Depression :A point of no return?

Hello readers

A very happy Christmas to one and all, and wishing you a great year ahead.

There is a joy in this month of december for many reasons, its a season of, families coming together to celebrate, children get gifts, and everyone enjoys the moment and the festive mood.

However, even when the world is enjoying, there are some poor souls, who are sad and, depressed.For them the words, like happiness,joy, smile are just words, and even their meanings do not matter.

But we have to understand, that they too will have a,genuine reasons to be sad, because there can be a fake laugh, but its unlikely to be depressed for fun.

The are times where I am also depressed, and get these type of questions in mind such as why was I born? Why is God cruel to me? and so on.

We are humans and yes I agree we do have limitations but, there should be a limit for these limitations.

Suppose I take an instance,a student failing in an exam, according to psychology, there are three types of responses that can be expected by the child,the first one would be, being depressed the second will be, diversion and the last one will be showing agression.

In an old regional movie which, I had watched down the time line this example was shown where, a child who was scolded by his dad, runs away from his house, and becomes a helper in a hospital for disabled children.So the kid used diversion and agression as a route to evade from his depression.

So these basic three reactions, are expected by  doctors when we are depressed.

I must congratulate, the people who, showed aggression, and diversion, when they were depressed, as they know lead there life, with the right attitude to deal with their problems and not feel destroyed for what happened.

Also the people who diverted their minds,who have a good motive towards solving their issues and move on in life.

But people who felt depressed,will never come out the well of sadness and demotivation,and always will be people who don't know the meaning of happiness.

Always be a worrier in your mind, and fight each moment, and face every problem strongly, and if you keep doing this, you will never go to that non-productive, static state called depression.
Martin Luther King Jr said long back "stop cribbing, start living "so that would be my message.

Thanks for your time and happy holidays.

IT happens?!

Hi readers

So we are moving towards the last week of this year,each year ends, leaving some traces behind it.lets check what's the next year has in store for us! 2015 here we come. 

So moving on with my topic what does IT mean? are you thinking,is it information technology, or the numerous acronyms,in various fields, no this is a acronym from my dictionary of life which stands for "Incident Test".

What is incident test? let me define it for you, the most simple definition is" a single day in your life."

Seems very simple isn't?actually to be frank its actually simple the reason is,every individual has a schedule in leading his life, day in and day out, and hence you feel come on what big deal, you never know when the sun rised and set, it went just like a train, which reaches its destination on time.

But this wont explain my point about IT, because there are only few people in the  world who are truely blessed, who lead a life which, is totally filled with joy and happiness.

Other than these blessed ones, the majority are constantly tested by new incidents that happen in everyones life, this can be the smallest incident in the world like for instance: you forgot to take your phone to your work place or some-other place  or something so huge that you spine trembled due to the  shock and trauma you underwent because of those few hours.

In all these incidents there is one, universal truth and reality,I am sure atleast one of you reading this, would have guessed it, but let me tell you, these 3 words which are :Surprise, panic,and stress will hit your brain,the moment IT happens.

My friends this is where you should understand, that you have been tested for good, tested to understand your level of patience, your maturity,and finally it brings out your charcter which sometimes may surprise you!

To conclude be prepared for IT which is not a one time stress interview,where you were tested for an hour, there is no time day schedule as to when the forces of nature and the almighty God wants to give you a class, test or who knows,give you the most easiest question, but wants you to answer it without words!?

Lets think about this and pass all the ITs' and be successful in life.

Many thanks for your time and patience have a great weekend, lets enjoy the last week of this year,and pray for world peace.

The world within a world.

Hello readers
Hope your doing great, I am fine, let me start by giving you a fact which is :we have a neural network in our body which is  more bigger than the whole universe!

Let me start with today's topic, so what is a world Within a world? many of you might be thinking, am I talking about reality and illusion? No actually I am not, I am talking about two types of worlds in this moment in which we are living now.

Definitely this concept is true and it is not surprising, as all of you would have experienced this,and may be experiencing it right now?!

How strange, you may ask me, how can I say? that you would have experienced it before, let me tell you I can prove it to you.

A simple instance would be, you at work.Each morning when you leave to work a new world begins, when your car door slams, and you switch on the radio,and start driving , your brain starts projecting thoughts about the day, the day here means only your professional day!? or simply we can call it your work.

In the above example we can see, the change in your world before you got into the car and started to office,  just moments before that, when waved to your mother, and said good bye,the thoughts were still not initiated,but they started popping up ,without your consent when you started driving?

The world what I am talking about, need not to be another planet with new species of animals or aliens, it's about our level of involvement in a particular task or a place or a thing, that makes us forget our present.

It is just like when we were small, a trip to a science museum would make us feel that we were walking, on moon?or you were an inventor?!

The crux of the matter is, all these worlds what I am talking about is, created and presented to you, by the most amazing, device in the world, our brain, that is what makes us feel about people, places,thingsand other beings in its own way, and we should understand, that beyond certain point, it's beyond our reach to control the world it creates.

Let's understand from now on when, you learn something each day, or if you go to a new place,your brain just created a world.

Let's create more worlds, and combine all those worlds into one big globe of knowledge.

Thanks for your time have a great weekend.

The Memory Book.

Hi there
Hope your week went fine, mine just skipped all the days, and here we have friday!

Today I want to talk about memory books,do we seriously have something called as a memory book? When I was small I used to play with these picture books at my school library.

These books used to have pictures of, animals, vehicles, great people and so on, and at the end of the book we used to get a blank page where we could fill the names of the pictures we have seen.

When I was small, for that matter when we were small, we were given this type assignments and we enjoyed doing it.

Now when we look back at that time, it makes us feel happy and smiling how simple our lives were, and all the joy which we enjoyed.

So, is there any use of that fun activity we used to do, I think its yes because, those books at the first place,thought the concept to memory perception and and memory recall, the greatest concept which psychologists say our brain is gifted with.

Its been so many days since all these puddles of happiness which we call childhood, has passed, but still why do we love talking about it and sharing it with your childhood friend?.

The answer is simple, we lived those moments, without knowing these 3 words the first one would be responsibility, the second one would be seriousness and the last one would be thinking.

Why I say thinking is that, we hardly thought, of how people around us felt the way we behaved and made fool of ourselves.

At the end I want to say that childhood was a golden time in our life, we are so called adults today, but the brain which rules you, likes childhood and still works in the same pattern of thinking and the habits you had practiced when you were a kid for solving some problems.

Relish your memory book, today and get lost in those happy moments you enjoyed and thank your parents for, tolerating us,and fulfilling our wishes, I bow to their patience.

Have a great weekend and Thanks for your time.

The Brain Games.

Hello my dear readers

So it's Friday, to be frank with all of you I have no idea how this week passed was just thinking "is it already Friday "?  this morning, so the thought for today would be, what my teacher used to say many years ago! Which is "you can buy anything under the sun, but time, so use your time in the proper direction "I would never forget that.

Moving on with today's topic if your guessing that, is it about a review on the famous tv show which is aired on national geographic channel because the name seems so obvious your right, I got the previlage to write,reviewers for them?!

I was just joking there, this is the most common trick, and I got you, actually not you, your brain the moment you read the last paragraph, you were like, wow you mean this guy got chance from natgeo? not bad for him!

So what just happened was that the neurons responsible for that "wow" feeling got activated, and expressed emotions which were so motivating, that you smiled at this page.

Again the whole episode was a game, which was only started by me, but actually played by your brain.

Our brain has this awesome predicting power, which is actually, a survival technique according to science, and it is a way to make us feel that  everything is normal.

Our feelings are based on how the brain reacts, this reaction is based on 2 things,your Knowledge on what you saw, and your genes?

It is actually true that some part of the feelings and the way we react and our expressions are linked to our parents!

In the beginning of the blog when I surprised  you at first you fell for it, but now without  your Knowledge you are being a little relaxed on reading this as you know, that it was a joke, they call this in science as the ' after surprised effect' you can Google about it,very interesting to read.

Our day to day life is all about this effect, starting from your shock of getting up late and running to catch the 8 am bus, and again,when you slept and realised "oh what am exciting day it was, how could I manage everything so well?

So continue to get surprised, each day because, that is the path for new learning happy weekend. Thanks for your time.

The Dimensional World.

Hello readers 

Hope your doing great,here comes the weekend,time is just passing like leaves falling from a tree,let me start with a thought:"The person who accepts his mistakes ,and learns to forgive his enemies will be the most successful person in the world."

Getting on with my topic for the day,basically we all know that dimensions do exist ,science says we are living in a three dimensional world,which we all do feel and agree with ,and there are various theory like the string theory ,which says they are multiple or infinite dimensions,which occurred due to a series repels after the big bang, that is also being accepted  for a certain extent and still is been further researched by scientists.

But the dimensional world I want to talk about is the "changing dimension"! well what is this new concept  of changing dimensions,are you thinking ,how can X-axis become Y-axis?,your pretty much right ,but not completely right.

The 'Changing Dimension' will leave you so surprised that you will change your way of thinking and taking this biggest activity called  life! 

Before I confuse you further let me give you an example,just put yourself in this situation:You have just left to work ,and the day is according to you  very critical,with lot of meetings,which will probably squeeze you to be the top-performer of the year!when all is going well ,you suddenly receive a call from your boss,to quit that meeting as your assistance is required in resolving some other issue,I think now your catching my drift of how? this dimension changed! from a very exciting meeting to a dull meeting with your boss?

The point is we may be thinking  these are just situations,not something to do with the dimensions or science,but if you,give it a deep thought ,you will find that the happiness you enjoyed,those brief moments inside that big conference room,feeling that you may get that higher position,suddenly lit lights inside your mind,and you experienced that feeling that you and only you an recollect,that is what I call ,the new dimension of your own happiness.

Similarly they are other situations ,where a normal day ends up into a tragic incident that will change your future forever,in this instance,all those lights in your mind switch off and there is this dry,dark,place which is  nothing but your own negative thoughts,this is also a dimension in which your living and suffering with it,the dimension of agony.

We as human beings do not live on instincts we live,in the most advanced social environment of all times ,so just think about this now?how many dimensions do we change each moment we live!? you go inside a dimension while talking to a

friend,watching a movie,chatting with your brother who lives abroad,and the next moment your back where you are and laugh yourself silly?

The person who can live in all dimensions that keep challenging him day-in and day -out and swim out of it will be the best person god has created.

Thanks for your time see you again next week,thanks to all my readers who have helped me reach 900 views, you have been the sole motivators to expand my thoughts each week.

The Stored Secrets.

Hi readers,
Great to be back,happy,Ok before I start my topic today, there are many people, who always say, I have my moments,  please give me some time.

So what is the actual meaning of this phrase?

First of all what are these moments? these people are taking about are they happy momenta or sad? Well the answer I would give is, "well my dear Sir I do not know, I just enjoyed the moments as they came, irrespective of their happiness or, whatever was in store for me!"

I think some of you may think that my answer was rude, but sorry to disagree with you, it is the truth,I have heard many people talk about future, they say that the future of any individual is what, they become, wish to become, on the contrary there are another batch of people who say, the future is uncertain!

Who is right? If you ask me I would reply they both are right,because the first statement is valid, for those young lads who are in the peak of their careers, schooling, collectively called as education, and the latter holds, good for the, brave people, like a soldiers and farmers who always plays a game of fate, with their lives? But it also holds good for common people like you and me.

The moment we were born, we started our journey, whose end is for sure, some day, but it is uncertain.

Can you make your future, predictable that you can be more smarter than a fortune genie? I don't believe in them,but for those who do believe they can try this and see if the results match.

But whatever the fortune tellers say, and what happens after that is merely a coincidence, except for some rare cases.

When we started this journey called, initially you were told, which road to travel,which lane to turn, eventually you got the ability to decide on your own, and started travelling, let me stop there,Mark that day where you started, hunting for your wants and desires all by yourself that decides your future.

These are stored secrets which unfold, like the levels which progress in a game as you advance each stage towards the end of that game.

At the end of each level we may have to face a huge villan, who is difficult to defeat,if we compare it to life it may be a bad habit you learnt, a bad friend because of whom you were highlighted for the wrong reasons and so on.

There are also situations of anti -climax where good people end up in drains, there loved ones, suddenly collapse due to a disease, and his poor son on his happiest day is just stumped.Is like that unfair level in that game where your enemy is just winning in an unfair way! that is the so called famous term called "luck"!

So this is how my dear friends this greatest program called life works, let's get used to it and win that game once for all.

All the best to all of you have a great day ahead.

The Great Minds.

Hello readers

Hope your doing good, it's Saturday again the only 2 days where we the corporate junkies can relax a bit and have some personal time! Let me start with a thought.
              simplicity is not so simple
-charlie Chaplin
          
              Moving on, I wanted to talk about some people and some organizations which have always amazed me and try to understand the energy and spark that keeps them going on achieving their goals by facing all the issues and challenges.

                 If a group of people, work together in coordination to each other with a specific goal in mind, it becomes an organization of people.
                
               some history about the concept of how this type of systems emerged,the best known natural organization in the world even today is the ant colony!

               organisations emerge for a common cause which was seen as important by the founders who built it!
   
                 Lets talk about few founders, if we take the car industry we first remember sir Henary Ford, whose cars are still one of the best.

               when we talk about one the earliest inventions of vehicles,we should remember the great Macmillan, who created the first bicycle, which is now the most eco-friendly vehicle.

               Another important invention was the light bulb by Sir Thomas Edison, well the list is endless.
            
               One common truth is that we need to catch is, these inventors were simple men like you and me, and if you read about their life, they were less fortunate than us, and sulked in poverty and other problems.

                But there was a spark that kept them going, what we, the current generation lack is this spark.It is the spark of self confidence,self motivation, the urge to achieve, risk taking ability, and being selfless.
 
                 To develop this spark there is only one person who can help you that's you?! Surprised? Please don't be unless you have a clear motive,and start doing something from scratch, you cannot become an inventor.

            Now to the part that always leaves me wondering, and these are facts,
all inventions, are considered and have been used by man in one way or the other, the world survives on inventions which enable the flow of new ideas.

             The organisations are also brilliant, and are equally important,
the makers of this huge goal-oriented        firms are to be saluted, as they have generated jobs,to so many people who work in there.

              To conclude, let's all aim to create one new thing each day, rather than just stick to our books,and learn nothing at the end, because our creativity determines, the survival of this eco-system.who knows one day we make become the founder of a great organization or a great inventor, let's keep trying from today.

                Thanks for your time, a very good morning to all,enjoy your day.
    
          
     

The Chemical Circles.

Hello readers
           hope you guys are doing great.So the thought for today will be, salvation lies within,it is taken from the bible, but I have taken this from my all time favourite movie sweshank redemption.

               This morning I was remembering my chemistry classes, the atomic structure of all chemicals, my exciting days in the lab and so on.
               
               So the concept that I always relished to study, was about the atoms, the orbital theory, how they revolve around the nucleus,the attractive forces, and the repulsive forces and so on.

              What amazes me about this topic is that, the nature of revolving around a central object, holds good from the atomic level, to the planets which revolve around the sun! Whatever research has been done, about this, yet it is still unclear why this happens.
            
             Here comes the kicker,the same principle also holds good in animals, apes and humans, we keep revolving in circles,the nucleus will be our parents or guardians or some great people, who helped you out, and our friends ofcourse, we get attracted to some people and repel to some, bond with each, other we act as a catalyst,so do we all follow the already formed laws of nature?       
               Its was quoted in the bagavatgita the most holy scripture of hindus, that everything is scripted by me (lord Krishna) you (Arjuna) are just a means or an instrument, who performs the task.
   
          So this blog is changing pitches from Chemistry, to astronomy to mythology and family? don't feel that  am not clear, on the point that I want to make, I am very much sure about what I want to convey, it is a simple awarness.

             The awarness is that this world is not live  as we think it is this mammoth recorded movie which is playing without a pause, there is this giant script whose end is definitely not in our time lines, which works same for all, no superiority or inferiority,only a small amount of tuning, and alteration,which people called life, that helps in following the law of nature better!
    
           To conclude, we must all stop the acting foolish, about  being superior, and inferior, respect your peers,and all other beings on this mother earth, and always remember, what makes you angry can make, the next person angry,when you do it him, live happy and with science in mind.
          
           thanks for your time will be back next week have a great weekend.

             

Discover Yourself

Hello readers
Hope all are doing fine.

The unexamined life is not worth living.
SOCRATES

After that thought, let me move on with the topic,well the first view of it, will make you feel is it a tag line for an ad?

       come on that is not the case, though I have studied marketing, this is not the place to use my skill, this is purely about, you,me basically every person in this world.

          let me tell you a short story, there was a small kid, who was born in a very wealthy family,so he was treated very well by his parents, and ofcourse, his house was always bumbling, with servants,and benifactors,so the boy's desire,was an order and was fulfilled within no time.

              But one day a disaster struck, and the whole village where they were living, was dismantled by an earth quake,the boy's house was destroyed and he lost his parents in this confusion, the boy who was now a man, early in his twenties, was just shocked, and first time in his life felt helpless.
               
               Months after that sad day, this man made an attempt, to think, that was the first time in his life he thought about something, intensly,he thought "why should I be sad all the time like this, if I compare my self with all those poor people who were buried alive, in front of their kids, am I not fortunate? who still has a place to stay? 
      
                So this man from that day, started to think, about each problem, he faced, and became successful also a famous problem solver, to all the people who approached him.

                I think that's all what life is about, we need to understand, our own brain, before you go and solve others problems, it should not take us a violent storm to teach us this lesson of life, as we mature, physically, it should happen mentally too in the same pace.

              The day each and every man discovers and understands his own mind, he will become free from the cage of false desires, and confusion that he faces every day,and moves in only direction  that is the direction of success.

                Thanks for your time have a great weekend.
             

The Wormhole.

Hello my dear friends
"Always do not expect stars to reach you, let me see, you give a try to reach them."
                                (late)  Kalpana Chawla.
Yes she truly was a great woman.
             so moving on, I am sure many of you would have heard the phrase The wormhole, the hornet's nest and so on, let's not go to the true meaning of both the phrases,you certainly know that, these are places, if you enter it is very difficult to escape.
             Just a heads up, the worm hole is a hypothetical connection between time and space! Which is supposed to make time travel possible? is that possible,that day  will be the most exciting day of my life.
            At the same time we should be aware that the place travel may be so amazing that you may not live in your current world and endup living in that alternative reality?!we have seen many movies based on this concept why can't it be possible? Or is it already in action?and we are not aware of it?
               Actually I have to admit sadly it already exists in this world,only for the wrong reasons, we are taking about the chemicals that take us to another world which are called drugs.
             It is fact that atleast 3%of the world population are becoming the slaves of these narcotics,that is seriously an
alarming number,and people are just washing away their life down a toilet seat!       
             Now the basic question which arises why do people get addicted to illusions,to my best knowledge what I know, many people who have been addicted say that, drugs give me that push I need, I asked him is it motivation or feeling relaxed, they say that, in a way ,u can do whatever you want to do in life?

          come on you great lads what's the use of doing it in an illusion? can you not do and achieve whatever you wantedq in reality and stop this nonsense of taking drugs which are highly toxic?
          My appeal to all live in the present, just stop looking back, always hope for a better day and be useful to others as well as yourself, you got this one chance,to live your life as  why don't you make most of it? Hope you spread this to the people, who have these  sad and ugly habits and like travelling into a wromhole which does not exist.
           Thanks for your time have a great weekend.
    

                                  

A Personal Blog.

Hi readers
Happy friday or so goes the song on Fridays at work well,want to share some quick messages with you which I learnt in this week.
             The first thing would be what Mahatma Gandhi said, that is be self -sufficient in life, though I have some  issues with his principles, I follow this.
           Second on the list would be smile as much as you can every day, because it motivates you as well and also the people around you.
             Have deep knowledge in what ever your doing in life, because, generic knowledge does not take us anywhere, and the deep knowledge, will help you solve problems and also we get satisfaction in what we are doing.
                 A person who can make jokes about himself has won the battle with the greatest enemy Mr ego.
            Have a forgiving attitude, which I have learned  from dogs who treat you the same way, each day you treat him well or not, he treats you the same till he dies, just with the hope, that you will change your attitude and take him for his walk every day,thats forgiveness and hope.
            People who make others laugh are mostly struggling with problems in life, and they will forget that by sharing happiness, that is called turning the worst situation into the best.
             finally I want to conclude by saying act according to the situation you live and, never worry about the future just live in the present and move on.
           Thanks for your time,see you again next week.

The Illusion Paradox.

Hello readers
Hope all are doing well, what a week it was with two great leaders, sharing their views in a single editorial, hats off to both President Obama and Prime Minister Narendra Modi,who have shared their views on the various issues and have tried to arrive  solutions for them,I am very privileged to be living amoung these great leaders.
             So my topic of the day talks about the basic question scientists have been arguing, about the terms like, string theory, the multi -dimension theory, these theories  will bring a spark in your mind and, keep yourself staring at yourself!about questions like,are there copies of me living in another dimension? Is there another planet with life,who are far more older than our.civilization?
             But what does this have to do anything with an illusion paradox? let me tell you I am not talking something which not related to it here, the basis of this paradox,are very much related to these theories.
            We humans no doubt are the so called 'superior species' in the universe which I don't agree upon for many reasons, but still we can atleast agree that there are species which atleast live, more than we do, like the turtle which we are aware of.
           As we are the superior, blessed and brainy ones,we do good things and bad things to the society around which, includes plants and animals that we take care of and also them for our selfish gain, the reason I say this is,its about time that we all should get a heads up that there is a reality which can spill out in any part of a person's life, it can hit him or her so point blank that, their brain are left stumped for quite some time, just to process what has happened, and just stunned, and feel the sense of awakening, that your out of illusion.
             For instance a person who was at his peek of his career, as a merchant falls into to the cage of fate and loses everything, and is out -casted by his family and hunts for a job the next morning with absolutely nothing in his pocket?
            Or a famous bureaucrat who slept in a luxurious apartment the previous evening but, woke up with a arrest warrent the next morning at his door and sleeping in a prison,that night.
               Just imagine what would be the impact on their minds, what a shock, their brain takes and and still tries to keep them composed,except for some cases where we have seen people dieing after seeing and hearing, news headers about them, which they cannot handle it and die!
               Let me tell you my dear friends I am not being pessimistic here, but the force around us which people call as God performs reality checks on people randomly and bring us out of that illusion,in  which we were living, the day to day life, the celebrations, the feasts,and festivals the joy of living, and yet we crib about our life.
              But once we are out of the illusion paradox, all the days of the week just keeps us stumped and when the world rejoices a feast, it doesn't even matter to you, as now you are aware, that what you are current living with the pain, the agony and your determination to come out that bad event,is what is actually called life!
              Always convert all your illusions into reality, and be prepared to come out of that, and face the heat.
              Thanks for your time will be back next week take care.

Leadership Matters.

Hello readers
Here comes yet another friday, this time a rainy one, as there goes a saying, when nature decides, it is a firm decision, no one can even attempt to change it.
             Well the talk for today is one my favourites, as you know it is about leadership, but there is a little change, why I say change is, the reason is simple, it will not explain the fundas of leadership, here we talk about the impact on leadership on all of us today.
               Let us start with the basic question : who is a leader? We can come up with many answers! for this question We can say, he is a person who lead a group, by keeping a goal in mind, and he will walk towards that goal,by facing all the challenges in the attempt to achieve that.
          So is a leader selfless? I hear a lot yes from your minds assuming you guys say yes! Yes he is is selfless,for instance in an army a Sargent protects his troops without thinking that he may be bombed by the enemies,that Sargent or any other higher officer won't hesitate to surrender himself rather than surrendering his precious troop,but these people are exceptions because the very thought of saving the mother land, shows their selflessness and maturity.

Why leadership matters?
           Ofcourse leadership matters,today the rules, laws,systems and existance of international boundaries, it's a result of leaders or of the box thinking that has given rise to new ideas in this world, how well a leader shapes his  country or organization is the thing that takes them towards that step closer to success
              Lets all try, to become good leaders and think clean and take ourselves and  fellow people lives towards development yet to solve the issues which haunt mother earth, let's start by being that guy who stands alone in a crowd,and we'll later lead that crowd.
             Thanks for your time have a nice weekend.
           

The Wonderland Called Technology.

Hello readers
So it's a rainy Friday here, travelling back home from office. 
              I believe there's an inner power that makes winners or losers. And the winners are the ones who really listen to the truth of their hearts.
- Sylvester Stallone.
             Just analysing as usual what should I write For this week, and just realised that I have become a tech savy and I follow technology intensely!
             Each time I read something about technology I feel amazed, and think about it the great minds behind it.
             Ok lets think about the advancements that the technology has brought in our lives,the kids of this generation I mean the kids after the famous Y2K have seen technology like never before, they are almost born with it,a smart phone, a tablet,the face book,
These tools have become there toys?!
         well that is actually a negative and should be taken care by parents.
             Moving on what really amazes me about technology is the link between me, a gadget, my feelings, and my dependency on a gadget.
               Taking a small instance, suppose we take whats App a famous chatting app for multiple platforms, we depends on it so much the moment we are a part of it, and your brain becomes so accustomed, even before you know it, that at times we get thoughts like "how did I become so used it so fast I just bought my phone a month ago "?.
              For my above example the linkage theory absolutely works, and this theory, is actually used in psychology to gauge a person's interests.

The Awesomeness
               Yes there is an awesomeness about technology, because of its usefulness Practicality,people are dealing in billions, and trillion over wires, across the globe a hundred million job opportunities to all the youngsters who want to provide a service or build something new.

The Paradox
           Some folks are so much involved in technology that they develop feelings towards that which I feel is unfortunate, and not necessary should be the case as it is just an utility and we should  not become the so called " living friends" of technology.
               we must all understand that each and everyone on this planet is using a tech tool not necessarily with a PCB inside but atleast something simple and this is a fact the E waste generated due to all our beloved gadgets is heavier than the weight of the entire world population!
            Finally I am greatful to technology and ask the people involved in building useful tools which gives  us the the opportunity to listen to great music of the pioneers like vivaldi the immortals like Micheal Jackson and the spiritual saints like Thyagaraja.
          Before I end I want to pay homage to the greatest mandolin artist of all times Sri Mandolin U Srinivas who started his heavenly journey today may his soul rest in peace for all my dear readers I would request all of you to pray for his soul and please follow the link to read about this great person.    
                                          en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/U._Srinivas
         
          have a great evening, thanks for your time, talk to you in a week have a nice weekend.
    

The Universal Boss.

Hello readers,so here comes the weekend!

Hope all are doing OK.I am doing almost fine ,why I say almost fine is that,have some questions which keeps my mind wondering and puts me in a fix every time I think about it, and I end up either satisfying myself with an answer just to shut my mind, thinking about it or find the answer,until next time again it pops up and says!"hey you just faked an answer last time so what about this time"!?

                 So my question to all of you the knowledgeable crowd out there is? do all of us have a single universal boss ,irrespective of what we do in life ? think about it, a single person to whom 7 billion people report to,send sign-off mails ,say sorry for not reaching targets?and blasted in a meeting room for not performing  in the 1st quarter or will be removed, from a job for not washing his car,sacked for not spilling coffee on a customer! so the list is endless,but again we come back to the same question is there that one guy whom we can call the one boss for all?

        

                  The immediate question following and which is the most obvious would be is this so called boss a human? or is a force or God himself,my easiest ,answer for this would be 1.Your consciousness 2.Mother Nature and 3.The force what we call God. 

  

                   So taking my answer number one you all know what is consciousness every time you do a thing in your day to day life before everyone else you know whether it is right or wrong ,so from the minute you so saw light till the second the light fades away in your eye you keep reporting to your conscious and always try to stay in the top performer terms with him ,by following what ever he says!and you know at times you are at fault ,yet we ask excuses to our boss and act meaning less on the outer side.So this keeps happening with every single person in life,except for some greatest exceptions ,they are just a handful according to me.

                     The second boss is the toughest boss of all times and he will remain the same until this world ends! OK for people who are thinking I am just being philosophical here ,no I am being scientific about it,I think a simple example will help you understand,There was this very rich man who was very proud his wealth and was a expert in building house which he claimed would resist any type of nature's fury,but one fine day he realized this was not possible but,never stopped making promises to his clients and continued building houses ,but nature gave the taste of his own medicine which was a giant tsunami which washed his own Backyard and converted his own kitchen garden into a grave yard of floating dead bodies! so the inference is that we can never shy away from nature and live as if we don't care about because finally nature is life and life began from it.

                 Well all of you know this force definitely exists some call it God and some call it the positive energy that surrounds good people ,and the negative energy which surround the people who take a bad U turn in life and are confused in  life and hurt this world with their stupid and merciless deeds,but this force wont allow them to live in peace and will certainly will show the way to their end without their knowledge!

 

              So after discussing the three forms of the same boss whom I call the universal boss ,I feel all the three are same but each shows up in different phase of our life  to show their presence to us and alert us,congratulate us and some time warn us in the direction in which we are travelling,but one thing is very evident when ever this leader of the world shows he has his own style of taking things into his own hands like an MD of a company handles a big escalation, but this boss can reset the world in a jiffy! so my message to all those great people who call them business man,and who never do fair business and do shameful deeds such as;

unnecessary deforestation,poaching of those poor elephants,think again you do it next time,because who knows the boss(nature) may be inside that poor animal;you want to kill and you may end up being exterminated from this job called 'living' and from this mammoth 'industry' called earth! and my general request to all my dear readers please follow the policy of live and let live and imbibe it to the future generations who are on their way save the industry and try not to shut it down for ever!

      Thanks for your valuable time will be back next week, enjoy life.

What Would You Do With A Time Machine?

Hello there good morning
          Fine morning here, let me start your day with a thought.
           The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.
            So this question is being bugging me from many years, what would happen if someone would have built a time machine? Would all the great people whom I couldn see give me a chance to say hello and shake their  hand, would it be possible for me to see the Renaissance?
              If that is way too much to ask atleast would it help to atleast go back 6 years back in time , and change my marks in a exam in which I got low GPA or could I born as a dog instead being born like this!
             So million people in this world would have million wishes to make if  such a machine was there today, next we believe in fortune tellers who are, supposed to predict our future but to be frank I don't believe in them as they are too smart for me to just flatter me about my future and earn that extra buck,or the the people who say they read it by just seeing my hand and they call it palm history.
         
  The reality
               Time machines if at all are existing or existed before in any of the mythologies in the world which I am not aware of would be nice but we know in  reality it is not so, and the way I look at it,is there a need for such a machine, if we are on time in life, and make time a horse which you can control rather than allowing time to be your master and you being its slave?
            We all have all the time in this world to think, act and do what we want but half the time we do not know how to use our time in a valuble way this word valueable has a very deep meaning it is not, just a generic meaning that your time is your time and you cannot even think about giving it to others, no it means you have to give yourself time no doubts on that, next give it to your family, next would be your friends and the last and the most important this society.
           Help this society till your clock stops help the people in suffering, teach some good words to the fools  whom you come across, the people who are always in a wonderland called egoism and if you start,doing this from an young age I think you would have no regerts and won't even get thought about that machine which takes you back in time or the future.   Good day people till next week good luck and good bye.

           

Back To The Present!?

Hello readers
Thanks a lot for your time, it's only because of you my dear pals I have reached this far and get motivated each time to write a blog.
            So I am sure most of you would have watched this super hit movie "Back To The Future "so the movie is about Marty Mcfly (Michael.J.Fox) getting stuck in the past or the future with his friend Doc Emmet Brown (Christopher Loyd).
             So if we see the basic concept of the movie it always gives us a message travelling through time is a risky task, well I am not trying to give a review or a promotional ad about this great movie! but what I want to tell you is that, we always live in this present minute, but think about that hour which has past yesterday or will occur tomorrow, believe me all of us would have done this at some point in our life I am no an exception , even I would have done this,and let me tell you this is not an issue with us, it's one of the mechanisms that our brains adapt to think and help you react, a simple example would be you had some allergy to some fruit punch so, next time your buddy offers you to drink you will for sure retort, and you would say no.

why should we live in the present?
             The simple answer would be, is there any use of thinking or living in the past or for that matter mindlessly predicting the future which is uncertain asin the movie back to the future the scientist invents a time machine,and finally realises, that he had made a big mistake, and regrets it in the last part of the movie.
               Our mind rambels to stay in the present and always takes you to the previous day or that cut -away where you were sruck suffering in some situation, which may motivate you or make you quit. Do you know the result of this rambling,you cannot concentrate on your at work or anywhere for that matter and you take double the time to complete the same task that your doing for a long time.
            So next time you decide to do something do it as if your doing it for the first time that will help you get success in half the time you are taking to finish it now,Ok meet you again next week have a great evening, enjoy life.

Think Before You Help!?

Hi readers
Hope Friday is going well to all of you and So my topic for the day seems very selfish isn't? But don't worry I can prove you wrong.
           We have heard of famous proverbs like "look before you leap "and think before you ink " and we would have quoted it to many people at the right instance, but why think before you help?!
       Can help not be done to people who ask for it?
         The answer should be actually to the deserving yes and for the people who act helpless but are looking for an opportunity to get help from others to run way from their problem for them the answer is no.
          let me tell you why we should help this society? you may be ashtounished by me telling that we have not even repaid this society half the help it has given us today!
            Let me explain you this,we were born on that holy day which we celebrate it as our birthday, that is the day your account of receiving your help started from that doctor and nurse who helped you come out of your mother's womb,and ofcourse your motherbecause of who's grace your leading a life today which has a morning and a night a place to sleep and thought you the basic lessons of life starting from how to drink a glass of water for free!
              Then on you have been getting help from the post man, the newspaper vendor, dont know how many servants who cleaned our dirty clothes.
              Not to forget the military and the army whose help can never be repaid by us unless we become one amoung them.
The money motive
                  Now the obvious argument for above that would emerge would be the people whom I have mentioned above do it for the sake of money, and patriotism which is a noble cause to fight for, with the people who say money, I cant say that I completely disagree with them but with a clause for disagreement which is there is motive other than money which is the service minded motive! Yes don't you think so they help you make you come out of our pressure or stress or get your things done on a larger scale protect you.
            The moral of the story is we have been receiving lot of help but, when its or time to return it back we first do this great calculation without any formulae judging the person who had asked you help, and some questions like, why should I help him? Is he worth the help and many more emerge and this has happened with all of us I am sure because we are all humans with limitations except for those like mother Theresa,and the great pontiffs of the world who have done service and given knowledge to the mass who gatherd and gave out their good thoughts to the world on foot, to wish and make this world a better place to live.
The anti-climax
                       So after understanding  how the world has helped us, let's talk some reality,we all must agree to this that we have all been selfish and money minded always, and help by choosing people like roses which are kept in a church and you the 'preist' decides which flower should be kept on his cross?, sorry my friends this is the sad fate of society, which lacks humanity, and I must say we have started thinking in this direction because we cannot, decide when to become selfish and selfless, and the mother of all disease is the expectation we have to always get a help in return or money or gratitude for me all are the same! They were and are few souls who used to help and not think about it, but that population is diminishing as the sun sets each day, we can get over with all the Wars of the world if there is simple factor called "help" and if all the citizens of a country are in unison with another there is no need for a war or a cease fire.Let's start helping people you can start by helping a kid to choose what education to select? Or helping a blind man cross the street, helping your old neighbours who may be ill and there  children are not with them if you start helping, the person next to you will and it goes viral.The great Yoga guru BKS iyengar who can left his body only a few days ago had said he gets pleasure in helping the people around me and he wants to see them fit,and today you can see millions cured of their pain, just imagine the bliss he would have felt every time he healed a person.
               let's stop thinking and start helping and serving this great society, see you next week thanks for your time, good evening.
           

          
              

Motivation-The Guardian Of The World

Hi readers
Great words: when I compose a song, there is no sing because I am the song, the beat the cord and the lyric and the instruments thats what makes music a blissful experiance -Michael Jackson.
         so am sure you know the word motivation, there are many times you have been motivated, may be the you were motivated was by your teacher, boss, mom, some stranger on the road or so on, just recollect, what happened? you felt the punch of happiness, and rage to do what you had planned to before that incident happened.first of all you came out of that lethargic atitude.
                 All the inventions of the world are  results of either an emergency or the need and urge to make that job  simpler and easy.Which is boring but the motive.

Motivation and leadership
            A leader should be  a positive person and should motivate people without a second thought one of the primary duty of a leader is to wake people up from the slumber, low confidence, inferiority about themself and low self esteem.
          So now after talking so much about motivation you can ask me why am I telling you so much about it? The simple reason is that,this world works on motivation it is like a graph which has highs and lows when we feel low the motive will boost the spirit inside us to continue the path in which we started to get to the goal. Let's hope that we are always in the  motivation mode and never look back, and keep moving forward without getting tired.

The Five Elements Of Life

Hello readers
          How are you this evening well I am doing good after a busy week happy friday and a fun weekend ahead.
           I want to tell you a story,some are happy I know because you love stories, at the same time some think it's boring but, I will make it an interesting one that's a
deal and remember there is no time line for this story,and I have left that out to your imagination.
I have titled the story as The boy who
never frowned. So let me begin.....

             This is about a boy named Charles Caltrop,who is known for his cool mind, and happy face, and people around him have never seen him frown, this boy was born in a decent nuclear family, his dad is serving the army and mother a doctor and he is the only son due to their busy work life his parents, hey to spend less time with him, but the boy spends most of the time in a church,and an orphanage near his house where he plays and shares his toys with the less fortunate, so as days moved on the boy Charles has now a hand-some man and chose a career to become  a civil engineer and is now  successful in life and has started his own firm his dad is now a X-service man and happily retired and his mom continuing her great service as a doctor.
         Well life and fate had other plans for him or the almighty mostly would have closed his book of happiness well it seemed that way, the first blow in his life,was when his parents confessed to him that he was adopted and from the same orphanage across the lane and no one knew who were his real parents, Caltrop looked at his parents in distress but was happy as he was among the fortunate who was taken care and bowed his head to his great foster parents.
            But this feeling that he is an orphan still haunts him,now Caltrop is an young man with a successful career and is in love with this girl from school and wishes to marry her, again never told her about this, and finally he asked her hand, was surprised that she was into some other guy and she pleaded to him that she could be his friend Nothing else.After this he never spoke to her.
             The third blow came to his life in the form of nature's fury where his latest building site was destroyed due to a flood in that region.
              With all these negative things in his brain,the small boy who never knew how was it to frown, now does it always and has become an impatient, grim and a saddest who advices people not to believe this cruel world that had played ugly games with him.
           Finally this man's has started a new life after he got married to a lady who was is a very kind hearted person and a top beurocrate, this also keeps Charles away from his wife who is jealous of her because of her money and fame,and finally the happy marriage ended up in a divorce, he never got married again and now an old man who can bearly Walk who breathed his last in an infirmary.
             So my dear readers this person saw it all in his life the five elements which I call them they are,
1.love.
2.hate.
3.happiness.
4.ego.
5.and finally realisation of the wrong steps he took in life.
              The Charles Caltrop is none other than you, me, and every simple soul in this world who are being constantly tested like chemicals in a lab. Therefore make sure you are neutral as water and become that universal solvent and dissolve all the  five chemicals after which you will become the same Charles when he was a kid  who never frowned.
            Life is sweet live it and make the most of every second. Thanks for reading Ok till next week take care.
             
          

Brain Printing-what It is? And Its Impact

Hello
There is no shortcut to hardwork,learn to listen and listen to learn, these are the all time truths that I am following all through my life.
            So what is Brain Printing? It is simple, you know brain and you know printing thats it printing a diagram of the brain? Yes that is the generic meaning but actually what it is differs.
            Brain printing is the process of your brain remembering and the same things repeatedly and getting used to that task.Where do they do brain printing?  Well ask a pre-school kid he or she will tell you the usual class drill of reciting the poems and math tables day in and day out, the reason behind which is to build the basic, foundation of vocabulary, logic and english awarness Ok that is fine,but don't you think there is limit after which this need to be stopped after the child grows.I feel there is strong need to stop this after a certain age.

The positive impact
Let me assure that rise kids will be successful in math and english for sure Ok get along with society how it works, and the usual business of life can be carried on without pain.

The negative itch
          Just try this tell to yourself that you can do something for 10 times and see the change in yourself you will feel and get a little bit of confidence. Don't you?  But all through your life you hear these types of statements such as "you can't, hey loser this not cup of tea, come on try something easy, " please understand these are negative thoughts which get printed in your mind without your own knowledge sorry no one can't change that as it designed to be like that and we can't change, but what we can is imbibing positive thoughts in yourself and also others lets keep that aim in mind and tell I can do ten times a day atleast.
         Thank you adios see you again next week.

         

Point Blank?!

Hello readers
           Hope you are doing fine. Let me start the day with a prayer,I pray to the higher power to help all the people who are in pain and suffering, and also give strength to the soldiers who protect the poor and privileged,and let all the souls who are suffering from war and unfortunate aviation disasters rest in peace.
           Ok moving on with my topic I am sure all of you would have heard of this phrase atleast once in your school life,professional life and so on.We would have heard this in various contexts, the point blank I am referring to is that feeling in your mind where you don't get any thoughts when this happens? Well, it's happened to me many times the situation when it happened to me was when I am bored and absolutely nothing to do. now I am not telling that for all the people who have felt the same are jobless in life.
          But recently I read on flipboard a famous smartphone application that we get such blanks in mind when your brain goes to a master reset mode?  What is that well it's like a RAM over load in  a personal computer.Well if you ask me is it a sign of any disease or is it bad for your health I would say no not at all!  Because these are the times where you get useful thoughts and I feel that it's actually what you really want to think about in life and that is your actual nature with which your born with, I have heard my friends and peers sometimes myself getting questions like how did the human anatomy evolve? Medical science can only explain the mechanism to a certain extent and also they're are no doubt great discoveries but, after certain point they stop and they can't explain you more, if someone asks you a question?  Hey why should I eat and then why should it digest? you may think that guy must be a nut case, but please understand if you just think why he asked you that question you will feel amazed and laugh your self silly and start thinking because you too don't know the answer.
            Dear fellows always think "point blank" and respect these thoughts so that they grow, that leads to higher thinking. Who knows? You may uncover the greatest secret of our existence one day!
            All the best to all and a happy weekend.

The Lonely Man In A Stadium?

Hi readers
How are you doing? I am doing Ok, well it's time  to blog again.
            Who is this lonely man whom I am talking about it is not, as your thinking any great thinker or a sports geek,who was lonely in a stadium no, I am trying to talk about you,me and every other person who,is leading a life of truth, hard work,and the passion lead a simple and satisfied life.

The mode called music
         Ok why am I suddenly diverting the topic to music now? Because it is very closely matches with loneliness.My good experiance with music is it helps me cheer up my mood when I am feeling too low the wonder about it is and everyone should try this out, listen to your favourite song while working or when your trying to crack a serious problem, a cream of memories float inside your forehead and makes you smile silly and you will re-live the moment which would be the first time when you had heard that song.
            Coming back to my topic now people think they are lonely in a haste, before they can even in think of some people whom they could spend some time, and I also admit I have done this and suddenly assumed that I m lonely and sat in a corner of my desk or a garden wondering about life. Dear fellows I request you do this to the least possible times or don't do this at all as you know man is a social animal he needs more than his own heart to survive,and the Stadium I am referring is our earth,it's a damn big place isn't it? So how can you be lonely here? Not a chance the whole world is yours if your think so, and he (God) is always there whether your an aethiest or not.
            People open up help people, and get help, a poet once said "make 3 new friends daily "and at least one of the 3 of many three's will be there during your hard time "
            hope now you could catch my drift that there cannot be a lonely person in this Stadium.
             Before I take leave let's pray for the great soul of Nelson Mandela as we celebrate the first Mandela day from this    year.
           Thanks for your time have a great weekend.
   
          

The Saviours.

Hi readers
Welcome to saturday,a pleasent morning here enjoying my coffee on my couch, perfect time to share my thoughts with my dear readers ,today lets understand who are the saviours .
         Ok let me ask you a small question when was the last time you were helped by someone? Think and comment after reading this blog, and thanks for that in advance,well what can I say I have been  getting help in every breath I inhale and exhale now are you wondering who is helping me in my breathing which I am doing from the day I came out of my great mother's womb?Ok I can answer this question for you,  don't you feel that your very being there standing without a support on your two feet is a  help given by your own body, organs, muscels,bones and brain well these are what I call the silent saviours.
             The nature which of course is the reason why we are here today in our own sweet world is more than a saviour, I consider it as the universal guardian of this huge ecosystem called the earth.
         you may feel  that I am being very philosophical today, but I have to be  as I feel there is a need to be so for the simple reason which is to awaken people around me, and knock their brains, and tell them, wake them from their deep slumber of materialism into the active march of selflessness.
          There was a stage in my life when I wanted to become a doctor but, I couldn't, which I regret at times that I couldn't,but these days I feel there are many other ways of helping people, which though may not be as equal to as a life saving help what a doctor does, but you can definitely do many more things which will make you feel more evolved in your life and give you a vision and meaning for your life.
            Before I conclude I bow to all the people,animals,basically the whole ecosystem which has helped me to make it possible for me to live a peaceful life till this second, and the almighty who is kind to me and prevented Satan to imbibe his evil thoughts to me.
                   let us make this small passing time of what we call life a selfless one and help as many creatures around you  which will evolve your soul.Let us serve this world and remove negatively from it. thanks for reading.And if you find time answer my question! Have a great week ahead.And remember you get a dozen chances to help people and get help from  everyday its up to you to take that help and return the favour.
              

The Oldest Automated Machine.

Hi readers
Well its Friday again, so today let me tell you some simple facts about your own body , we have an internal complex machine called as organ system.
           We react to every move each second because of this, your mind prepares you for each scenario of your day to day life without your knowledge and the back bone of this system is confidence, example you have to drive to a particular place the moment you get on to the vehicle to proceed your already loaded with the route and driving skill,it's believed that to make such a fast computer it would take scientists half the area of uncle Sam!and time all not defined.
            So People you would have definitely watched the movie matrix in which every skill is loaded to them when they want it, the reality is we already have the power of common sense and presence of mind which you have to use more and more often  and make it perfect if you cultivate in improvising these two circuits in the body you will be the super boss of super computers and will have a zeal to clear any problem on earth the simple way to uplift these qualifies one simple rule ' be positive'.
           Thanks for your time.

What If? I Am You And You Were Me?

                  Hello readers hope your doing fine, let me start with a thought, determination is the most powerful lock in the world which is often broken with a master key called distraction.
             So do you think the question which is my title is possible in the known dimensions of the earth ofcourse it is.
             In our day to day life we grow both physically and mentally and develop various qualities among which identity is one which is deep inside your brain printed like a circuit as to who are you, whose son or daughter you are and so many basic questions which you will never forget in your lifetime. But here the whole point is not about your identity or character,it's all about the person who is standing opposite to you.
The Situation
         This is what I wanted to talk about today this factor called 'I' is eating man from within, like a termite eats the tree inside out, the people who have this what  I call the ego disease,are stupid enough not get the point atleast now that they too are  humans and there is every chance they may endup like the latter,the world has one  bad mechanism from time immortal as rightly said by Sir Charles Darwin survival of the fittest,this works on all cases at your home, school and the best version is at your work place where the mindset of some people is worse than a infant who cries to fullfill is need.
              Every person should understand that life is and will not be a smooth ride it will have bumps, ups and downs and also few accidents and mishaps the challenge is to react to all of this in a single calm way and when that is achieved that 'I' will die from his mind and he will start thinking straight, people get carried away by power, money,fame so easily that they forget themselves as to who they were and suddenly act like a royal clan! And treat their own kit and friends like servants and strangers!
               The time they realise their blunder it would have been too late, because they latter would have moved on in life, so my simple message is always think from two sides of a coin built rapport between people when you want to criticise a person just think how it would be if he would have done the same for you? Think about your purpose of life is to make a few friends than a bunch of enemies who hate you and always look for a reason to fight against you so always go with the mindset of putting yourself in people's situation then you will see a light in your mind which I call is the path for clear thinking, thanks for you're time have a nice day.

Come on! Its About Time You Decide!

Hello readers happy weekend so,time to read.
              Let me start, with a simple question today?Have you  made decisions in your life? well I am not talking about decisions like :Ok lets bunk college today, or lets finish some statistics today! I am talking about tough decisions which have started a quarrel at your home and distanced you from them.And that day you felt so bad, but at the later stage your own people realised you were right but that later had become too late!  
                 The greatest disaster in this part of the world well I am referring to the Indian sub-continent is the wrong comparison between children especially with respect to education and continuing education is another pain because here in India arts and humanities are considered as outcasts and people joining to these courses are considered as failures in life, my simple answer to the people of this mentality is that stop being foolish in life who are you to decide your son's or daughters career? Just because your his parent or guardian you cannot be their brain? It is their brain that decides to what field that they want to end up in life? The primary reason for this tazzle is the prestige issue of a mother and the also the father I do not blame them even an inch because the child of this generation after 2000 millennium have been distressed and distracted so much by the forces of technology which has lead to this aimless way of leading life and giving them the feeling of this  'I know everything' and artificial maturity in life. Hence have lost the ability to make decisions. But coming back to my basic question what is that stops to make a decision of your own? My dear friend is about time we break that glass of fear to society, parents,friends and Achieve what we want in life finally it is your life and you will have to lead it alone I mean it Yes all alone think about the un known future take a decision so firm that the devil called money runs away if it just notices your shadow, as the famous business man of all times Warren Buffet said it is ok if you lose few friends and family people today than becoming their problem for listening to their own words and ending up stale!
                Finally want to conclude by saying this world is seeing and enjoying everything around it only because of few people who took good and firm decisions which initially was not liked by the crowd around them, but later could not help liking it as it was one of the best decisions ever taken.Be firm and take the best decision, wishing you all the best, thanks for your time.