The voice that matters.

Hello readers’ Good Morning!

Hope you are doing good, merry Christmas and a happy new-yearJ

"God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple."
- Chanakya

The new-year is just five days away, so it’s the time to start writing or rather list the resolutions and try again to understand the meaning of our life and try to improve it and making it more meaningful.

So when we talk about voices they are very important in our life, we all definitely know what is a voice, it is that sound produced in the larynx and uttered through the mouth.

OK, let us do a small exercise I will give you some words just think about them and tell me the voices that first strikes you when you read these words: Leader, Teacher, friend, enemy, music, motivator, and argument.

I am sure you guys would have got your own names, these people first strike your mind because they have made an impact in your life these voices can be of your favorite actor or an actress or even a news reader or anyone.

But there is one universal voice that can break you or make you, and that is your own voice and this voice I am talking about is not that you use to speak or communicate with others but this is the voice which is always silent and only you can hear it but I can assure that this voice keeps speaking to you all the time and you always hear or rather listen to it.

We talk to our voices in every moment of our life, suppose you want to eat something and you see that when you are passing by near a random hotel that sense of jolly feeling rushes out from inside and someone says: Dude you love that stuff go grab a bite!

We always say we are directed by our mind, which I totally agree with but, we are aware that the mind talks to you and the tone has a meaning? You know this field is called mind narration which is a very advance branch of science I recently read about on mint, first time in USA a group of scientists and doctors defined this term, and devised a method to track down the thinking process of criminals.

From the above study they also found another good use of this research that even common men’s minds can be understood, so that they can think better and live better.

For example if you take a situation that you are walking on the road and you see one of your friend passing by, but unfortunately before you even could call him he tripped on the footpath and injured himself, so initially you were happy seeing him and was eager to meet him , but now after he fell you got a spark of sympathy and the voice changed inside and it sounds more protective which will reflect in your actions as well, so you make sure to go and help him and drop him home

Next time when you are suddenly face a situation, try to observe your own voice you can easily find out your thought process and how you are planning to overcome that problem and the whole process explained by the voice.

We are the best judges for ourselves we can cheat any number of people in this world but we cannot cheat ourselves as the voice already knows that what you did was not right and it is already in remorse for what you did.

When our actions are good this inner voice of the mind talks to you boldly at the same when we err the voice is submissive but tries to defend itself just to make you feel comfortable and that defense is being propelled by your own ego which always fools you by saying you’re always right. But at that moment when your voice was pale and not bold you have already erred and accepted your mistake.

This voice which is not heard by anyone in this world except for you is the best judge that you can depend on because it knows all about the actions you do and gives you the judgement each day.

Listen to your own voice, respect it and always consider The Voice before your next action.

Have a great weekend. I would like to thank each one of you for reading my blogs that motivation has made it possible to reach my first tiny milestone of 100 blogs.

Thank you all J

Rewind.

Hello readers

Good morning hope you all are fine.

It’s not the years in your life that counts. It’s the life in your years.

-Abraham Lincoln

We live in the present always that is what we believe but, there is fact that most of us are aware, the light that we receive from the sun is old they call it a billion year old light since it is shining since then.

How fascinating it would have been when the scientists concluded this? Just put yourself in that lab, you will jump in joy.

I had recently been  to a historical place in Kerala it is called Kannur it is located on the west coast of "God's own country" I was impressed after seeing the forts built by the Portuguese and how it was forcefully taken away by the Dutch, the royal history of the Arrakal family and so on.

St. Anglo Fort Kannur, India

 I was thinking all the time when I was seeing all these relics’, old buildings.

So what was I thinking? Well my first thought was these guys who came all the way from faraway countries who discovered the sea route  had great strategies in place, they were very enterprising and also clever business men who started taking control over our kings who were just money minded and very much in negotiation with the foreigners which we can see even today.

This is the time when India had become the trade hub and also an ironical war zone. I call it ironical because wars were fought between foreign countries where Indian soldiers where involved without no good motive.

The culture of working for others had begun at this time, so don't crib if you are working for an MNC now, well that was on a lighter note.

Then came an empire which just looted India in the name of East India Company.

So history is a brilliant subject to read and enjoy, keep rewinding back in time read about the managerial models followed down the time line that would help you to lead a better life, let us all become pilot archaeologists, and start understanding and unearthing unknown historical facts.

When you go back and read history nothing is unfair or fair because that moment is over and what happened was bound to happen and all the forces made that to happen, but there is a take away here, we have not been able to go back in time till now, but we can always learn from history and not repeat those mistakes made.

All the best and have a great weekend.

In Sync.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

Maturity comes when you start making excuses and start making changes.
-Anonymous

There are certain places in this world which always needs workforce and literally works 24*7 it takes lot of courage to be in such jobs and the person who are employed in such places are certain to feel negative about their job at times, as a matter even I work in such a work culture but at the end of the day deep down my heart I feel happy and I get that one step ahead in maturity and understanding the situation.

When we talk about maturity, remember I have written about it earlier but, I would like to write a refresher on this looking it from another end of the room.

It is actually a very important value or component in a person's life.

We know the process of germination, after a farmer  sows the seeds his job is done, what happens next is pure chemical biology, which no technology can beat and this earth has the most advanced technologies built by nature which we can never fully replicate.

Now if we take the example of the germination process, the plant that is born after the seed you planted is already pre-determined like an algorithm it grows as if someone had programmed it to do so.

Similarly a person's nature is predetermined and to certain extent his view towards others, the way they solve issues and their cognitive view of this world.

So are we in sync?

The sync I am talking about is understanding people around you, sometimes I see people complaining about their peers that he will never understand us what is the problem with him and so on.

Whatever position we are Life we should have the skill to read people and understand them.

I see lot of misunderstandings that is happening in families where each person has his own interests and fails to show sympathy and empathy when needed; come one man is called the social animal I think that says it all.

I feel we should all develop this power which is already programmed and stored in our brains that ripens as we grow old and we call it maturity.

we need to understand our world around, and believe me if you first understand your world you will also achieve your goals easily as you are in sync :)

Thanks for your time have a nice day.

Ground-Zero.

Hello readers 

Hope you all are doing great.

Don't ever let someone tell you, you can't do something not even me.
-Chris Gardner.

Another week ends at corporate; to be frank each day is a challenge here that makes me realize how much we are dependent on technology and other paraphernalia.

Sometimes I feel Mr James Cameron's imagination was right when he directed the movie judgement day or Terminator 2 as it is better known by us.

Hmm... So ground zero it is, I first heard this phrase on discovery channel in a documentary about building a space shuttle. It means the actually state or level of progress of the space programme.

The part that amused me was when I heard a scientist saying "ground zero is what I think about my project which is in the basic stage now just above the earth and I need to send it to the moon, rest of it which the public knows is what the PR manager thinks it is". After hearing this I was questioning myself so what the PR claims to be ground zero is actually not the actual truth, but the same time I cannot say that it was lies but I can say it is the way may be it should be reported.

The next I thought that shook me is that are my ground zeros' matching with my current situation in life? And I am frank enough to tell you that it is not all the time. So now if you think that “OK so this guy admitted today that he lies to people" I am sorry I don't lie, but my answers would have differences because of legitimate reason and would be justified.

For instance if you know that one of your relative will not make it and you have another member of your family, who is ill and you know he cannot take such a terrible news, so when he will ask how is that relative's health you cannot say he is about to die, you would have replied, well he is improving.

But there are certain other situations where people assume your ground zero and make statements which are only sweet to hear like when you say you are working in a big firm people think you would are happiest person, but you know the ground reality, which may be matching with their assumptions or it is a sad story where you realized it was mistake joining that job, and you absolutely hate it. 

Yes life challenges all of us with these confusions where your hold yourself in not telling that actual experience of how you feel about. But you know that is actually normal, because everyone has their own prescriptive and you need to leave them to experience themselves and find out the ground reality.

I feel you should explain your actual experience to some people for whom it is helpful, for example you are working for a long time and a final year college going student is your friend so tell him how you feel about your job, you can tell him the truth, and reduce his rough ride in his career to certain extent and you will be contented that you helped someone today and all that years of hard work did help someone. 

We all know the ground-zero of whatever we are doing and the most essential party is when you compare your own ground zero situation with your PR which I compare it to your own brain the answers should always match if they don't it is very unfortunate and shows you’re just cheating yourself.

Hope you enjoyed the discussion.

Thanks for your time have a great day ahead.

The Playlist.

Hi Guys

Good morning, hope you all are doing well.

Life is like a bicycle, to keep your balance you need to keep moving.

-Albert Einstein.

The weather is back to normal after a record breaking rain fall in Bangalore over the past two weeks.

The word “playlist” is familiar to all of us , when I think about this word I feel delight and remember my tiny MP 3 player which my dad  first bought me when I was in college.

To be frank I became an addict for some months, you know... it happens when you get a new gadget and you were the guy who was enjoying with a small radio and suddenly you get this brilliant device which can repeat the songs and also shuffle it, the way you want it to.

Then one day I lost my player, it was the most disappointing day for me, for obvious reasons yes I agree was missing it, my dad gave me a surprise and got me another one  I was on cloud nine and did not sleep that night and mapped all my favorite songs again in my desired order.

Even now I have the same player, though I have my smart phone I still tend to listen in this gizmo because it gives me that personal feel.

Music and movies go hand in hand with our lives from the age we started watching television we would be exposed to music I am especially talking about Indian movies where the choreography department is given more importance or so I read in an magazine some time ago.

I want to compare life to a playlist, this can be an audio playlist or a video playlist you make the choice. I prefer an audio playlist because I love genres of songs mixed  in a single list and all of them in a shuffle mode so the next song would not be predictable. Life is also like a shuffled playlist which is totally unpredictable.

When you listen to a song you will know the mood of the song like a happy one or a mellow, a sad song or purely romantic, when you get up at sunrise your mood is usually neutral and then your brain starts pod-casting the trends of the day depending on your day and how you think that day is going to be, suppose you have a gut feeling your job will be beyond the stipulated hours of working you will be that grim face guy from morning and will be relived at the end of that day, and pull out your phone or radio and listen to some song or watch a movie.

 During exams we the kids of 90s' used to treat our players and radios as a companion.

Considering life as a playlist makes you feel light about your own life you will be more joyous then your now, you will expect the unexpected, because we have this window of say sixty to hundred years where we can do what we desire for some extent and the other half is dictated by your commitments and rule of the land. There is always a personal space for you, it depends on you how you use that time.

We all need our time alone in a day hum a tune, try to write something or start thinking about something beautiful and try to convert that thought into some action.

Playlist are great and personalized I want your lives to be personalized like a playlist where you decide the order of your own songs and genres. Suppose.Suppose you missed to define the correct playlist just redefine the order of the tracks  and check your flavour and select what is that  you like most and arrange it the way that  makes you glad.

Live happy and enjoy life, try to create the best playlist.

Thanks for your time and a happy weekend.

What I learnt from my dog?

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing well.

Be the person whom your dog thinks you are.

-J.W Stephens.

The world is in a paradox mode actually, people are killing each other and coming in groups and attacking nations, when I see these attacks I get only one thought that is: "why can't this world live in peace"? in our short journey why should we always think of causing pain to others, or creating sorrow in a family? People need to think like humans first rather acting worse than beasts.

When I talk about beasts I remember one the phenomenal stories like the Yeti, the enormous snowman whom I watched in the famous animated series ‘The adventures of Tin-tin’ that was the day I realized voice dubbing is a very difficult task after watching some making videos of this beautiful episode titled: ‘Tin-tin in Tibet’ which is about Tin-tin rescuing his friend Chan after he ends up in a plane crash, I wanted to mention this as  Herge the author of the original book, before it was animated  has pictured the kindness of Yeti who actually saves the boy after the air crash.

Beasts as they are called are actually very instinctive and innocent beings.

So now if I think and try to tell you what I learnt from dog? there is actually so much that I have learnt.

For starters I can tell you definitely I learnt what is patience from him, through his never lose hope attitude to get that share of his loaf of bread or a piece of rusk which we usually have a habit of eating in the mornings.

As I told earlier there is more to learn.I seriously felt I need to share these thoughts as they have helped me a lot to move on in life when I was struggling or when I was off the mood and felt rejected in life at that moment just admire your dog for a few minutes and your back.

My dog according to me is almost happy every time I see him,  I  do not have the power to read his thoughts,  but  I have seen him sad when I come back from work and he gives me  that stare: “see you don’t care about me!” But the moment I bring out the walking leash he forgets that sorrow and jumps to life.

We should interpret our lives also in the same way sadness is always temporary phase and I am sure we will be happy soon it is left to you to express happiness when happiness knocks on your door.

My dog is a simpleton, he does not argue with me but when I leave him after his bath without wiping him he starts requesting me to wipe him and allow him to play with his towel with his whimpering tone which makes you feel sorry for you in the beginning but later you realize it was scam.

Even though he whimpered to play with his towel, I understood how to request people and negotiate with them rather than staging a mindless argument.

People say dogs don’t have intelligence they just work on instinct, but I see that instinct as a commitment, which works like a binary code if there is strange noise in the lonely corner of my house “come lets investigate that” is the program in my dogs brain, rather like us humans analyzing the sound and just sleeping it off because we are intellects but,sometimes intellects like us neglect small things and end up in bad shape, from this I understood that , for certain situations we just need to be instinctive in life rather being over intellectual.

The best lesson I have learn from my 11 year old man is  the ever-enthusiasm, towards that simple walk, you wake him up from his  deepest of sleep he is ready there wagging his tail and jumping and ready to run out with me for a quick walk.

He understands our language way too well, that is the divinity I learnt from my dog. There is no need for a person to know language to understand what the other person is trying to say, the tone says it all.

I don’t want to mention faithfulness as a lesson as we all know dog is man’s best friend and also known as one of the most faithful animals in the world, but instead of faithfulness I want to put the word courage which he has and barks against an intruder who is trying to trespass, that gave me the lesson about being bold and fighting for the people whom you love irrespective of the situation.

A dog’s life span is 15 years, all through his life he will lead an innocent, honest and loyal life, how many of us can do that?

So guys can we conclude the so called ‘beasts’ are better than us who lead life with a purpose?

let us start learning from the environment around us and start correlating it with the way we live our lives and try to make it better, if you want to know the meaning of unconditional love, I stand by my statement that there is only being that I know who  can give to you, it’s your dog.

So let us respect divine beings like these and respect all the beings around us, and make this world a better place to live by showing our advancement in the species through our gentleness and maturity.

Thanks a lot for your time, have a nice day ahead.

Disagreement = development?

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

Talk to yourself once in a day, or else you may miss meeting an excellent person in this world.

-Swami Vivekananda.

Heavy rains in Bangalore from the past 3 days reminds me of the 90’s school reopening time when me and my friends jumped in the rain and laughed at children who used umbrellas, time flew away and now we are just upset about the traffic jams caused due to rains, if I compare both my reactions it is actually very funny and weird .The rain made me realise only one truth we are ruled by no one , but nature  that's God's own truth. Whatever we innovate and try to prove we are the most superior species on earth we still fall under the rules of nature.

We live this life by abiding by the rules of nature at the same time we also have designed some axioms to survive in our own communities and society.

OK! If we just look back in time, since how many years are we following these tiny packets containing methods to solve problems or fulfilling your needs? May be from 3-4 centuries we see there is definitely a paradigm shift from how it was and how it is now.

I am sure sometimes we get weird questions, who could contemplate of a solution like a cycle which would work without any fuel other than your own calories? The inventor of bicycle is my all-time role model.

There are many inventors like these who have woken up the world, I see one common objective in all these people that  is, they did not accept how they were living their lives, and wanted to stay alone from the crowd, that is actually the bravest thing one can do.

If you ask why is it such a difficult task to do? My simple explanation would be this: try not doing your favorite thing for few days; like reading your much-loved book or checking your phone or talking to the person or people whom you love the most  that will give you the taste of dissatisfaction and unrest.

To just keep doing what we do is fine and easy but going out of the way is more difficult than we imagine, it is such a delicate feeling that, there are evidences of people parting their ways in life, relationships breaking just because the latter did not agree to the former’s idea, we have perceived many joint ventures in the world breaking up and becoming individual companies.

Standing up to a person and going in contradiction of him in life is a very difficult task, each day we agree with certain happenings around us and we don’t agree with some,  this is decided by your neural networks in the medieval cortex of your brain, the fastest decision center in the world, so can we say that if your medieval cortex is fully developed or a dominant part of our brain it is easy to stand alone in that crowd and say no to the entire crowd present there, no it is a very tough job, because along with your neural network your own will fights against you and tries to make you weak and tired when you want to stand.

Michael Jackson,  whom I consider the greatest creator of pop music of my generation used to sit on a tree in his Multi-billion dollar Never-land ranch , when he was asked in an interview mockingly: is this not odd?  to sit there like a monkey and write your number 1 labels? He smiled and responded after all I am an evolved monkey, and I respect my earlier species from whom we developed to be more intelligent today, that is how you stand by your decision he appeared on the time magazine for that answer by the way.

If monkeys, the early species of homo-sapiens had given up on their survival we would be history like the dinosaurs.There was one among them whom would have stood their and made some innovation that motivated others to create ways to continue living.

We all are alive today only because of the power and determination and survival given by your older species, who determined to just ‘live’ first, that was there basic task to accomplish. Now after that ‘living’ is considered an easy task for most of us we have built this society and live by the man-made laws, but I feel we are always free from the laws until and unless we don’t do anything idiotic and stupid.

The whole world

Let’s take one species: man, and consider the whole world has no differences you know like political, fiscal and socio-economic,  demographic and so on, we all get a spark in our brains and smile in our heart wow Man! we can we can meet so many people, so many new things to learn , fresh inventions and a better world, and you standing up  against someone won’t matter because you both are sharing a common goal that is betterment and we can say you guys are having an discussion rather than an argument.

So next time, when you argue with your boss be happy because you are out of the ordinary and you use your brain rather than punching your time card and do the same thing the next day and feel sorry you took up that job.

Let’s admire all the great thinkers who are OK! to stand alone against a thousand folks who agree, I am basically fan of such people and want to thank them today.

So that is right thing to do respect the feelings of very few people in this world who matter to you and do what your heart says, and yes if you disagree with a person both of you would learn something good at the end of that discussion.

Have a great day guys, thank you for your time.

Stress buster.

Hi readers

Hope all of you are doing well.

Successful people have two things on their lips, 1.Smile and 2.Silence.

-Mark Zukerberg.

What is stress, well that is a simple question to ask. But the answers differ; stress can be described differently in diverse contexts: For a flower brisk wind is a stress but we enjoy it; for you a splash of water is refreshing but for a cat it is the most stressful thing that can happen.

There are countless examples that can be quoted but holistically the meaning of stress remains the same that is feeling dis-comfort, or biologically it is an emergency mode which your nervous system puts you into if it feels threatened, by releasing a range of stress hormones like, adrenaline and cortisol.

We all know what stress actually is and we have experienced it, there is no need to learn it from books because we all know stress since our birth.

When we talk about human stress in particular there are many factors that put us in stressful situations, like death, agony, poverty, work pressure and so on.

The next word that will strike our minds after stress is stress management popularly called as stress busting.

It is nothing but losing your stress, but there are many methods to lose stress, like practising yoga, meditation these are very common and famous.

But, have you heard giving stress and busting it, I know it seems a little rude but this is happening around you as you are reading this! So how can you give you stress and reduce your stress? Let us find out.

The stress busters.

I have mentioned earlier, that there are different type of stress reducing methods, but some people use others as stress busters, to start with a simple example you would recall some time back in your school days, that teacher who was always nice to you shouted on you on a beautiful morning for no reason, all through that day you were just recollecting as to why this happened. The next morning the teacher apologized to you by saying, “sorry my child I was not in my best of moods yesterday” this added to your confusion.

The above example is a classic case of how the stress of one person is just bounced on another just to release it.

Many people do this each day, I feel this is not a good habit; we should start managing our own lives instead of pushing our problems on others which is totally illogical.

For the people who take stress from others hats–off to them as they manage their own stress and also help reducing others stress.

Please stop transferring your load on others just because you can’t take it.

Thanks for your time, have a nice day.

The comedian.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing good.

To give someone piece of your heart, is worth more than all the wealth in this world.

-Michael Jackson.

There is one thing in this world that we all like , that is laughing  the beauty of laughing is that we forget our differences when we laugh and it is the second expression after crying that we all would have expressed I am sure all our parents would have recalled it, for them it was a jubilant moment to see that innocent face chuckling.

All of us follow a mood culture in our tiny stay on this earth, well if you ask me what is mood culture? This is relatively a new term in psychology, and it is defined as the graph that can be plotted by observing a person’s change in his moods in a single day or over a period of time.

We are aware of the fact that frame of mind is playing an important part in our lives, the simple question I would like to ask is, if we are expressionless, this world would not have been like this, it would always be gloomy.

When a whole crowd was serious, there was that one person who laughed loudly despite the “maintain silence” board seeing which others in the crowd felt lighter that is the beauty of humour.

When we wake up in the sunrise the mood we are in is calm and neutral , as you know it is a very natural effect of sleep, unless your yesterday was so bad that you couldn’t sleep over it, that your brain carried it on.

So after your fully awake and ready to go wherever you want to you go, there is this place you will definitely visit and you go to this place each day, are you thinking about that secret place where you hid your best stationary, which you did not want to share it with your sibling! No I was just talking about your bathroom.

It is proved that, this place defines the phrase “lighter moods”. When we think about this place what comes to your mind? At first soap, shower, taps, water and so on but,I am sure even this word will strike you: “Bathroom singing or singing in the shower”.

Of course I proudly agree that I sing in the bathroom at times and I am sure most of you do, and we never care about the listeners.

I think it is just amazing, our brains enter this state of bliss, we sing all our favourite songs and come out happy and again become serious, To be scientific on this , when I did some research on this mindless and hilarious singing, I found that when your alone, your brain reaches this lighter mood where we forget all our problems and turns you into a comedian, where you remember all your happy moments and the result of this remembering of your lighter moments is singing, this also happens during long drives, where you hum along with your car stereo or with your fellow passengers.

Seriously I feel this is just incredible, what a wonderful creation is our brain? It knows how to go easy on you and when to be tough with you.

But you should be above your brain and decide whether you want to be in a lighter mood or always be that grim fellow.

Problems are there for all but jumping out of the box is what is required, we all should laugh our hearts out each day, laughing clubs are not the places I want you to go because it is not an exercise that we laugh in a particular pattern as instructed by someone, it is a reflex action that is triggered, and it has to be that way.

Try to be a comedian to yourself and all the people around you and just check, your problems will vanish in thin air.

Remember how you were caught in class for laughing loudly after few seconds the whole class including your professor burst into laughter.

Remember when you had a great ‘singing session’ in the bath and your family had that glued smile on their face when you came out.

Life is not as hard as we think it is light and gets lighter like a feather, keep your focus on the goal you want to achieve but let smiling be one of your tool to achieve it.

Thanks for your time and have a nice day.

The Refresher.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

Read failure stories,you get some ideas to get success.

-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Life is all about making mistakes and learning from it, this is one of first lessons we had learnt, in our childhood.But  this statement has a very deep meaning.

We all would have made mistakes in childhood, knowingly or unknowingly and it is just considered as an act of innocence.

But looking at the current situation and talking in the present we all commit mistakes on purpose, why is that, what motivates us to do it?

Well initially we can say, desire is the root-cause, but I personally do not agree with that statement, for the simple reason that desires are not bad these desires and ambitions is actually what keeps us going on in life and help us to achieve new goals and builds hopes in us.

So what is “the” or list of factors which motivate us to divert away from not doing mistakes to just getting it wrong each time.

I think the first and foremost reason is that we get too much emotional when we start to do something ,for instance if you’re driving most mistakes happen, your driving is the reflection how you handle your emotional stress, we swear at people on the road as most of the people do not follow traffic rules, and even though we are driving ok we are not happy at others driving without road sense, this is actually a very primitive example to show how we just waste our emotions on silly incidents.

When we have been put in a situation, our minds follow the traditional problem solving framework and majority of us do not think out of box and the total process is engulfed by proper experience and emotions which blocks our thinking ability.

We can think clearly I tell you , it is not at all a difficult task but we have resistance in doing that, we all need to become great listeners, listen to beautiful things around you, understand others emotions respect them, try to think in a logical way, and try to keep sentiments out when you’re trying to think, I assure you if you practise this we can lead a better life. Avoid knee jerk reactions.

For all problems there is and will be a solution and that answer is none other than you, others who care about you can give you some useful suggestions but you are the one who will initiate the process of solving the problem, it is like your sub-conscious initiating a process of healing a wound after you have taken good care of that wound, by guarding it from infection.

We all need refreshers in life , as we seemed to be lost at times,  where we are caught in the web of problems and complexities and you feel your brain is locked, meditation would be a best option which opens up these locks and you would get the answers for your problems automatically.

Knowing what you’re doing mistake but still doing it is not maturity, if you are still doing it,  guess you’re just fooling your own character and eventually will lose it.

I wish all my dear readers success in whatever they wish to achieve, let us think logically, and keep our mind fresh like the dew on roses.

Have a nice day.

The valiants and the frontrunners.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock.

-Thomas Jefferson.

We are born innocent in this world, and pretty much learn everything from our external environment continue learning, throughout our life.

There are certain qualities for which there is no learning required, but it is stamped in our genes from the day you were born, we prevalently call these qualities as nature or charisma of that particular person.

Among those aptitudes I feel being brave and becoming a leader is one of the toughest tasks in life. Well I am not pessimistic here by saying it’s a herculean task, but to be frank I feel that is the reality.

Being Brave.

Bravery has been my all-time amusement about a person, and the reason behind my admiration is, I think many people would have felt this: A brave person is a risk taker and positive motivator, he brings confidence in people around him, so the weaklings who are low in confidence look him up as a hero and as a matter of fact start following him and one day they too become brave.

I always had a question: Is a gender a Criterion to be brave? to be frank this question is haunting me from my middle school when I was first thought about the freedom struggle of India, I would never forget those history lessons, even though I hated history when I was in school, I feel history is one of the best subjects to understand a person’s life.

So when I read about some great freedom fighters like Rani LaxmiBai of Jhansi Rani Channamma of Kittur, I keep wondering certain things like: the maturity level of these people at that time ,it was brilliant , now we all sit in our corporate classrooms and learn about great words like, self-motivation ,positive thinking , stress management and so on , but down the time there were no corporate classrooms! the environment in which they lived was their best teacher , and also want to mention this word called commitment which is frazzled these days and most of us dearth ,I feel these leaders had two hundred per cent commitment towards whatever motives they wanted to achieve.

Finally I have concluded gender has no business to do with bravery , it’s just that brightness which should come from inside , seeing which the people around definitely will understand that ,this person is different from others , because we all can communicate without wires ,that is through our mind which is popularly called as telepathy.

The leaders.

We need great leaders, like we have seen in history, for instance Subhas Chandra Bose was a man who could build his own army to fight the British, is it not the true display of one’s potential? Just think for a while how much determination Mr. Bose would have required to convenience people to join his army Indian National Army ,so this definitely gave me an insight that in our tiny little simple life we can manage things definitely better, and it is not at all a mammoth task as what we think and feel sad about it, JRD Tata the architect of the TATA empire would be so much more productive and positive and would have foreseen his company and worked towards making it the best .A person who wants to be an successful entrepreneur should involve himself in his venture not hundred percent I would say the number should be infinity .

Ask a person who just recovered from a bad accident, and came back from down under and again started leading his normal life; you will understand the true meaning of bravery.

Ask a guy who was stuck in a mine deep down the earth with his co-workers and was rewarded later for helping his team to get out of the death trap; you will understand the true meaning of a strategy and the quality of leadership.

The world moves on, but in this process how selflessly we work towards improving the place you live should be our primary goal in life, which gives birth to great leaders and brave men and women.

Be  brave and also serve people and become leaders.

All the best thanks for your time

Have a great weekend ahead.

The Pal.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings.

-Francois La Rochefoucauld.

There are some people in life whom you consider as the guys who match your frequency, so what do I mean by this word frequency, it means your taste your way of thinking, and your mind which is in-sync with them.

Whenever there is an agreement, there is no argument, a famous phrase used in big discussions we can also extend the thought by saying, where there is agreement there is harmony as well.

When we are too young may be toddlers, we started interacting with people as well as children of the same age, and you liked some in that group and first time in your life you uttered this word ‘Friend’. We say “He is a good friend of mine”.

So who is actually a friend, well for starters we can say he is a person who comforts you when you are in trouble and laughs along with you when you are happy.

Apart from the above thoughts I feel friends even influence you more, than anyone he can motivate you to the summit and make you that person who you always always wanted to be,  that is the  power of friendship. That is the reason being with good friends is most important, we can without say without a doubt the friends you are with add to your whole personality.

The relationship called friend is a very subtle one, now why is that or is it really so delicate. The answer for this is in each friend and his friend in this world, if they build that friend-ship strong, no seas can shake that ship, the reason, when two people are great friends, sometimes this ship is shaken by the tall tides produced by people in the form of intolerance against this friendship.

The need.

There is definitely a need for a good friend, these days because sometimes in our busy lives we get some free time and start thinking about our own lives the way we started it which was way too simple to the current complexity that we are in we would definitely get thoughts about some people who stood there when you most needed help, a person who motivated you in your time of distress, talking to whom you will feel refreshed, and your childhood pal whom you can never forget.

Friend is a very valuable person in everyone’s life the simple reason is that we tend to share the most personal issues with a friend as this relation is a very unique one , we all would have shared some secrets with a friend which we would not even have shared with your family, that is true test of confidence and integrity of friendship , as I told you that this  relationship is a very unique one , because with friendship there comes a brotherhood between those two souls,  a real friend is the one who always understands you no matter , whatever difference of opinion you have with him , also he compromises his happiness for his friend.

 The actual need to have good friends is that they understand you better than anyone, and there is a supportive atmosphere between you and your pal and vice –versa as both of you would have experienced similar hurdles in life.

The world needs the network of good friends and benefactors lets build that rock solid network, which brings about harmony and peace in this beautiful world which is most needed at this point of time.

Thanks for your time, happy weekend.

The Crystal ball.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing well.

Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.

-Jamie Paolinetti

Some movies are truly motivating, and we accept those  movies and implement in life.

There is also something also called as the movie buzz well most of us know what it is, I read some articles on this published in the famous huffington post  and e-magazines like Reddit.com. First of all it was an amazing experience reading those articles, because the writer gave me a new edge and approach towards movies.

The article has described movie buzz as a psychological phenomenon, where your brain enters this state of accepting the movie as your reality, actually the basic concept of a movie is actually the same that you need to accept the movie as an alternative option or an approach towards life and it should create a fantasy in the mind of the viewer and make him feel awesome.

They call it the 'self-hypnotism' where you go yourself into a hypnotic trance and will suddenly forget all your pains and problems in life, at least for a day after you have watched that movie.

Why can't we always be self-motivated and be in  the same hypnotic Trance by accepting our problems and moving on.

This whole life has a beginning a upper peak projection and gradually descends. As we progress in life both in our career and age, we will see life becomes complicated which is very much normal.

I  actually feel we make the mistake of using this word complicated , because actually it is not complicated these are just situations which we just have to deal with , we all feel sick about it and get demotivated , and we always need some boosters to get us going again.

But if you imagine a crystal ball and an old man who creates an illusion in your brain who says you will have a great future ahead don't you worry, and we will definitely would believe him for a long time and you will worship because your problems get resolved, the actual reason is that there is a healing power inside you which helped you smoothen that problem and get over it , the old man just initiated the process of healing.

So why can’t you believe in yourself first, rather in believing crystal balls.

Let’s say we can do it, in your subconscious instead of saying we can’t, and see the miracle .

Thank s for your time has a great weekend ahead.

The oldest rules of the world.

Hello readers

Hope you had a good week.

My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.
-Dalai Lama.

The world is like a clock it,  has never stopped ticking, and from time to time the clocks have changed in their colour design and style, which I compare it to the demography, the generational change and the cultural change.

But the clock will always have three things in common the hands of the clock, may be the colours of the hands may change.

I want to compare these hands to three concepts one the religion, faith and belief.

First let us start with religion what is it ?and why is it such a huge factor in this world that everyone treats it as a sensitive issue.

During the pre-historic time, when this term called religion was still in its infant stage, some smart people of that time, started thinking they needed some controls and rules to be implemented to keep the building populations, a meaning, a direction to move on and think in that direction, thus emerged the religions.

I have written this blog based on an idea given by my cousin, who wanted me explain the concept of religion and self-discipline, indeed this topic needs to be discussed.

We see even in this modern times, there are people who follow religion with at-most seriousness and there are people who totally believe logic and do not accept the concept.

I want look at this topic as the logical group does, but I want to communicate the correct logic.

The Inter-relation.

When we say religion, next comes the faith and belief, when we follow a religion we would definitely have a faith that we would follow and we develop our own beliefs on certain aspects of life.

Religion from my point of view are a set of rules that are set-up in sync and inter-linked with concept of the higher force which we call as God.

I am being very scientific about this and admire the greatness and simplicity of the ancient people, who were actually more matured and refined than the “so called modern man”.

The people who started directing the people to follow this new concept of those times had some simple motives in mind that is a more disciplined society, a better way of managing people according to their skills and also sounding an alert  their sub-conscious when they fell for some temptations which was not right.

I think this the only way it has worked out for man, I am reading a book on sub-conscious which says , we can be programmed , by thinking about the right things in the objective brain that is the conscious brain you think and the subjective brain, which is the subconscious which brings these thoughts into action .

Religion is that tool which helps you think in that set of predefined rules which help generate good thoughts in your sub conscious that makes you a self-disciplined individual, automatically and helps you learn a life of kindness, mutual respect to the world, and keeps your levels of ego within the required level.

Yes religion was a pure concept, created for a positive outcome, as times passed it was adulterated by some forces, now it is a bit contaminated by adulterants like, superstitions and blind beliefs, but as the generations changed these are bound to change and certain amount of adulteration is normal, but if we look at it cognitively, it is a brilliant concept that has helped mankind survive till today.

Follow religion of our choice with the right spirit and logic which will make you self-disciplined and also make this world a better place to live.

Thanks for your time have a great weekend ahead.

The wounds.

Hello readers

Hope you are doing great.

I find that harder I work the more luck I seem to have.

Thomas Jefferson.

Life is all about getting hurt and recovering, which is actually the gift presented to us by nature.

Nature has designed this system of life in such a way that, it is a constant process of healing. I remember my biology teacher once said, a life when it is born tries to its maximum effort to live, even if you as a person do not like to live!

She quoted a small example of a lungs of  a baby :The lungs of a baby is not developed till the baby becomes an year old, the simple reason is that before the baby was even born, it was in an environment in the womb of its mother, where it practically lives like a fish swimming in a small pond.

After the 4th month of Pregnancy the embryo starts breathing in the womb, but the lungs are designed to inhale liquid oxygen .

In this manner the baby does not suffocate in the womb as the lungs are fully not open.

I had watched an old documentary produced by the British broadcasting company (BBC) called the human body where scientists show babies swimming in pools, it was very amazing to see the greatness of evolution.

  

Healing in the same way is a brilliant process we undergo pain, and wounds which is also a process of healing.

But I see many people suffering these days, not because of the physical wounds, but due to the mental wounds.

The mental wounds are not caused due to any accidents or stones on the road but due to take people who become stones and thorns in life due to their sadistic attitude of hurting others for silly reasons.

We can easily overcome this, by just thinking about our own mighty bodies which fights against forces of nature just to keep you alive.

Now if we think about these mental wounds they will look like dust which can be wiped off. All is with us whether consider them as dust or mighty boulders.

Let us all help the body to heal all the wounds and again run in the track of life.

Thanks for your time have a great weekend.