Sunday 3 September 2017

Fear for nothing?

Hi Readers

Hope all of you are fine.

When was the last time you got scared and then took time to analyse why you got into that loop of fear and panic?

I am sure you would remember when you had felt frightened definitely you would not have taken time to analyse the reason behind it.

Let us discuss on this a bit today because in this era of people ending their lives for utter stupidity like some utterly obnoxious WhatsApp group called "blue whale" I feel where are driving our gen next? is this life or some social networking robot farm?

You know living itself is an activity and just to live have we realized someone is working from within to make you live, what do I mean by living? I mean it takes a lot of efforts just to be here now and able to read this passage because there are places in the world, even a moment away can just be death.

Talking about fear, do you think it is an illusion? if you are thinking so you are wrong even though Lau Tzu who is the father of Taoism in China said I quote: " There is no greater illusion in this world than fear!" I would not completely agree because it is no illusion as it is actually proved now as both a biological and psychological phenomenon of how your body and mind respond to certain stimuli.

Now the stimuli can a be a nightmare or a sudden blast of your car tyre, so as I told you getting scared, is not unnatural.

But what is not good for oneself is that to have a fear psychosis problem I see so many of my peers, friends, family and benefactors  getting scared for nothing, I recently came across a book called  “ The fear book" by Cheri Huber where the author mentions about fear used an escape tool by our own brain and has lead to laziness of millions and developing the inability to carry on the even the simplest of  daily tasks , I agree this is just a perspective but definitely  it is a food for thought and a perspective to think alternatively and not get scared without logical reasons.

I remember in one the episodes of the much famed tonight show  Bill Maher had said "half our lives are wasted in fear and the other half in repentance" I feel he is right.

You know fear works in both ways it sometimes turns out to be a good for example you scold a child who has a habit of biting nails so that he will quit that bad habit.

So now how can fear turn to be bad, imagine you were a very active person in life and suddenly due to some incident you are grounded and end up spending more time at home than going out like you used to always? say for some months.

But then after that phase, is over you would get the same leisure time you got before to go out and explore and do your business or whatever you intended to do,this is the  turning point,  some people take it in the right spirit and will do what has to be done and be their  own self.

A scientific perspective explaining fear psychosis.

But, unfortunately, there are people who end up in the loop of feeling scared for nothing and imagine reasons like: I have become old, there is lot time lapse and the outside environment has changed to what I have seen and what it is now!  but still there are some people who still go out but sometimes it may so happen that may be a small accident or an injury may occur which is purely coincidental and I feel in these times it is common, but that person considers it  as a big blow to his mind will end not stepping out again or will begrudge and postpone when there is an opportunity.

Our body is actually a complicated biomechanical machine which has the most advanced controls in the world and the controller is you and who are you ? its your soul which is living inside you till you breathe and it goes to another body after you stop breathing and your soul is limited to your body, so suppose that soul enters a dog's body it is limited to what a dog can do , if it enters a  human body that soul is  supposed to be in the most superior and intellectual body available in this world, so how is that fear has a place where there are no limits to what you can achieve in all the good ways.

So stop feeling skirmish within yourself and think about a goal and achieve it and never become a machine that doesn’t move or work always be on your toes and never work in a semi-switched on mode minus the will power. Let the will power beacon glow like never before so bright that the mal-function lights like fear and panic do not get a chance to glow.

Be brave until the end, just look around and look at the boarders I am sure you will get some motivation. Choose what you want you to become and you will be that I assure you, only thing matters is your focus. 

The beauty about fear is that when you run to it,  it runs away.

-Robin Sharma

Until next week bye.

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