru your life. with due respect to them, we may call them flotsam and jetsam. check whether the fault lies within you. pray that you be enlightened. and move on. simultaneously pray that the world becomes a better place to live in.
this prayer may or may not be granted. but you will be better off . remember at all times that we are lower selves trying to become our original selves. then the journey becomes fascinating.

Rekha A said...

good topic to write....When it comes to THEM, they want the best for themselves, and when it comes to the 'OTHERS', the THEM expect the OTHERS to compromise. I ask why this double standards ? Live and Let live.
I can only pity those people whom god has bestowed with everything, but they still execute a life feeling they are worthless. The only advise I can give to such people is - Enough of seeing those numbers in your safe account, spend them and you will feel equal to those whom you have been envying.

S. Sridhara Murthyu said...
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S. Sridhara Murthyu said...

Actually it is a mistake to expect any form of returns after extending help. It is actually barter otherwise. The help extended without any expectations and done as sacrifice to Lord is Nishkama Karma. To quote Gita: ”Any Karma other than as a sacrifice brings Karma Bandhana or bondage; do your Karmas free of attachment” 3.9.

Such acts lead to Karma Yoga and results on cleansing or Shuddhi of Chitta, the gate way for higher realizations.

“He lives who lives for others, but others live in vain” - Swami Vivekananda.

Please read the Title Karma yoga of Swami Vivekananda.

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