The smile.

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing great.

True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.

 - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

They say that soldiers are very tough people who are the least emotional people in the world. But has anybody realized the sacrifices he is ready for, yes his life is what he is ready to sacrifice and he is the most emotional person in the world because he takes all the risks in this world for the sake of his mother land, and I think that is the true test of a person’s emotional quotient.

So emotions, do they play such an important role in our lives, the answer is definitely an yes, you know man is called the most advanced species  in this world only because of his ability to think and express feelings, I want to narrate a small story today which will help us understanding  the importance of emotions in our life.

Once upon time in India there lived a man called Mr.Smiles even though his name was smiles the irony was that he never smiled and he was the biggest moan of his time.

Many happy people ground him always tried to make him feel happy or lure him to laugh at the best jokes possible but were not successful.

OK…. about Mr. Smiles well he was not a poor man at all he had a large estate and a loving family he was well educated as well, but still he could not smile. The secret behind his miserable face could not be cracked by almost all the people around him.

His family were always unhappy that, He was the only person who was not happy with anything. Fed up with his behavior his wife met their family doctor and asked him if her husband was suffering from any psychological disease or was he a lunatic.

The doctor replied that he was fine both psychologically and physically, but he is still trying to figure out the reason behind his sadness. The doctor thought of a solution as he too felt hurt seeing the anxiety on the face of Smiles wife.

So the next day he sent a press reporting team to meet Smiles wife, at the same time he had instructed his wife about what to do next. So this is what happened after they met each other.

Wife asked the press team to come inside and called Smiles and told this interview would be published in this week’s issue of a an eminent magazine, Smiles was as usual in his sadistic mode, Then one of the journalist asked Smiles “Sir we would like you to take an interview with you today” smiles was surprised and answered in a polite way “certainly can we start now?” so the interview started.

Interviewer asked some general questions like how does he spend his day, his eating habits, his likes and dislikes and so on, and the interview went on well.

When it was about to end, Smiles was asked the most awaited question by his family. “Why are you dull and gloomy always”?

Smiles was confused and surprised to hear to this question and replied, “ is it so?, I don’t think so from my childhood I have been like this and till this day no one asked me this!

So the interview asked him “ Dear sir people are very much dejected with you and have tried all possible ways to make you feel happy and make you smile but that never happened, so again I am repeating the question why are you not happy?”

Smiles told that he never felt that he has to smile as he knew that this life is a cycle, when we peddle up it is birth and when we peddle down it is death why should I be in this illusion of just feeling happy for the misery I am going to suffer on the day on this earth, so I have prepared myself for my death since my birth.

The reporter was furious and replied “I never knew that you were such a big a fool! In that case why are you living and wasting the resources of the earth if you know that you are going to die one day let that day come today, and suddenly tried to strangle Smiles who cried for help, at that moment the interviewer stopped and asked Mr. Smiles “did you realize how much you love yourself? If you love yourself so much why you don’t show it on your face. Hearing this for the first time in his life Mr Smiles, smiled and was amazed by the feeling for him it was like coming out of a dark tunnel.

There are many Mr.Smiles around us who don’t know how to react with people who act simple grumpy with everyone and crying inside for wired reasons and assumptions which they are only not sure about actually that is illusion.

What is the point of acting indifferent with everyone around you? Each day is very precious we have to aim to be happy and make people happy around us, that is the only to make your soul happy and we consider our souk as God himself, so let us make that change and be happy and make your family and friends happy, try to keep rapport with all the people you know and the least fights possible.

All the best in this effort and have a great weekend.